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U claim u love him.....yet
This goes to everyone alike....forgive me but i wud use the word "claim" a lot.......how is it that sumtimes..u like to punish and hurt someone u claim to love.....i mean..I'm just thinking to myself that sumtimes..we are mean to pple we claim to care abt ...and we know they are hurting..but we dont do anything abt it....Isnt it true that we always claim to put their feelings first and u wud rather hurt than have them hurt and at the end of the day...u torment them..or they torment u....i dont get it....can u plz tell me what u think??
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At their golden anniversary, Cliff and Mary-Ann were asked the secret of their long marriage and Cliff answered;"We were never both "out-of -love" at the same time. Yes, there were moments i was not in love with her and there where moments she totally hated me..but we were never out-of-love at the same time.
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Simple.....love hurts.........whatcha think>
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07-13-2005, 05:07 PM
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wow...how come i didnt think of that????? 
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At their golden anniversary, Cliff and Mary-Ann were asked the secret of their long marriage and Cliff answered;"We were never both "out-of -love" at the same time. Yes, there were moments i was not in love with her and there where moments she totally hated me..but we were never out-of-love at the same time.
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very interesting question....I wanna know too, especially family members
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07-13-2005, 06:34 PM
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When you threading on an unknown ground or surrounded by people with whom you share no connection,you coat your feelings/emotions with an impenetrable wall that could hold off the most offensive comment/deed.
When you are surrounded by people who mean something to you, you will see no need to surround yourself with that impenetrable fortress because afterall, they are your loved ones. With your guards completely down, the slightest unexpected offensive action/utterance from a loved one will SINK DEEPER THAN A THOUSAND BULLETS from a stranger.
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07-14-2005, 01:45 AM
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Love doesn't exist!!! And if someone loves you, knows you're hurting and still doesn't do anything about it, they don't actually love you!
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07-14-2005, 05:03 AM
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Love comes with so much pain, but its a bitter sweet feeling.
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07-14-2005, 10:31 AM
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When you threading on an unknown ground or surrounded by people with whom you share no connection,you coat your feelings/emotions with an impenetrable wall that could hold off the most offensive comment/deed.
When you are surrounded by people who mean something to you, you will see no need to surround yourself with that impenetrable fortress because afterall, they are your loved ones. With your guards completely down, the slightest unexpected offensive action/utterance from a loved one will SINK DEEPER THAN A THOUSAND BULLETS from a stranger.
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i know what u mean. i've just been hurt terribly mysellf and i havent stopped asking myself 'why?' why me for pete's fucking sake?!
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07-14-2005, 11:28 AM
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I would doubt calling such love when you inflict pain on someone you claim to love. I dont like seeing someone I love go through pain even when am not at fault.
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Originally Posted by gogetter
This goes to everyone alike....forgive me but i wud use the word "claim" a lot.......how is it that sumtimes..u like to punish and hurt someone u claim to love.....i mean..I'm just thinking to myself that sumtimes..we are mean to pple we claim to care abt ...and we know they are hurting..but we dont do anything abt it....Isnt it true that we always claim to put their feelings first and u wud rather hurt than have them hurt and at the end of the day...u torment them..or they torment u....i dont get it....can u plz tell me what u think??
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..I dont get this..."I love U but...*twai!twai!* "....????  ...unless its a case of revenge or sheer accident..
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07-15-2005, 01:23 PM
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Originally Posted by paj
..I dont get this..."I love U but...*twai!twai!* "....???? ...unless its a case of revenge or sheer accident..
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cud be revenge...cud be accident...has anybody ever felt the need just to make ur loved one unhappy cos then u are happy??? I know its selfish and all...but sumtimes..i think ..subconciously...u do things that will hurt them just to see if they care..i mean if they dont..they wudnt hurt and all that..im confused maself..i dont get it......
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At their golden anniversary, Cliff and Mary-Ann were asked the secret of their long marriage and Cliff answered;"We were never both "out-of -love" at the same time. Yes, there were moments i was not in love with her and there where moments she totally hated me..but we were never out-of-love at the same time.
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Originally Posted by gogetter
cud be revenge...cud be accident...has anybody ever felt the need just to make ur loved one unhappy cos then u are happy??? I know its selfish and all...but sumtimes..i think ..subconciously...u do things that will hurt them just to see if they care..i mean if they dont..they wudnt hurt and all that..im confused maself..i dont get it......
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I dont get either 
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07-15-2005, 02:03 PM
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Mama Rita...u're so cynical?!! The fact that u may or may not have had bad situations don't mean love don't exist???!!!!!Capish.........
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07-15-2005, 02:45 PM
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Mama Rita...u're so cynical?!! The fact that u may or may not have had bad situations don't mean love don't exist???!!!!!Capish.........
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Thanks for your continual understanding of me!
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07-15-2005, 03:09 PM
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Just so long as we understand each other.....Mama Rita.....
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