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Originally Posted by leggy
well,he visits just one of them (apart from us)only on weekends but not every weeknd.the other one is tired of his wahala to d extent that he barred only d man's num.
his wife doesnt know i'm uncomfortable with him.....remember that pretence we were taught by our mums bk home then?thats what i always put up....pretence and i'm abt to EXPLODE.
really,i dont think i can talk with my husband's siblings.u know the man is their father.
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Ah well, if the man's children do not want him around, why you? Do not go ballistic and insult him o. You will regret it and his son will not support you. I think you need to tell his son, with no bojuboju exactly how you feel. Tell him if he does not deal with it, then you will stop answering the door ( or whichever threat u think will work). If he calls your bluff, then you have to decide whether you have the courage to follow through or not.
I will not advice you talking to your mum in law o. No matter what, she will neva support her husband over you. In fact, if na the typical naija mother, she will be so insulted that you have the temerity and concobility to talk about her husband like that.
Like I said, all of you need to put heads together and find him something to do. Talk to you husband, or by trickery, ask your mother in law if there is any thing he would like to do.
And yes, if you can use medical excuses or professional excuses to leave house, do what you have to do.
Pele o. GOD will see you through.