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Old 06-01-2005, 07:45 PM
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The Ultimate Mistake Men Make With Women - "Wussies"

Tooo long not to share.....


I want to share an interesting insight with you that not 1 in 100 men ever realize on their own. It's actually TWO insights, but they're two sides of the same coin.

It's an amazingly OBVIOUS double insight, and once you know what it is, you'll see evidence of it all around you, in every interaction between a man and a woman. And it goes a little sumthin' like this:

1. Most men behave like WUSSIES when it comes to women and dating.

2. Women NEVER feel the powerful and magicaL emotion called ATTRACTION for WUSSIES.

So let's take them one at a time.

WHAT exactly IS a WUSSY?

A Wussy is a guy who kisses up to women.

A Wussy is a guy who does whatever a woman wants him to do, and doesn't even know if or when a woman is testing him.

A Wussy is a guy who accepts manipulative behavior from women, and doesn't care if a woman flakes out on him, takes advantage of him, or acts overly dramatic around him.

A Wussy is a guy who has no backbone, and caves when challenged by a woman.

A Wussy is a guy who feels that he needs to BUY or PAY FOR a woman's attention and affection with gifts, dinners, compliments, and other forms of
payment and flattery...because he can't imagine that a woman would want to be with him just for HIM.

In short, a WUSSY is a submissive man who tries to compensate for his lack of ability to attract women by being overly accommodating and generous.

NEWS JUST IN: MOST MEN ACT LIKE WUSSIES!

And if that wasn't bad enough, here's the REALLY bad news: Women will NEVER feel ATTRACTION for this kind of behavior, or this kind of guy!

(If you even doubt what I'm saying for a SECOND, then try this simple test: Find 3 attractive women, and ask them if they ever feel a gut-level ATTRACTION for guys who kiss up to them and act like Wussies, and watch what they say.)

Want some even WORSE news?

When this kind of tactic doesn't work for a guy, he'll usually TRY HARDER, and become even MORE of a WUSSY to make a girl like him... and the more a girl runs away, the more a WUSSY most guys become.

YOU DO THE MATH and figure out the outcome of this equation.

It totally blows my mind how a guy will talk to a woman and watch with HIS OWN TWO EYES as she becomes more and more distant... and instead of
him realizing that it's his own WUSS behavior that's causing the woman to run away he just keeps doing it... AND EVEN INCREASING IT!

And how do I know this so well?

Because I, my friend, used to be a BIG TIME Wuss Bag.

Of course, when I think back about situations in my life where I behaved like a Wuss and caused a woman to lose her attraction for me, I slap my
head and say "DUH!"

For whatever reason, it just wasn't obvious to me in the moment.

And I think that MOST guys go their whole lives without realizing this critical insight.

Let me tell you something else that is VITALLY important for you to remember:

WOMEN HAVE MILITARY GRADE WUSS-DETECTION RADAR SYSTEMS.

Notice that I didn't say "Women are pretty good at figuring out whether or not you're a Wuss".

No no noooooo.

I said that women have MILITARY GRADE WUSS-DETECTION SYSTEMS.

I'm talking special forces navy seal top gun covert ops here.

I'm talking INSTANT WUSSY DETECTION.

A woman can tell if you're a Wussy, in most cases, BEFORE YOU EVEN OPEN YOUR MOUTH.

So if women aren't attracted to Wussies, then why is it that they sometimes accept invitations to dinner, gifts, flowers, and attention from guys who are Wussies, only to reject them later on?

Well, think about it.

1. Free food is free food, and free gifts are free gifts...I mean, when the price is right, it's right.

2. Women in most cases likes a man who can treat them with IRON hand. In most case they want to follow the man and not the man follow them

3. If a woman doesn't have anything going on at all, dinner with a Wussy and a constant stream of compliments and attention is better than nothing.

4. Men are NOTORIOUS for showing their "non-Wuss" side early on, but then somehow turning into a woman's worst nightmare Wuss Boy as the
relationship progresses.

What to do, what to do?

Well, sometimes these things are like a substance abuse problem. The first step is ADMITTING that you've been being a WUSS all your life, and that you were doing the best you could with what you had to work with.

I often make fun of guys who act like Wussies, and bust on them unmercifully... but the fact is that I've been there, and I get it.

So step one is accepting yourself as you are, and making a commitment to yourself to improve from here on out.

Next, you need to learn how to EVICT your inner Wuss, and then it's time to get down to business and learn how to create that magical feeling called ATTRACTION inside of women.

It's not magic, and it's not voodoo. Making women feel a powerful, gut-level ATTRACTION for you doesn't require looks or money, and I honestly
believe that almost ANY man can learn how to do it.

The amazing part about it is that we all have the NATURAL ability to communicate with women in a way that makes them feel ATTRACTION... but most of us guys never DEVELOPED this natural skill.

We either didn't have good role models, we were programmed wrong by mom or other well-meaning
people in our lives, or whatever.

But just because you haven't yet learned how to use and develop these natural talents doesn't mean that you can't start NOW.

How do I know?

Because I used to have ZERO SKILL with women.

Just a few short years ago, I couldn't even start a CONVERSATION with a woman I didn't know... nevermind get dates and have success with UNUSUALLY ATTRACTIVE women.

But NOW I can. And it's all because I spent the time it took to find and learn the secrets of the "naturals", or the guys who had already figured
out the skills that it takes to attract women.

If you're ready to shed your past Wussy self, and learn the secrets of how to attract women that most men will NEVER learn in their entire lives, then I invite you to take advantage of the powerful products that I've put together.

In my "Double Your Dating: Advanced Dating Techniques" program, I take the time to explain everything from the ground up.

Starting with the basics of evolution and animal behavior, I reveal how and why women act the way they do, and detail the critical mistakes that most men make with women... and what to do about it.

Later, I go into dozens and dozens of my personal favorite techniques for approaching, meeting, and staying with women... everything from exact
words to use to introduce yourself, the way to start of a conversation and more importantly how to sustain a lasting relationship,all smoothly and easily.

The truth is that most men dont know how to approach a woman, the right things to say and the right words to use. This is importan as it may make or break your relationship.

STARTING UP A RELATIONSHIP IS ONE THING, SUSTAINING AND KEEPING IT IS ANOTHER THING. YOU NEED TO LEARN. YOU NEED TO LEARN HOW TO APPROACH A WOMAN!
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very funny and true. but girl you sure do have a lot of time on your hands writing this long ass speech
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very funny and true. but girl you sure do have a lot of time on your hands writing this long ass speech
did not write that....maybe I should have acknowledged the writer..but you are right..someone was really BORED!
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Let me get this straight, ladies prefer paying in restaurants, submitting more to men, and make 'em feel (and act) all macho?

Is that what I'm getting from this?
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So, NR ladies, don't tell me ya prefer doing the paying in restaurants, submitting more to men, and make 'em feel (and act) all macho?

Is that what I'm getting from this?

however you read this - upside down, back to front and bottom to top..and whatever you get. I found it interesting with some iota of truth though i did not write it!
even though we dont love to admit it....we sort of like it!
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however you read this - upside down, back to front and bottom to top..and whatever you get. I found it interesting with some iota of truth though i did not write it!
even though we dont love to admit it....we sort of like it!
Apparently, you do. However, you still didn't answer the question, what do you prefer? Where do you stand? Ya prefer macho men, or not? Your submission or theirs? Your generousity, his, or both?
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Let me get this straight, ladies prefer paying in restaurants, submitting more to men, and make 'em feel (and act) all macho?

Is that what I'm getting from this?
See Pete flexing biceps . Me too go dey show some very soon. I don get 15pd Dumbbell wey I dey carry every morning. Never knew those dumbbell are so cheap.
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Apparently, you do. However, you still didn't answer the question, what do you prefer? Where do you stand? Ya prefer macho men, or not? Your submission or theirs? Your generousity, his, or both?

It all depends on the combination and no one is definite...why go for Macho with no self control or anger management skills! why would I not trip for a macho that has other special imbedded skills?

Submissions and generosity has to come from both unless it aint gonna work

Now is that the answer to your question?
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See Pete flexing biceps . Me too go dey show some very soon. I don get 15pd Dumbbell wey I dey carry every morning. Never knew those dumbbell are so cheap.
Very cheap. That's small, man. Go higher, you shouldn't try anything less than 75pd.
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It all depends on the combination and no one is definite...why go for Macho with no self control or anger management skills! why would I not trip for a macho that has other special imbedded skills?

Submissions and generosity has to come from both unless it aint gonna work

Now is that the answer to your question?
More neutral than specific, but will do.
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More neutral than specific, but will do.

and specific means?
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and specific means?
Let's leave that, shall we?
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Very interesting,all i knw is ain't no WUSSY.
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Very interesting,all i knw is ain't no WUSSY.

..and its very hard to even admit if you are
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