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amamellow · #1 (**permalink**) 01-24-2007, 11:16 AM

I just do not really understand why some people allow this in their

relatioship, do these people have too much love for their partners or love to be beaten

i do not get it, some people will say oh its one of those things , he apologised so its okay he will not do it again and the next time he will be doing the same thing.

Have you been in any voilence relationship before and how did you cope, whats your advice to your fellow women and for the men why do you do it? Not saying some women are not violence but the men do it so often

, do you have stories to share .

To me i think if he beat you once he will do it again and again so you better run , heard jayz abuse beyonce so many times and am like what

but it may be rumours

Field Marshal · #2 (**permalink**) 01-24-2007, 11:22 AM

Any bobo wey dey beat im girl or wife get serious problem full stop! If de bobo wan fight maki im meet me for de corna of broken nose, fat lip and black eye. Na dia i go let im meet mai knukles!

Idiots!

iuwa · #3 (**permalink**) 01-24-2007, 11:25 AM

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Originally Posted by amamellow

I just do not really understand why some people allow this in their

relatioship, do these people have too much love for their partners or love to be beaten

i do not get it, some people will say oh its one of those things , he apologised so its okay he will not do it again and the next time he will be doing the same thing.

Have you been in any voilence relationship before and how did you cope, whats your advice to your fellow women and for the men why do you do it? Not saying some women are not violence but the men do it so often

, do you have stories to share .

To me i think if he beat you once he will do it again and again so you better run , heard jayz abuse beyonce so many times and am like what

but it may be rumours

When your not in the situation, you will not know. There are many reasons why some people are strong enough to leave an abusive relationship and others are not. You are only looking at the situation as an outsider.

I have never been in a situation like that and I pray to God I never will be. Women/Men are head-strong of conditions they will never accept however things can always change once your in that type of relationship.

amamellow · #4 (**permalink**) 01-24-2007, 11:44 AM

you are so funny fm, you know say if you beat me i will never come back to that mansion again oh

QUOTE=Field Marshal;475282]Any bobo wey dey beat im girl or wife get serious problem full stop! If de bobo wan fight maki im meet me for de corna of broken nose, fat lip and black eye. Na dia i go let im meet mai knukles!

Idiots!

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amamellow · #5 (**permalink**) 01-24-2007, 11:46 AM

i really want somebody to share his or her story with us so that we know what they really go through

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Originally Posted by iuwa

When your not in the situation, you will not know. There are many reasons why some people are strong enough to leave an abusive relationship and others are not. You are only looking at the situation as an outsider.

I have never been in a situation like that and I pray to God I never will be. Women/Men are head-strong of conditions they will never accept however things can always change once your in that type of relationship.

KikisMuffin · #6 (**permalink**) 01-24-2007, 11:50 AM

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Originally Posted by amamellow

Am so glad you were able to get out of this my sister, do you mind sharing your story with us and what you did to get out , it might help somebody you know

But Amamellow, Iuwa no talk say she been dey inside that type of situation before nah!

amamellow · #7 (**permalink**) 01-24-2007, 11:54 AM

not very awake kikis, thank you oh will edit my post

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Originally Posted by KikisMuffin

But Amamellow, Iuwa no talk say she been dey inside that type of situation before nah!

Field Marshal · #8 (**permalink**) 01-24-2007, 12:04 PM

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Originally Posted by amamellow

you are so funny fm, you know say if you beat me i will never come back to that mansion again oh

Mai Ashanti Princess....de day wey I even tink of touching u violently...............may mai fingers bend back andi gii me a tooth losing slap! Botu, u sabi sey we dey ruf small wen we dey do awa bedmactics na? Dat wan na exceptions!

amamellow · #9 (**permalink**) 01-24-2007, 12:19 PM

me i dey vex with you well well

, why all the attention you dey give kikis of late

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Originally Posted by Field Marshal

Mai Ashanti Princess....de day wey I even tink of touching u violently...............may mai fingers bend back andi gii me a tooth losing slap! Botu, u sabi sey we dey ruf small wen we dey do awa bedmactics na? Dat wan na exceptions!

Field Marshal · #10 (**permalink**) 01-24-2007, 12:48 PM

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Originally Posted by amamellow

me i dey vex with you well well

, why all the attention you dey give kikis of late

Wia? Huu tell u so? Hmmmmm! No mind de rumour mongers o! Na u be de centre awa world o!

I hope kikis no go see dis wan!

lola_americana · #11 (**permalink**) 01-24-2007, 01:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Field Marshal

Na u be de centre awa world o!

ehn FM wetin i hear you tok. ehn answer me.

Field Marshal · #12 (**permalink**) 01-24-2007, 01:35 PM

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Originally Posted by lola_americana

ehn FM wetin i hear you tok. ehn answer me.

Chineke nnam o!

U no hia di ting i tok well well! I tok sey my world no fit balance unless u dey insai ram! Tru to mai godu! Seniore rita, u sabi sey u be mai onle chikito and me ya papi!

Com tok to me in awa language of LUV! Spanigbo!

lola_americana · #13 (**permalink**) 01-24-2007, 01:44 PM

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Originally Posted by amamellow

I just do not really understand why some people allow this in their

relatioship, do these people have too much love for their partners or love to be beaten

i do not get it, some people will say oh its one of those things , he apologised so its okay he will not do it again and the next time he will be doing the same thing.

Have you been in any voilence relationship before and how did you cope, whats your advice to your fellow women and for the men why do you do it? Not saying some women are not violence but the men do it so often

, do you have stories to share .

To me i think if he beat you once he will do it again and again so you better run , heard jayz abuse beyonce so many times and am like what

but it may be rumours

i guess they trying so hard to believe that he's worth it even when you know he's not. you turn into this naive person you're usually not and you can't even follow the advice you give to others on situations like this. believe it or not NR actually helped me through a situation like this. i mean i knew the right thing to do but i conflicted at the time and a whole bunch of tough love from my NR fam actually snapped me back to reality.

lola_americana · #14 (**permalink**) 01-24-2007, 01:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Field Marshal

Chineke nnam o!

U no hia di ting i tok well well! I tok sey my world no fit balance unless u dey insai ram! Tru to mai godu! Seniore rita, u sabi sey u be mai onle chikito and me ya papi!

Com tok to me in awa language of LUV! Spanigbo!

lmao

FM i swear you no well.............anyway i just wanted to confirm what i heard was correct you were five seconds away from getting banished to the couch tonight.

damselangel · #15 (**permalink**) 01-31-2007, 09:31 AM

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Originally Posted by Field Marshal

Any bobo wey dey beat im girl or wife get serious problem full stop! If de bobo wan fight maki im meet me for de corna of broken nose, fat lip and black eye. Na dia i go let im meet mai knukles!

Idiots!

Lol