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Originally Posted by Lafem
@Kikis: I see your point, it's just that the majority of immigrant marriages that fail after arriving in this parts aren't necessarily casualties of domestic violence, as you seem to think. Truth is that some women arrive here and selfishly take undue advantage of a faulty and damaged legal system that promotes/rewards a culture of divorce, a system that many americans increasingly acknowledge is cause for concern. I'm very much in favor of divorce in special cases, especially where the life and general wellbeing of a spouse is endangered a result of abuse, but only as a last resort.  grinning:
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So what if I am just so damn miserable & I have put in every effort I can to make it work but we are no longer happy with each other. Should I stick it out & waste my years making a marriage work just to save face.
Believe it or not, people change & fall out of love. With or without spousal abuse or cheating, I refuse to stay in a marriage that makes me miserable. I have one life to live & I am going to live it to the fullest!