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Originally Posted by ogonna
Not entirely true. Sadly, wife murder and torture are very common in naija - just ask any policeman or lawyer. In fact, the criminal law curriculum for law students in naija is full of wife murder cases. The reason why it may not seem that way is that wife murder in naija is traditionally hushed up within the family for the sake of the kids so that they don't grow up knowing thier dad killed their mum. Sometimes, such murder cases go unreported for that reason. It may also have a class dimension. Poor women from working class and rural backgrounds are more likely to be battered and murdered by their spouses - if you are not from that background, it may seem unlikely to you.
If you go to any major police station or magistrate court in a major town or city in naija, you will hear lots of domestic violence cases. If you ask me, domestic violence is even more of a problem in naija becasue the police and courts won't do much for a battered wife. The policemen are wife-beaters themselves so they will merely taunt the woman and tell her to go home and settle with the husband.
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Bros,
I'm in no way disputing the prevalence of domestic violence in naija, my response was framed within the context of the recent spate of domestic violence cases involving naijas in america
turning DEADLY. I'm merely highlighting the fact that American society presents unique cultural problems and challenges to immigrant marriages/families from more traditional/conservative milieu, such as naija. Consequently a lot of marriages fail as a result of being unable to adjust. Even rearing your child the 'naija' way can become a daunting task.