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MATURE: submitting to love making by force
people dont connect this wirh rape,its more to do with ur loved one wanting it by all means and using emotional blackmail to have his or her way thru it,lets not attribute making love by force with men alone some women do it too!
Submit by force?
By SAMOD BIOBAKU & ASHAMU ADEGBOLA
Sunday, November 5, 2006
Esther
What are you talking about? My guy making love to me by force? Except he is out of his mind. That’s absolute nonsense! Why would he do that for crying out loud? See, he doesn’t need to go through the stress when in fact what he needs to do is put me in the mood, and we’ll do it till we both get tired. Ehn now! It’s no big deal after all.
Akinyemi Opeyemi
For me o, I’m not always in the mood to make love. Any girl that tells you she’s always in the mood must be a nympho, and they’re dangerous. Well, if my guy wants to do it by force, I’ll tell him I’m not in the mood. If, however, I realise that he’s getting too forceful, I’ll allow him to have his way because if I deny him, he’ll probably get his satisfaction elsewhere. As a matter of fact, no right-thinking lady should deny her husband fun.
Adeola Adeyeye
Look, let me tell you; a man can rape his wife. But, I feel a man should be able to compromise. Any man that cannot control his sexual urge is an animal. Have you also looked at the opposite side of your question? Suppose he is tired and the lady demands, and insists to have fun? The fact remains that if I’m tired and not in the mood to make love, I’ll stand my ground. I expect him to understand, except he wants to be the only one to enjoy the show.
Stella
Ah, that is barbaric now. I know it happens, but no man can force me into having fun with him. For a man to do that successfully with me, he must be armed and ready to use it on me. Anything short of that, I’ll resist him to the end. Come to think of it, do you realize that that is rape?
Kemi Oke
It could be a situation of not having a choice really. So, I’ll give it to him if that would discourage him from looking outside for satisfaction. Some people might call it rape, but I see it differently particularly if we are married. It is terrible for a man to try that on his woman. As a matter of fact, sex is better enjoyed when it is mutually done. It becomes sadistic if one partner exploits the other, for whatever reason.
Titilayo Obadina
I’ll let him do it because the truth is that sex helps me sleep well. Good sex really helps my sleep(laughter). Try it if you have any doubt. You’ll be addicted to it. Sex is important at the point when the man needs it because if you slack, there are hundreds of women willing to give. You can’t be that tired as to refuse your man sex. It makes sense to submit at any time he desires it.
Damilola Ogidan
Not today, I’m not in the mood to discuss with anybody. You can ask other babes around here.
Toyin
It would be wrong, very wrong for him to force me when I am not in the mood. Ah, when I am tired? That’s not fair now. I expect him to understand that I’ll be “off duty” for a day or two, after which we resume our usual action again (laughter).
Seun Olayode
Actually, sex is made for two, not one person. The guy alone shouldn’t be the one to enjoy it, except he is selfish. So, if I tell him I’m not in the mood, it would be wrong for him to force me. If he’s really committed to the relationship, I expect him to understand. That shouldn’t even be license to look elsewhere. Why should he look elsewhere? Is it food?
It’s wrong for a guy to force his woman. Any wise guy should learn to control his sexual urge.
Damilola Olusola Oke
I’ll have to satisfy him because if I don’t, that would be license for him to fornicate. Guy’s don’t like to be denied, so I’ll give him what he wants. Come to think of it, if the guy is really good at it, he can always put me in the mood, even when I’m tired.
Folaranmi Fagbulu
There are ways to make a man understand that you’re not ready to make love at that time. For instance, I’ll make him understand that it is not every time a lady feels like having fun. But, if he is smart enough, and knows how to do his homework well, he should be able to put me in the mood, to the extent that I’ll be the one begging him not to break the rhythm.
Tina Omugbe
Ah, no man can force me. First and foremost, I’ll let him know that I’m not in the mood to make love. My body language will reveal my mood to him. But if he fails to understand, I’ll tell him pointblank. If I sense that he wants to apply force, I’ll resist him. But if I can’t, I might just relax and let him have his way, lest he hurts me. That’s why I love a guy who’s sexually creative. That sort of guy knows how to turn things around.
Damilola Olatubosun
For my guy to resort to brutish force just because he wants to sleep with me, perhaps realizing that I’m not favourably disposed to his demands, then something must be wrong somewhere. Some ladies refuse to sleep with their guys for good reasons, sometimes out of fatigue. Yes, I agree with you that some do it for selfish reasons. But by and large, it depends on the couple. It is left for the guy to verify the excuse that his girl is giving him. If her reasons are genuine, he has a duty to concede to her, after all she’s been giving it to him per second, per second before. So why should it a do-or-die affair now?
Rasheedat Mohammed
Ah, if he forces me, I’ll let him do it to avoid trouble. Mind you he’ll enjoy it alone. But, at the end of the show, I’ll make him understand that he forced me to do what I didn’t want to do.
Funmi Ayoade
My husband forces me to sleep with him? Why would any sane man do a thing like that? As if I’m no longer his. Even if I am not in the mood at the time, it’s no reason for him to force me now. This thing takes understanding for it to be mutually beneficial to both parties. I’m sure he won’t expect me to just jump into bed with him like that, when I’m not a robot without a feeling. For it to be enjoyed, both of us have to be simultaneously in the mood.
Anyway, you know that some men are very stubborn. So if I meet that type and he insists on doing it without minding my mood, I’ll allow him to have his way, but he certainly won’t have the best of me, I swear.
Mary Okwuone
It is not ideal for my husband to attempt to force me to bed. It is not all the time that a woman is in the mood, even you men. So, why force me? If I have good reasons to refuse him, I would not hesitate. But if he insists, I would leave him to please himself. I know that men behave like that sometimes when they are tense up. That explains why some of them patronise prostitutes. They just want to let off steam, that is just it.
Rukayat Shoneye
Ah! Why now? If I am not in the mood, I will tell my man, and I expect him to understand that I am not ready for fun. Why are we husband and wife after all? However, one thing that cannot be taken away is the fact that if he insists, I have a duty to oblige. In that case, however, I’ll just lie down there without contributing to the action. You bet, in the end, he’ll regret it because he’d not enjoy one minute of the action. How can he, when I am absent, if I may use that word?
Yinka Agunbiade
My husband? Ah! How can a man attempt to do that to his wife? That is not proper now. At least, a man should treat his wife with some respect, even in bed. If for some reasons I am not able to satisfy his sexual desires at that material time, he shouldn’t compel me to do it. Yes, of course, after all it’s not everyday that I decline. But it makes all the sense to allow him have his way if he insists.
Tina Akao
My husband forcing me to bed? What kind of husband would force his wife to bed? Is that not rape? I pray not to have such a man in my life. You see, one thing about lovemaking is that a day or a week lay-off makes the whole thing very interesting. Bearing in mind that why should a man want to go crazy simply because his woman denied him sex? That’s madness, isn’t it? Such a man does not deserve a good woman like me.
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