I think marrying in the diaspora or marrying from home is the same thing provided you trust the person you are getting married to. The people that live back home are just the same as those abroad. Some people think that marrying from home is better because those in the diaspora are more enlightened and will demand their right in everything, but those from home have more respect and they are serviceable. But I think that is plain ignorance, because I will rather get married to someone who is already enlightened than bring someone from home, who when they get to know how the system works will sometimes dump you. Unless you have already made a committment to someone back home, I think when you live abroad - marrying from home is a waste of money.

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Psalm 34 vrs. 19
Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but the Lord delivers him from them all.