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#1 (**permalink**) 10-27-2004, 04:46 PM

OK, we have all been talking of love and all, how about the sometime inevitable break-up?

Have you ever had to do the actual break-up? What did you say? How was it like?

I heard the common line is "It's not you, its me......."

Mine once was: "Seriously, I cant keep pretending I still feel the same way about you, I want out, I am frustrated!" And he reminded me that I never showed it. That we just made love the week before thenetc. And the magic word was when I told him that I faked all the ...... you know"

It ended!

Dont even dare call me any name! I was tired of playing good girl while dying inside daily!

mamarita · #2 (**permalink**) 10-27-2004, 11:07 PM

OUCH!!! That must have hurt, why do women lie about the big O and make the men feel special! Let them know to work harder o jare.

mamarita · #3 (**permalink**) 10-27-2004, 11:08 PM

Oh back to your question...I've always liked the "You like me a lot more than I'd ever like you. It feels like am cheating you, and I don't like that....so am letting you, the best thing that ever happened to me go....if you come back to me and I feel a lot more for you, I'll grab you and never let you go again, if not...OH WELL. We'll still be friends"...

Of course water has to come out of ur eyes every now and then

grafikdon · #4 (**permalink**) 11-02-2004, 12:06 AM

" I will take it back. I shouldn't have said I loved you, I am not ready for that. Let's just be friends"

Truth be told: Those were the words said to me. I can't tell ya what I did 'cause I haven't done that yet but I sure can tell ya the kind of devastating effects it brings upon the 'victim'.

grafikdon · #5 (**permalink**) 11-02-2004, 12:08 AM

Shoot! Duplicate post! You can't delete a post in this site can ya?

Hubscrown · #6 (**permalink**) 11-02-2004, 12:57 AM

This is not funny or cool, I actually did like Mamarita with exception of promising a rebound.

Something like:

I think you are giving too much than I do, which I believe is not fair. I think its better for me to stop wasting your time, I wont be able to give time needed into this.

Thats was like 2years ago, despite she long for a rebound, I never let it happened. She got married last August. She still get intouch with my fomily sent them wedding pictures and all, but we never on a same ground even last march she gave me the wedding plans, rubbing it at ma face, disguise to talk to me on IM, deg woman I said its over!!! Well that would have been my first marriage because I have in mind of doing that thing when I was still young (23) and clueless.

Talking of that, she wrote me a letter that time (2yrs ago) which I didnt bother to open. I opened it like a month ago and the letter message said "Read this on your birthday". I guess I have to wait till next year again

***I hope I didnt take your time***

Sola · #7 (**permalink**) 11-02-2004, 04:59 AM

This is a terrible thread to read! What with Angelsty leaving these blank spaces in the middle of posts, wasting "the Internet" and my time by making me scroll all the way down to read what could have just been posted in a new paragraph...

Grafikdon now doing exactly the same thing (it gets tiring! Once is enough!)...

And Hubs reducing the font size of his post so much that its almost unreadable...What is the point of that?

I'm out of here and I'm not coming back!

Simisola · #8 (**permalink**) 11-02-2004, 06:08 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sola

This is a terrible thread to read! What with Angelsty leaving these blank spaces in the middle of posts, wasting "the Internet" and my time by making me scroll all the way down to read what could have just been posted in a new paragraph...

Grafikdon now doing exactly the same thing (it gets tiring! Once is enough!)...

And Hubs reducing the font size of his post so much that its almost unreadable...What is the point of that?

I'm out of here and I'm not coming back!

Pele, come and take d Tom-Tom in ma hand.

Sola · #9 (**permalink**) 11-02-2004, 10:41 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Simisola

Pele, come and take d Tom-Tom in ma hand.

I will bite ya hand.
No mind dem jare...

Simisola · #10 (**permalink**) 11-02-2004, 10:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sola

I will bite ya hand.
No mind dem jare...

Oucchhh...dat sure is gonna hurt

Hubscrown · #11 (**permalink**) 11-02-2004, 11:48 AM

The most important part of the issues is always in the fine print. I didnt know that goggle of yours is not picking that much again

I will try and stay away from fine print because, I dont want the liability of this site to be on me.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sola

And Hubs reducing the font size of his post so much that its almost unreadable...What is the point of that?

I'm out of here and I'm not coming back!

Sola · #12 (**permalink**) 11-02-2004, 02:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hubscrown

The most important part of the issues is always in the fine print. I didnt know that goggle of yours is not picking that much again

I will try and stay away from fine print because, I dont want the liability of this site to be on me.

Joke buddy.

mimi victor · #13 (**permalink**) 11-02-2004, 02:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hubscrown

This is not funny or cool, I actually did like Mamarita with exception of promising a rebound.

Something like:

I think you are giving too much than I do, which I believe is not fair. I think its better for me to stop wasting your time, I wont be able to give time needed into this.

Thats was like 2years ago, despite she long for a rebound, I never let it happened. She got married last August. She still get intouch with my fomily sent them wedding pictures and all, but we never on a same ground even last march she gave me the wedding plans, rubbing it at ma face, disguise to talk to me on IM, deg woman I said its over!!! Well that would have been my first marriage because I have in mind of doing that thing when I was still young (23) and clueless.

Talking of that, she wrote me a letter that time (2yrs ago) which I didnt bother to open. I opened it like a month ago and the letter message said "Read this on your birthday". I guess I have to wait till next year again

***I hope I didnt take your time***

Have mercy on blind bats like me [jo o fe fo mi ni oju ni]

gorgeous70 · #14 (**permalink**) 11-05-2004, 07:57 AM

Unfortunately...my reply was done via email! and this was how it read!

Dear ?????
After very careful consideration, I have decided not pursue this relationship any longer. May I use this opportunity to wish you luck in finding someonelse.
Regards

Quote:

Originally Posted by Angelsty

OK, we have all been talking of love and all, how about the sometime inevitable break-up?

Have you ever had to do the actual break-up? What did you say? How was it like?

I heard the common line is "It's not you, its me......."

Mine once was: "Seriously, I cant keep pretending I still feel the same way about you, I want out, I am frustrated!" And he reminded me that I never showed it. That we just made love the week before thenetc. And the magic word was when I told him that I faked all the ...... you know"

It ended!

Dont even dare call me any name! I was tired of playing good girl while dying inside daily!

bollyd · #15 (**permalink**) 11-05-2004, 04:29 PM

well it was to my ex, he had always been telling me of only to come back to ask me in taking him bac which i always do coz I love him so much and he's always rubbing this girl in my face telling me she is always there for him and also caling me names even him mother. He did it like about 4 times and i took him bac 4 times. but when I was fed up wit his stupid self I was like
" seriously i do wish we could work things out but i think it would be better if we go our separate ways, cuz i don't see any reason we should keep this relationship, cuz i'm hurting and not happy the way things are and it seems like u ain't gonna change; i've given up so many things for our relationship but i could see it ain't gon work out. i use to think I've found my other half but i was wrong u are just another piece of S*** that needs to be desposed. so fare well brother. and I just walked out on him he called my cell but i never answer it. left messages saying he loves me amd he wants be to come bac. love my foot