Thread: Career Or Kids?

For me kids come first but you can combine both.

career be4 kids,no use having kids i wont be 'round 2 take kare of

Originally Posted by Nne-Baby

i juggle both!!! it's just a matter of dedication and priortising one's schedule to avoid conflict.

my upbringing has contributed in being able to juggle the two. being a naija woman, i'm very strong and don't break easily under pressure.

with God on one's side, I don't see why not.

with u on that one

Multitask - Career and Kids...am not the first to do that. Womens timing at times can go wrong...maybe be 1/2 Career-kids- more career.

To my own knowledge i fink career should come first b4 kids,to pay full attention on ma kids.

At times u don't get what u want.not that u wouldn't want to but its 'cos of the way life at times posess things to be.I for one would prefer to have children b4 going fully into career but u see opportunity may come ur way when u are having or bringing up ur kids.so what do u do?forfeit it?NO. u take the bull by the horn.So I can combine both when the need arises.

i can manage both, is all about determination and planning. i will choose a workplace that is flexibility.

Originally Posted by mamarita

Seeing as I am having children just to make my parents happy, as I don't personally fancy children...anywayz, I'll ship my kids off to my parents or parents in-law and focus on my career Unless my kids don't want me to send them to Harvard and Yale

You want to ship the kids to your parents or in-laws, so that 2morrow you'll equally ship the blames on them. Your career without your kids is useless.

Originally Posted by sonia

You want to ship the kids to your parents or in-laws, so that 2morrow you'll equally ship the blames on them. Your career without your kids is useless.

Originally Posted by afrosista18

mr okestra, u say that very easily, u men of today, after saying all these things, you want to go to the village to pick a girl for marriage,becos city girls will not stay at home to take care of you and your children,she has a dream too. so wha, are you tryin to telli me now that, you want a wife your goin to be changing your time with? one takes care of them today, 2morow anorda? i see.

And there's something wrong with that?

would combine both.

Originally Posted by moviewizard

would combine both.

Abi ooo.its better,time wouldn't wait for anyone.

Doing both is the best. When your kids grow up, you will put more effort in your career. Then you will be a proud parent/parents.

NGo u stay in japan? u know the language? me thinks japan is cool