Originally Posted by Candylecious

I am glad you appreciated my POV.......Afterall, you are the reason we all gathered here..........@ highlighted....I dont blame you; guilt trips are meant to trigger those kind of emotions; fear being a big one!...Hope everything works out for you sis!!....

@ Sifu, I knew someone would come at me with the till you are married post, just like BBfly was told she couldn't possibly relate to a mother's plight because she isn't one......My sister, I might not be married, but I still have a wealth of experience in certain things.....I no need show my dross for public for people to confirm the color.....