Questions for anyone, but expecailly to my ladies...would you guys go home and marry a guy from there.and bring them abroad....feel free to make any comments.....
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anne

Heaven Forbid! Lai!Lai! Personally, the only way I would do that is if dem put juju for me. I make it known right away, if you don't have your papers please don't bother saying more than hello, discussing the weather and politics. Any romantic outreach will be politely shut down instantly. I have seen hearts brokens and dreams dashed because someone thought they were in love and doing their best for their loved ones not knowing they were being used. I know my personality. I am too pretty to end up in jail

my dear sister you do have a point right there and i do agree with u, but think of it this way, wat if it is God's will for you to do so, i mean go take a man to be your husband from home?

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God wey see my suffering to make myself something in this country no go punish me like that..he's a JUST and merciful God. At the same time wetin God give me will never be kpoto-kpoto so I will have no fear of losers and users husbands. I pray for God's will in my life and if na so, I know say he will never lead me wrong.

No every Nigerian in Nigeria want to reside in America. I wanna relocate to Nigeria and spend more time there. 60% there and 40% here. I can marry a guy in Nigeria and move to Nigeria. If the dude want to come here he better go find visa.

naww, there are enough nigerian guys here. i don't need some guy gettin' married to me 'cause he wants papers, i'd rather not get married at all.

I personally will never do it (marry a girl from home and bring her abroad). I've seen people who did that and it backfired in their faces. I know some people that had lived in England for over 20 yrs and even own their homes. But when they went back home and married these so called wives (no offence ladies), they lost everything. When the women understood the western way of life, they accused their husbands of domestic violence and claimed the properties (especially couples with young children). Having seen these women in action, I believe marrying a girl from home and bringing her abroad is a road to self destruction.

Sorry girls, that's the way life goes.

Marry from home, marry from bush...haba! If your wife has jello instead of brains, if she got picles instead of a heart...she will rip out ya innards, smear it with butter and eat em without puking.

Life is a gamble peeps...there's never any guarantee but we all HOPE the worst will never occur. You can go to heaven and marry...heck you can even go to Jupiter but at the end of the day, it will all boil down to whether she will feed you with cakes full of mouth watering vanilla fudge or cakes with charred bat testicles and crushed beer bottles.

Take it and digest.

Doesn't matter where I get a wife...home, bush, Ajegunle, Okiripoto,Ikworikwo,Imeziowa... women na the same just different skin tones and different body contours .

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I thought a lot of our women that got sucked into the 'western' world were arrogant until this dude came with his 'home grown' wife. I am not trying to be sarcastic here but this woman didn't even step her foot here for a sec and she wants to show that she knows everything. She'd come with the dumbest argument and when you try to tell her politely that 'ain't nuthing like that here' she wouldn't budge. I just waved the whole thing aside...heck you can take a bushlady outta the bush...good luck taking the bush outta her.

Usually it takes A LOT to get me boiling but in her case, she could get me vehemently struggling to stifle four letter words just in a few seconds.
I couln't find a more perfect definition of anoyance

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My goodness, you guys are like putting salt into my garri. My girl is in Naija, although I'm vexing about her flashing me every other day to sit down on the phone with her. I thought I was safe with that aspect of phone since she far away over the ocean. I love her no doubt but, darn I wish I have think twice before starting another relationship. I dont need babysitting at this moment of my life when I got more than enough to deal with. I'm still clinging to her either she in Nigeria or not. Until I see any reason to say otherwise. Where are the independent women?

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Hmmmm...its not that I will be soooooo opposed to it, but it will be hard for me "schooling" someone about how life in Ame is, how to do this, how to do that, etc etc...BUT, if the hand of God is in it, i wont be oppossed to it....

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Amen garl Amen garl.

if u have a particular species of animals living together n for some reason they get divided n say live on opp side maybe divided by a river. After a few years, they dnt breed with each other because they are no longer exactly the same. diets might change, habitat etc.

The same applies. once you've left naija for a long time, the way u look at life might be totally different to some1 who lives there. And if u as a woman shd say ur opinion, the man n his ego wld get offended sayn u r actn up cos u got him there.

He might get there n even tell u he dnt love u no more n that he's found some1 better etc etc.

I believe God shall not let n e thing bad happen to us HIS daughters. AAAMMMMEEEENNNNNNNN!!!!!

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You will be surprised that some Nigerian are very current with the trend of things in America. I have bunch of friends that the way they compose themselves they know what they are doing than friends I have here over 7yrs.

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I think marrying in the diaspora or marrying from home is the same thing provided you trust the person you are getting married to. The people that live back home are just the same as those abroad. Some people think that marrying from home is better because those in the diaspora are more enlightened and will demand their right in everything, but those from home have more respect and they are serviceable. But I think that is plain ignorance, because I will rather get married to someone who is already enlightened than bring someone from home, who when they get to know how the system works will sometimes dump you. Unless you have already made a committment to someone back home, I think when you live abroad - marrying from home is a waste of money.

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true, true, but you cant tell me that the transition for someone from naija will be smoother for someone already liviing here, used to the system, and the way of things...the same way if i end up going to live in naija again, i will have to get used to a lot of things about naija...even though i grew up there, times and seasons change...

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