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Me, a lesbian? I love men! –Rita Dominic

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image Rita Dominic (Picture by Sola Osofisan)

You have been out of town for some time.

Oh yes. I have been in Jos, shooting a movie. It is actually an Amstel Malta Box Office movie directed by Izu Ojukwu. It has been very tough.

Did you audition for the part or you were just given the role?

Come on! I don’t audition for movies again. I can’t remember the last time I auditioned. Those days are long gone.

You lost your father not too long ago…

Yes, and it was very sad. I loved my father so much. I am the last child and, as you know, most last children are usually close to their parents.

But how come your colleagues didn’t come for his burial? Was it a planned thing?

No. It wasn’t like that. Some of them came. Then again, I was in England when my father died. Just as I came back, I went to the village in preparation for the burial. I didn’t have time to make it officially known to my colleagues. But some of them came, and those who couldn’t come extended their sympathy.

What do you miss most about your father?

I think it is personal. I don’t think I want to talk about it on the pages of newspaper.

Have you always wanted to be an actress?

Oh yes. I don’t think I can remember a time in my life I never wanted to be an actress. Right from the time I was in primary school, I was always featuring in kiddies drama. During my secondary school days, I was a social prefect; I was vice-president of the dramatic club. In fact, I knew I was going to be an actress.

So your eyes were wide open when you decided to study Theatre Arts at the university.

Yes. It wasn’t by chance that I chose the course. My family knew that was my dream. I have always been an entertainer. When we were growing up, my friends would say they would want to be doctors, others would say they would want to be lawyers. But I always said I would be an actress. They would look at me as if I was committing a taboo. But I was unfazed. Now they are happy for me and congratulate me that I followed my dream.

For somebody who had a doctor for father, were your parents comfortable when you decided to go professional?

The truth is that I didn’t have any problem from anybody. I am not from that kind of family. They allowed us to follow our desires in life.

It was like you didn’t take a break. Almost immediately after your graduation, you went into full time acting.

Yes. It was by accident though. I ran into Basorge one day and he told me he was doing a movie, and he was looking for a fresh face. He asked me if I was interested. I agreed and we exchanged details. Two weeks after, he contacted me. That was how my journey began in the make-belief world.

Were you a success instantly?

I would say, kind of. I want to believe so. While my first project was being edited, a producer called and said he wanted me to be in his movie. I played the lead role again. From then on, I played lead roles till I left the industry for a while.

Why?

I was out of the country for some time.

You have done a thousand and one movies, which one do you think projected you most?

I have not done a thousand and one movies; I have not even done a hundred movies. I can’t really say a particular movie shot me up. All the very popular movies were released almost at the same time, so I can’t say which one made me popular.

Do you draw a line between Rita Dominic, the actress and Rita Dominic, the young lady?

As a matter fact, I try as much as possible to keep my personal life out of my career. That is not a question I will answer now.

Rita DominiSo, you don’t see any role as awkward, you can do love scenes?

Oh yes. I am an actress. An actress should play any role, as long as it is an interesting character.

How come you have not thought of equipping yourself more by going to a school of directing or such others, as some of your colleagues are doing?

I am putting one or two things in place in terms of my acting skills. People will soon notice that there is a change in my acting style. I don’t have to publicise it that I have gone for training some place. I don’t think it is necessary. It is just for the public to notice that there is a change in the way I act, and not for me to tell them that I went for training.

In your movies, you seem to do more of the spoilt, rich girl roles. It seems you are stereotyped.

That means you have not been watching most of my movies. Yes I have done these kinds of roles you are talking about, but I have done many other roles as well. In fact, one movie I know that I did very well was the one I acted a village girl. I play everything as long as it is challenging and you can pass on a message through that role. That is actually the most important thing.

These days, actors are turning into musicians. When are you releasing your own album?

No way. I am not a musician. I am an actress. I don’t sing. I can only sing in my bathroom. Professionally, it is not for me.

It is believed that actresses live a fake life.

What do you mean by fake?

I mean they try to live above their means, and they allow stardom to get in their head.

I am not aware of that. With me, I believe that as you grow in life, there are certain things you will get used to. I can’t talk about other people. I only know myself and I know I don’t live a fake life.

You are well over 30, how come you are not married?

Do you know what? I have always wondered why our society is so preoccupied with the issue of marriage. I don’t know why this question is always persistent in interviews.

But it is expected that a young girl should marry when she is ripe…

I think the most important thing we should talk about is actors’ career and not their personal lives. It is personal. I will get married in my own time and nobody will dictate to me when I should be married. If you are nice to me, I will give you an invitation card.

But when you eventually marry and he tells you to quit acting, would you?

No way! I think the importance given to marriage is what makes it survive or not. There is so much pressure and they enter into this lifelong contract, and they end up unhappy. Why would I want to do that to myself? I am going to do what makes me happy. I am not going to succumb to the pressure of ‘Oh when is she going to get married?’ and all that. I will do it in my own time.

 
So, you are not going to get married to please other people?

No way! Are you going to get married to please other people? I ask you. You will get married to please yourself and make your husband happy.

Can you marry an actor?

Why not? As for taking care of the home front, since we do the same kind of jobs, somehow we will compromise and take care of the house.

Actors are usually associated with a lot of scandals, how do you cope?

It is expected that if you are in the public eye, people will definitely talk about you. I don’t think it has anything to do with just being an actor. If you are popular in every industry, people will talk about you.

Back to your career for now, is there any chance that you will diversify, like becoming a director or producer?

I might become a producer much later in life, not now. At one point in my life, I will think of producing a movie.

Artistes pocket so much money now as fees. How much do you charge these days?

You, how much is your salary? I will not discuss that with you, just as you will not tell me how much you are being paid in your office.

We have so many actors and actresses in the movie industry. Do you think it is a good thing?

Not really.

Why do you say so?

Most people coming into the industry are not real actors. They don’t have respect for the work they are doing. I know some of them have the talent, but you ought to go for a course. It is like that in Hollywood.

But are you not saying this because you are scared that these new faces will take the shine off you?

How can? That is not possible. The industry is big enough to take everybody, Competition is a healthy thing. It is good for the industry. All I am saying is that the upcoming ones should come in with something. They should have the talent and the training as well.

As for taking the shine off me, everybody has his or her own strength.

Do you think you have a rival?

I don’t have any rival.

What has acting done for you?

It makes me happy. It has broadened my horizon. I did a film in England and my eyes were completely opened. The experience I got there was different from what I have been used to here.

So, Nollywood is not there yet?

You cannot compare the resources they have out there to what we have. Hollywood has enough resources; we don’t have such.

What is your dream?

I am going to be somewhere that is bigger than Nollywood and Hollywood by the grace of God.

You have won some awards. How does it feel to be recognised and appreciated?

It is one thing to be recognised and appreciated, and another thing to be accepted. That is where I am lucky. My fans have accepted me and they appreciate my work. I am very grateful.

How come your name is always linked with Monalisa Chinda, the actress?

I don’t understand you.

Is it true that both of you are always at loggerheads?

I am not aware of that. As far as I am concerned, there is no feud. We were good friends in our university days, though at some point we drifted apart. We are colleagues now.

But we learnt you were envious of her career…

Why should I be? That is a lie!

Are you debunking the rumour that you are envious of her marriage?

Excuse me. What are you talking about. For God’s sake, I don’t have any problem with anybody. Please, can we talk about another thing? Like I said, there is no problem between me and anybody as far as I am concerned. We are just colleagues now, and I think that is the extent of our relationship.

So, you can do a movie with her?

Sure, why not? I have worked with her; I have been working with her.

Of all your movies, do you have a favourite?

I have a number of them. I do watch my movies. I don’t fall into the category of artistes who do not watch their movies.

Is there a particular movie you did that you wished you never featured in it?

Not really. I don’t think I regret any work I have done.

Do you choose scripts or do you take any script that comes your way?

Come on! I don’t do that. I read scripts and I make up my mind if I want to do the story or not. There has to be a challenge, the story has to be good before I take it. In fact, I won’t lie; I have been looking for a more challenging movie instead of the run of the mill character.

We hear a lot of bizarre things happening in your industry…

Like what?

Like same sex relationships, drugs…

I don’t make it a point to talk about other peoples’ sexual preferences or whatever. I cannot really comment on it. If it is true that people are demanding sex for roles, if it is true that people are practising same sex relationship, then it is not a good thing. I think it is a very wrong thing and they should stop doing such.

But we hear that you are a lesbian…

Gosh! I love men! I love men! I think this rumour started when I featured in a movie Last Wedding, and then Girls Cot. In those movies, I played the role of a lesbian and I think I played it well. I was just doing my job. I was just acting. I am not a lesbian, never!

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Comments (48 posted):

Johnnett Tody on 23 December, 2007 12:15:40
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I think what Rita said is truth because people are too curious about actors personal life than focuing on theirslef. Sorry to hear that your daddy passed. May the Lord be with you and your families.
eno etim on 24 December, 2007 04:58:31
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i think Rita is a very talented actress, she's got what it takes to be an actress and she is good at what she does.she is versatile and can handle any role given to her which is a plus. sorry to hear that you lost daddy. may the Good Lord grant you his peace and be with you and your family.
rahina on 24 December, 2007 11:43:08
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i like her she a good actrees
jossy on 24 December, 2007 11:05:31
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i really want to know wat is going on with rita and jim iyke,though both of them can make a nice couple, so shld we belive that?
Asumah on 25 December, 2007 05:18:48
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I think what Rita said is truth that i believe...Sorry to hear that your daddy passed.She is a good actress....Maybe God will blessing his lord.
jackie on 25 December, 2007 05:31:15
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When you were asked what your dream was, you replied by saying that "you are going to be somewhere that is bigger than Nollywood and Hollywood by the grace of God".
You are a good actress don't get me wrong but girl you mean Nollywood right because if you ever make it to hollywood, you my dear have achieved your dreams of acting and that is if you make it there,because there is a huge difference between Nollywood and Hollywood.
Patrick on 26 December, 2007 11:24:12
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I think that Rita is somehow not reasonable in interview. A good actor should be ready to answer any question in an interview without any comment.It can be your personal life or what ever. that is the spirit of a good actor or actress.
henry on 27 December, 2007 09:08:38
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well wether rita dominic is good oh or bad my own is you guys should hook me up with that chick she is my dream girl i dont mind having her as a wife
Mams saccoh on 27 December, 2007 10:11:43
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U are good,dont worry ur fans like ur movies n love u.
Capt Maxi on 29 December, 2007 01:13:24
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Rita you are a good actress and beautiful. I love your courage and your interview indicates that you are wise. I suggest you get married as soon as possble. What are you still waiting for? Soon the question will be whose wife are you and not whose daughter are you cos you are now over 30 solid years. You must always dance to the tune of your husband, so I marry you acting must stop cos am a jelouse lover. I can't imagine myself watching you in a movie where someone else is romancing you. So now Rita choose between fame and the real life you are created for.
Patience on 29 December, 2007 04:01:08
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Rita, i like you as an actor, and i like the way you anser your questions. I think you are a good and straight person, no pretense. We need more of you in the world. Private life off business. You are great.
Pat. Cameroon-USA
Sonia Ama on 30 December, 2007 02:17:03
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I congratulate you Rita for your hard work, I am a french Nollywood viewer who reside in the UK, married to an ebo guy, I love Naija people you are all my in-laws, well done.
blessed prince okey on 31 December, 2007 08:07:11
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am happy to watch rita,infact she is in my sreem server of my phone always,am sorry that she lost her dard.pls take heart, ilov u rita.
Charles on 02 January, 2008 05:32:18
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Rita, you are the real thing girl. I love your openness and sincerity. Gosh, our pressmen are just impossible at times as if they have stereotyped questions for all guest. Why can't they just concentrate on your career and leave your private life out of the glare of people who search for gossips. Listen girl, do that that give you pleasure and in all remember God. I commend you a great deal.
..Charles
sierraleone4life on 03 January, 2008 12:29:01
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rita is a very talented actress and even upcoming actresses like myself in the united states admires her multi talents.peolpe will talk regardless of what you do.even jesus christ was talked about.just keep your head up and continue doing a good job.WE LOVE U...
francis on 04 January, 2008 01:15:54
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a young and talented actor,pls rita i want to join the movie ind. am just 19yrs old.very talented
idia on 05 January, 2008 04:08:39
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U go girl that why i like u. Tell them i like man ok nd kipe playing ur movie ok girlfriend. New-York City love u ok make us happy.
Achola Innocent on 08 January, 2008 09:43:29
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Rita you are beautiful and tough, i think you will slap your husband in future if he doesnt repect you. Why is it that most actresses are not humble?
e zone on 09 January, 2008 12:48:35
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rita i dont blame you, ne onu gi!, i went england , big deal stay humble and answer questions, im in newyork you dont see me bragging, i been to germany,london, ghana, china at my own cost and im still humble.
you are a typical nija gal
abiodun on 09 January, 2008 05:34:49
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i really love you as an actress. infact i like all your films keep the good work, the sky is not your limit is a steeping stone.
Danjuma Ismaila on 11 January, 2008 09:28:34
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I don't realy see anything wrong with the way Rita Dominic art or perform her own field.I Realy mis you Rita.I like you RITA.I EXPERT YOU'RE COMMENT.CDF
ketsia impoko on 11 January, 2008 11:52:01
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i love rita she plays very well in all her moviesmovies
vivi on 14 January, 2008 04:12:12
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hello Rita Dominic, how is life going with you, i hope you are fine, sorry for your father, life is like that,Rita will you like to be my friend? i am from nigeria too, but i live haer in denmark for sometime now, i hope to haer from you very soon, my sweet sis. all the best to you.vivian
lisa on 14 January, 2008 07:31:55
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i like her
princess on 15 January, 2008 07:12:26
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i luv u kept it up girl
priscy on 16 January, 2008 08:08:19
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rita i admire u very much n hope the best for u.
fannie on 16 January, 2008 01:34:27
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hey, rita i luv our movies. you are beautiful and i would like to meet one day. i live in u.s
daniels on 17 January, 2008 08:10:03
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Rita your great and sweeet.sorry for your dad.remain cool
hott on 18 January, 2008 06:31:26
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keep up the good job.we are pride of u.sorry 4 ur dad.
ruddy on 18 January, 2008 01:59:49
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hii rita,4 me ur d best actress i ve ever seen,am impressed when i watch u on screem,u ve killed me,i w/c i will hv d privilage to meet u,i luv u pass me grl,keep running things aproper,i will soon join u am an upcoming actor and a musician as well,luv u keep it up.
Henry Kay on 22 January, 2008 06:32:39
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Hi pretty,keep doin ur thing.never mind what people say.don be in a hurry.I do watch ur actings.u sweet like candy,klean like white tooth. Am also into actin here in jp. much luv
on 22 January, 2008 11:42:51
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Don't act love scenes, O.K. Be good. I think you're a excellent actress, but I was dissappionted when you acted a lesbian and a nasty girl. I have much faith in you, be appreciative.
yinka on 24 January, 2008 07:51:31
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Rita you are to good i admire you in all your films, pls keep up the good side of you and sorry for your father died may he rest in prefect peace(Amen).
adaobi on 25 January, 2008 12:09:22
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i think she is a good actress.i enjoyed wwatching her movies.she is such a prety girl that everybody will wish to be a friend to.i wish i could get her phone number atleast to be one of fans.will be greatful if you can be able to reply me through my email address.i promise to open a web site as soon as possible to enable us exchange pictures to each other.keep acting and have a nice moment.i love you.bye but will seriousely be waiting for your reply in no long time
The Lord on 26 January, 2008 09:26:50
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I think she is a good actress.i enjoyed watching her movies,she is such a prety girl that everybody will wish to Married .I am single and i am looking for a lady like you to married.I have leaved in many,many,countries of the word,right,now i am about coming back to nigeria.sorry for your dad
alex chukwueke on 28 January, 2008 11:25:06
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you are one of the few nollywood actress that have a very clean white teeth, keep it up.i did like the film you starred in, which you eventually shot the man in a hotel room, that was very funny cheers from your fan.
Benjamin on 30 January, 2008 09:57:50
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Rita..I really love your movies and you are really an actress..I admire you so much and i have fall in love with you and i wish to meet you in person someday..
florence Idigbo on 31 January, 2008 10:55:00
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I love you girl keep on wisening up,I am proud of you .
saeedah on 31 January, 2008 12:56:58
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i must say it loud Rita is hot but i can conclude she has just said the truth she is too sexy to deal wth same sex when we have guys/men longing.keep it real rita!
Tandokazi on 08 February, 2008 04:10:12
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I love the way Rita plays. I really enjoy watching her movies.
miss deegirl on 09 February, 2008 09:52:06
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rita i want ou to be my friend.
you are viry prety.
i live in denmark.please send me you email address and i will mail you.
samson on 12 February, 2008 08:55:02
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baby i love you keep it up, God will take you there(were others have gone, God will take you far. my also an actor
tunji on 12 February, 2008 05:44:25
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Welcome to the fatherless culb world wide! the feeling gets better by the day, Trust me. keep up the good work n be who yuo want to be .our society will push you to do things you might not be happy with , its time to think about urself GIRL!
chu joel on 13 February, 2008 02:50:39
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Rita,your interview requered a reasonable answer and not a bla, bla.I was very confused when you mentioned of looking beyound nollywood and hollywood. Are you thinking of going to ballywood?
Theodora Amamoo on 14 February, 2008 12:51:53
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I like the way you answer your questions. Keep it up and never rush in life God's time is the best.
SERENA on 15 February, 2008 12:30:10
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Rita I like your action in firm, but you date men too much which i dont like.
why did jim Iyke stop your relationship.

I love your movies carry on girl.
Mike murimi on 21 February, 2008 05:12:25
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Rita u are great. Both in real life and on screen. Kenyans loves you. Honour them by paying them a visit.
Iheanyi Olekwara on 22 February, 2008 07:39:24
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My dear Rita, I believe you always give your best in any role you play. people like you should be icon and role model in the industry. Never listen to gossip; To the question of your life, you are the answer and to the problem of your life, you are the solution.

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