03-27-2008, 03:19 PM
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Originally Posted by leggy
i dont know aw to actually start wat i'm abt to say cos i'm actually pissed off rite now.he started coming over to our house since d day i had my baby(abt 3months ago).He comes EVERY F8CKING DAY.arrrrrrrgh.imagine having d same visitor everyday.eating ur food,using d toilet,taking control of d tv etc,etc.the exact problem is i'm not F8CKING FREE IN MY HOUSE ANYMORE.
i'm not dat free with him.His son is not free with him either.we dont really av anything to say together.i av tried to really stomach his visit but not anymore.he sits in front of d tv from like 2.30pm till 9.30pm(see me see wahala) changing channels anyhow thereby making me miss all my own progms.to worsen d matter,his son is not always around so i'm d one dat sits at home with him from morning till nite,going from one room to d other just to avoid him.hisssssssssss.
At first,he says he was always coming so as to stay with d baby 4 me while i sleep.and once my mum-in law is around,he wont be coming everyday.okay we agreed.my mum-in law has bin around since 2wks now.that is when my father in law now deemed it fit to kuku be coming very early in d morning everyday.his exccuse,i av come to see my wife's face......what d f8uck is dat?
4 heavens sake we are not in naija where pple just come visiting like dat.sometimes we f8ciking need our privacy........to cut the long story short.i av told his son to find a way of telling his papa to reduce his visits.he says he doesnt know aw to tell him which i understand and i told him to tell his mum to tell her husband to PLEASE IN THE NAME OF GOD REDUCE THIS BORING AND ANNOYING VISITS.
ive told my mum abt this but she said i shld not tell my hus but too late i told him already.no regret.i just want y'all to help us out.aw shuld my hus table the matter in front of his mum so dat d mum can table d matter to her hus.(they really fear that man no be small).pls i want ur contributions cos as i'm typing this, himself and my mum in law are rite behind me doing some kurukuru......really i'm pissed off.i dont want to cook anything until he's gone.period.
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i thought u had a problem but you don't ..I'll rather see this as love and not as a nuisance .Flip the coin to the other side and see it as the love and excitement that he has for his grandson and even you his daughter inlaw that is bringing him around . Before you born this pikin was his visit frequent, i doubt... so it boils down to the excitement am talking about .........the tv thing you mentioned is just trivial , you can buy one and put in your room. Also you have to be careful cause one little thing you might do or say could cause a big misunderstanding between you and your husband and then u will be shocked that the same husband that u thought was on the same page with you is now against you .... just be happy and exercise more patience one day the visit will reduce . ..... my dear just flow with the situation things would sort out by them selfs
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Last edited by chi; 03-30-2008 at 07:57 PM.
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