My sister,

I dey o! Just goin thru my own wahala and from myfamily. Like most people have said, it's a tough one.

It's especially tough where family is involved and to be honest, I really don't know what to say because I haven't really encountered in-law problems. It's actually my family members who are giving me wahala because I'm no longer carrying their problems on their head... but back to leggy's issues - much as I agree with Ddi's point of view, I also know that sometimes we NEED our own space.

Yes, I know life is too short and all that but sometimes, you just want to be with your nuclear family and that's that!

At these times, I just ask God for peace and the grace to handle the situation because I honestly haven't got a clue on how to deal with this one.

So Leggy my dear, if all else fails, prayer doesn't, ever...use it...extensively...it works! I know