Originally Posted by Thickmadam

sifu my sister, calm down a sec...i was all set to write exactly what you wrote, till i read bbfly's post and realized that she has a point.
kids need structure, and with brittney, they won't get any.
now i would fight tooth and bloody nail to keep my kid, or even get joint legal and physical custory. no way will i let any man take my kid. lai lai.

but i don't think she is in the right frame of mind to be a mother to those boys right now, with her the structure they need might not be there. i know how my kid reacts when we deviate from our regular schedule.

you're right, kids are not like purses or dogs or shoes you can take back when you dont want them anymore, she should have at least agreed to a JOINT custody, unless she's willing to revisit the terms of the custody when she has herself together.

i wish all of them luck, but especially those two little boys.