Originally Posted by funmo

Take a deep breath. Breathe in! Out! Innnnnnn! OUT!!!


Yeah, that is a big problem o.
You need to answer some questions first before we can give some advice:

- is he retired?
-Are they visiting from naija, or here to stay?
-Is your husband the only son?
-or the first son?
-Does you husband have any siblings around you?
-Do your inlaws have their own place in town?
-Do they have their own social network - church,kinship group, etc, etc?
-Is the man on good terms with his wife?
-Is your husband on the same page with you, or he is just doing bojuboju?

Answer these first, then we can go from there.