You sef dey ansa! Make you give Papa make im ansa as well.. As I'm sure im dey dia right now....

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sidneyyy!!!!!!!! how do you know? have you tasted HOT breastmilk before?????????? u nasty

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Sidney
I am watching u o!!

Ehen ojare Leggy:
Its not enuf to lock door and comot. How long will you do that?

I have more questions:
Why does he not visit the others like he does your house? Do they live far away?
Does his wife know that you are uncomfortable, or she thinks everything is peachy?

Are you close to your inlaws (siblings)? You think you can talk them into inviting him over to their home regularly so that you can share the burden?

The man is retired and bored. You all need to put heads together and find him something to do.

Tread softly o.

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Remember dat time now.... Only you no get belly and we just dey practice...

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It is absolutely silly and unproductive to have a funeral for the word nigger when the actions continue.
We need to have a movement to resurrect brothers and sisters, not a funeral for niggers, cause niggers dont die
Project Roach - Nas (feat Last Poets)

Eh!!! More questions!?!?

Leggy: Run before Funmo question you like WAEC & JAMB combined!

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It is absolutely silly and unproductive to have a funeral for the word nigger when the actions continue.
We need to have a movement to resurrect brothers and sisters, not a funeral for niggers, cause niggers dont die
Project Roach - Nas (feat Last Poets)

I am warning u o.

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I use the "not at home" approach with pests and people that don't like to call first however pests will always find away, whether it is calling and catching you off guard, which will mean they know u are at home, or by retrieving some means of getting in the house enyway... ie a key.

The other problem is if you do not live alone other people will give you away and may not agree to go along with the plan, ie, the husband not wanting to ignore his daddy buzzing the bell or the baby being woken up by the noise and screming, thus giving the game away.

The other thing with pests is that they often DO NOT get the message that is being relayed to them which can result in you being rude to them causing further wahala.

I suggest leggy takes a trip to her parents/ close relative/friend's house for a little while.

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one more pim! from you

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Leggy, inlaw issues are very delicate and as i neva get experience make i no go worsen situation but emmm....maybe u shld go to a friend's house in the morning before he comes over and come back late evening when he must have gone...tell him ahead of time say from henceforth, u dey carry ur baby go check-up now? and say the doctor said u shld be coming everyday until further notice, abi him wan follow go dat one too?

@funmo u funny o....dem say fire on d mountain-run, u still dey ask wetin cause the fire...lmao
@sidney....ur own na serious problem, u need paracetamol, u no well at all o..

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well,he visits just one of them (apart from us)only on weekends but not every weeknd.the other one is tired of his wahala to d extent that he barred only d man's num.

his wife doesnt know i'm uncomfortable with him.....remember that pretence we were taught by our mums bk home then?thats what i always put up....pretence and i'm abt to EXPLODE.

really,i dont think i can talk with my husband's siblings.u know the man is their father.

sydney dont kill me o.dont let the man think i'm laffing at him abeg

i wish they lived nearby........even if they did,dont u think they too will get bored of me if i go there everyday

NR, pls now, you guys are killing me softly ooo! chei! Laughter is good for the soul sha!

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Ah well, if the man's children do not want him around, why you? Do not go ballistic and insult him o. You will regret it and his son will not support you. I think you need to tell his son, with no bojuboju exactly how you feel. Tell him if he does not deal with it, then you will stop answering the door ( or whichever threat u think will work). If he calls your bluff, then you have to decide whether you have the courage to follow through or not.

I will not advice you talking to your mum in law o. No matter what, she will neva support her husband over you. In fact, if na the typical naija mother, she will be so insulted that you have the temerity and concobility to talk about her husband like that.

Like I said, all of you need to put heads together and find him something to do. Talk to you husband, or by trickery, ask your mother in law if there is any thing he would like to do.

And yes, if you can use medical excuses or professional excuses to leave house, do what you have to do.

Pele o. GOD will see you through.

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