Originally Posted by Candylecious

I really am not a "back and forther" as I choose to call it, but this one time, let me give it a go. Your post seemed, IMO to be pointing out the fact that she is not a mother and in that context a lil less experienced, and you as a father had actual experience; if not, then the lil line "from your post, I take it you are not a mother" was tres unneccessary; I would think you intended for it to prove some kind of point............but anyways, what do I know? I have been known to be wrong, you wrote the post, so only you know what you had in mind; but as I no dey your mind, e go hard me to comprehend it exactly the way you intended it.......It doesnt matter anyways!

@ Sifu......my post was more tongue in cheek than combative, I am amused that you found the latter to be the premise!........I am generally a goofball, and I dont take myself too seriously on this site....

Bottomline is this, we all come from different backgrounds and as such are prone to handling situations differently. This does not neccessarily make one way better than the other........what works for Mr A, might not work for Mr B....what goes for the goose does not have to apply to the gander; so to each his own!............And I believe that is why Leggy brought this up here, cos she knew she would most def get varying opinions, then she would glean all she possibly can from it, and use as she sees fit!