Thread: if you call it "settling" so what?

TI OJU BA FARABALE, ARI IMU OOOOO. Hmmm it is called “settling for relationship under construction” we all don’t expect to get 100% of what we want in life when it comes to man/woman biz. It is better to be in love with someone that loves you more than you love him or her…. You can always develop to love the person in it. If you love the person more, about 50/50 chances he/she might fall out of love with just little mistake you make. I have always asked my wedded friends, they were not 100% in love with their oko abi iyawo. You develop to love whomever you are with later on in the relationship. Ko easy, all na game of the heart eyi je, eyi o je…… if the boo boo bobo ni iwa, he loves you more compared to ex losers ehen, abeg HAVE A CLEAR GOAL AND BE READY TO BE COMMITTED INTO THE MARRIAGE WITH LESS OVERTIME WORK…… (marriage na work, you wonder why our generation have highest divorce rate????) we never hope or see the future with optimistic approach.

And if Tayo wants her back nko?

Like Hearsay said in the comments:
"... It’s seems ok for now because he is giving what you didn’t have in your previous relationship but that doesn’t necessarily make him a good choice."

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...my thing is what constitutes a 'loveable' person anyway?Because that would answer the question in regards to why/why not she "is not in love with" the guy.What qualities/quantities is she looking for that this person doesn't seem to have,but hopefully expects to get?Is he not as rich?not as physically attractive?not as educated?no get as much swagga?If he's a good guy...then somethng is missing.If the relationship is still new, perhaps she's just being cautious(subcontiously,without even knowing it) until she gets comfortable with the unfamiliar environment of not being blown away @ "hello,my name is..."...now she has to sit back,listen,open eye and see if,for a change,something with potential can get better...rather than something she thought was the best rot overnight. Now..that said..if she's not cautious,and has identified why she is not inlove with the guy,and she doesn't think she can get past it,good luck with that working out. For me I think what makes a good relationship that'll head towards marriage is striking a healthy balance between attraction and ideals(moral,spiritual,etc)...

Tolu!!!!!!! Na your break lights be this????

Wow! Happy new year! Where have you been ?

Originally Posted by olatoludipe

TI OJU BA FARABALE, ARI IMU OOOOO. Hmmm it is called “settling for relationship under construction” we all don’t expect to get 100% of what we want in life when it comes to man/woman biz. It is better to be in love with someone that loves you more than you love him or her…. You can always develop to love the person in it. If you love the person more, about 50/50 chances he/she might fall out of love with just little mistake you make. I have always asked my wedded friends, they were not 100% in love with their oko abi iyawo. You develop to love whomever you are with later on in the relationship. Ko easy, all na game of the heart eyi je, eyi o je…… if the boo boo bobo ni iwa, he loves you more compared to ex losers ehen, abeg HAVE A CLEAR GOAL AND BE READY TO BE COMMITTED INTO THE MARRIAGE WITH LESS OVERTIME WORK…… (marriage na work, you wonder why our generation have highest divorce rate????) we never hope or see the future with optimistic approach.

Originally Posted by Abike

Tolu!!!!!!! Na your break lights be this????

Wow! Happy new year! Where have you been ?

..ABEG STOP SHOUTING LIKE PESIN WEY DEY HAWK AKARA! yeye Forester!

Ni e!!!!

Originally Posted by paj

..ABEG STOP SHOUTING LIKE PESIN WEY DEY HAWK AKARA! yeye Forester!

Heheheh...I don't get it. May be it's that just my arithmetic is rusty or my statistic is off the bar chart, but she loves them 70% and they love her 30%, rough estimation makes it 100% love. Why she dey complain?

Seriously though, she's not settling at all, she just found love. Abi was she not looking for a guy who loves her? Now she found one she's complaining, yet again!

Your middle name be Epistle or Psalm?

Originally Posted by paj

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...my thing is what constitutes a 'loveable' person anyway?Because that would answer the question in regards to why/why not she "is not in love with" the guy.What qualities/quantities is she looking for that this person doesn't seem to have,but hopefully expects to get?Is he not as rich?not as physically attractive?not as educated?no get as much swagga?If he's a good guy...then somethng is missing.If the relationship is still new, perhaps she's just being cautious(subcontiously,without even knowing it) until she gets comfortable with the unfamiliar environment of not being blown away @ "hello,my name is..."...now she has to sit back,listen,open eye and see if,for a change,something with potential can get better...rather than something she thought was the best rot overnight. Now..that said..if she's not cautious,and has identified why she is not inlove with the guy,and she doesn't think she can get past it,good luck with that working out. For me I think what makes a good relationship that'll head towards marriage is striking a healthy balance between attraction and ideals(moral,spiritual,etc)...

Originally Posted by Abike

Tolu!!!!!!! Na your break lights be this????

Wow! Happy new year! Where have you been ?

Hey darling sister, how are you doing? na so i see am oooo same to you, thank you..... i just dey wakapass ni...... hope you good tho?