Originally Posted by blackbutterfly

EXCELLENT, Funmo...this go lay the foundation down before man sabi how to advice and proceed with this Leggy hin wahala which is a serious problem, o. And I will add to following:

Do you leave in a house or an apartment? Because you really are not obligated to answer the buzzer or door bell. If he rings the door bell/buzzer a couple of time and gets no answer maybe he will get the point.

Also, depending on how close you are to your mother-in-law, maybe you can have a heart to heart with her. Encourage her to occupy her own husband, abeg.'

Abeg, make you send your husband o because na him papa dey drive you to drink kaikai, o. You have to sit him down and talk to him seriously because he might not even be aware that the thing is driving you batty. Na him papa, na him go fit check am without causing animosity which in Naija marriage...make God help you...because no matter how he phrases it, they will all say it's YOU that is the issue not wanting the old man with nothing to do to visit his baby boy's house to see his grandson.


My sister, tread carefully....