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Originally Posted by Sifu
I thought you were going to say that he has been disrespecting you. Leggy, just try and relax for now. You have your hands more than full right now with a little baby. You have to be careful with how you handle this one because even if you tell you rmother in law to tell him it might come back to bite you in the butt. Afterall they are husband and wife abi. Is there another TV somewhere that he can watch? You should not be worrying about cooking and cleaning after anybody else right now so I definitely understand that. Maybe you should order him pizza a few times then maybe your house will not seem so pleasant anymore. Just relax and let your husband handle this one.
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Well stated Sifu,
Mrs. Leggy, what you're going thru is a temporary situation, or trial, nonetheless if you fail by "pissing" him (your father in law) off; it will bite you for the longest possible time. You may want to adjust your feelings, and actually get closer to the old man
and make him feeellllll more comfortable !!!!. Remember honoring parents is one major way to inherit Godly blessings.
You are thinking of the sacrifices and other things you're losing now, with no regards to how blessed you've been to him. It's a blessing to bring joy and happiness to another. If you can afford a 20in, please buy another one and let the old man be, you'll find the blessings in all this wahala later!
