sifu my sister, calm down a sec...i was all set to write exactly what you wrote, till i read bbfly's post and realized that she has a point.
kids need structure, and with brittney, they won't get any.
now
i would fight tooth and bloody nail to keep my kid, or even get joint legal and physical custory. no way will i let any man take my kid. lai lai.
but i don't think she is in the right frame of mind to be a mother to those boys right now, with her the structure they need might not be there. i know how my kid reacts when we deviate from our regular schedule.
you're right, kids are not like purses or dogs or shoes you can take back when you dont want them anymore, she should have at least agreed to a JOINT custody, unless she's willing to revisit the terms of the custody when she has herself together.
i wish all of them luck, but especially those two little boys.
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Originally Posted by Sifu
Unbelievable. This is sad. Honestly in my opinion, she should consider herself a failure. How can you just "change your mind" about being a mother. This is a new low even for this woman. You just do not return children. They are not gucci shoes or prada purses for Christ's sake.
Most of us wake up every morning. Get the kids ready, get ourselves ready, make sure clothes are ironed, plan for dinner. Drop kids of at day care, go to work and deal with all kinds of crap, come home then chase the kids around while trying to keep your sanity and most days get only 5 hours of sleep. But you still do what you need to do to keep the family going. This woman has no excuse. She can hire a nanny, a chef, a housekeeper. Even if it means just giving those boys a smile everyday. That is still something. She did not even say joint custody. She should be ashamed of herself.
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