I think many gurls here need to read this article, especially the bolded portion:

Deal-breaker #4: Lusty story-telling
Christina Gregory of New York City just about fell off her chair when her date—a successful, seemingly mild-mannered guy—informed her he enjoys “sensual massages” on his lunch break. “I thought, ‘That’s it—I’m never going on another date again!’”

But it’s not just the freaky stuff that sends a potential suitor packing. “You shouldn’t talk about sex at all on a first date,” says Toni Coleman, Ph.D., a relationship expert based in Arlington, Virginia. That includes: What you’ve done in the past, what your friends are doing, and what you’re willing to do later tonight. Why? It’s too much, too soon—you risk making your date uncomfortable, Coleman explains. And believe it or not, he may be more skeeved than stoked to hear about your sexual prowess, says Leu. “Girls sometimes say provocative things the first night out with a guy because they think it makes them look sexy, but it can make them seem somewhat trashy.”

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By the action of the colonization of Africa by the West, it (the West) should be prosecuted for the rape of a minor. It is not for nothing that the phenomenon (colonization) is shamelessly referred to as 'penetration'

For posterity, the ninteenth century will be the period in which Europe was gripped by a wave of lust. It became a competition to see who could penetrate the farthest. Who cares if the victim brutally robbed of her virginity remained marked for the rest of her life?

Which one is pillow talk? Putting a pillow over ur mouth and talking tru it? lol

i think so utch. lol

16. A man is incomplete until he is married. After that, he is finished

Hahaha

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What I would've said is I love to give sensual massages to my significant other whenever I can. Guys too dey miscue! The reason people say don't talk about sex on the first date is because men get too carried away with it, go overboard and turn from Mr. Could-be Right to Straight-up Sleazy faster than you can blink. Women, which one of you here does not like massages? Lie make I catch you! Plus, don't forget that that 'first' date usually comes after you guys have chatted and talked on the phone a couple of times and unless you want your convo to be boring...

Finally, most dates are at NIGHT! Wetin remain again? I don't advocate trying to have sex on the first date though. For me, even if I thought there was something, it dies right there. I don't want it to seem too easy. After three dates though? My little (*cough cough*) black book comes into play.

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i don't understand this number 18

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SOMETIMES IT IS HARD TO SEE THE PLACE,GOD HAS CALLED YOU AS A PLACE OF BLESSING, BUT THATS WHEN YOU'VE GOT TO HOLD ON AND TRUST THE PROCESS
PEOPLE TEND TO DRAW OTHERS BACK FROM THINGS THEY SECRETLY WOULD HAVE LOVED TO DO BUT ARE NOT CAPABLE OR DARING ENOUGH TO DO
THEY WILL ALWAYS TALK BUT YOUR CHOICE IN WHO YOU LISTEN TO IS WHAT MATTERS......