i dont know aw to actually start wat i'm abt to say cos i'm actually pissed off rite now.he started coming over to our house since d day i had my baby(abt 3months ago).He comes EVERY F8CKING DAY.arrrrrrrgh.imagine having d same visitor everyday.eating ur food,using d toilet,taking control of d tv etc,etc.the exact problem is i'm not F8CKING FREE IN MY HOUSE ANYMORE.

i'm not dat free with him.His son is not free with him either.we dont really av anything to say together.i av tried to really stomach his visit but not anymore.he sits in front of d tv from like 2.30pm till 9.30pm(see me see wahala) changing channels anyhow thereby making me miss all my own progms.to worsen d matter,his son is not always around so i'm d one dat sits at home with him from morning till nite,going from one room to d other just to avoid him.hisssssssssss.

At first,he says he was always coming so as to stay with d baby 4 me while i sleep.and once my mum-in law is around,he wont be coming everyday.okay we agreed.my mum-in law has bin around since 2wks now.that is when my father in law now deemed it fit to kuku be coming very early in d morning everyday.his exccuse,i av come to see my wife's face......what d f8uck is dat?
4 heavens sake we are not in naija where pple just come visiting like dat.sometimes we f8ciking need our privacy........to cut the long story short.i av told his son to find a way of telling his papa to reduce his visits.he says he doesnt know aw to tell him which i understand and i told him to tell his mum to tell her husband to PLEASE IN THE NAME OF GOD REDUCE THIS BORING AND ANNOYING VISITS.

ive told my mum abt this but she said i shld not tell my hus but too late i told him already.no regret.i just want y'all to help us out.aw shuld my hus table the matter in front of his mum so dat d mum can table d matter to her hus.(they really fear that man no be small).pls i want ur contributions cos as i'm typing this, himself and my mum in law are rite behind me doing some kurukuru......really i'm pissed off.i dont want to cook anything until he's gone.period.

Leggy!?!?!

Na you de vex like dis wey you come dey throw f-bombs?!?

This is a tough one... I would say, either start inviting ya own family make dem kuku come as well. Or be leaving the house and lock up. So when he comes, you tell him you are going out and have to lock up. Hopefully he'll get the message....


Or tell FM to send his area boyz to ya house everri morning.....

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Yeah, that is a big problem o.
You need to answer some questions first before we can give some advice:

- is he retired?
-Are they visiting from naija, or here to stay?
-Is your husband the only son?
-or the first son?
-Does you husband have any siblings around you?
-Do your inlaws have their own place in town?
-Do they have their own social network - church,kinship group, etc, etc?
-Is the man on good terms with his wife?
-Is your husband on the same page with you, or he is just doing bojuboju?

Answer these first, then we can go from there.

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Funmo? Which kin Dr. Phil SAT you dey give Leggy now? De woman get knife for hand you wan make am fill out questionaire.....

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LMAO

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sydney thank u for making me laff.i luv u for that.ur two posts are funny

Well if they are just visiting, then you tell her to be patient, abi what can you do?
If the husband does not have the courage to talk to his parents, you can cry all you want, and he will sympathize in private, but will not say a word in public.


I just want to know exactly what kind of lemons she has, so that we can make realistic lemonade. Abi how u see am?

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U too fill the questionnaire now? U dey waste Dr. Mrs Phil time o.

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whew!!! this is a tough call o.............with in-law issues, u garra be really careful. but like sidney said, try to leave the house and lock up before he gets there, take your mother inlaw with u to the grocery store/regular store so that fada-inlaw will not meet anbody at home when he comes....................... i dont know what to say anymore at this point. where are the married people in the house,amet,sifu,aunty olaafol,bollyd, jummyb, prettygirl, oga sola, okestra,AUST-NNE () and my other married ppl that i didnt put their names on here.............biko how do you deal with this one o?????????????????

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No mind Funmo, wit im marriage counselor diploma from Ajegunle Tech....

Take it easy sis! I heard if you are breast feeding while angry, the milk comes out hot... Think of de baby!

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okay,Funmo,thank u for these questions.
1)fully retired......if there's any other word to use other than retire.
2)he f8cking lives in this cvountry
3)my hus is d last born
4)my hus has other sibblings in this country.two
5)the man is on good terms with his wife ke
6)really i dont know if he's on d same page with me........i no send am

If he is chilling at the house all day urry day I suspect he has door keys and if he doesn't and she wants to lock up I doubt he will get the hint, cos by now he sees it as his second home...

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