Ssergit's response to the above post on the website it was posted for advice. I know it kinda sounds harsh, but she for at least just say it for the heck of it!
" She is STUPID! 8 years?????!!!!! C'mon! By year 2 she should have let him know! Imagine all the fun she missed out all these years loving him!
Imagine the pains she's gone through bottling up her real feelings!
To heck with woman should NOT say her feelings! I dont approve women THROWING THEMSELVES at a man, but nothing wrong with a little note that says:
"Dear John, please don't take this to be that I am cheap or coming after you, I just can't keep this inside anymore...I just want to tell you that I love you. I know you like me as a friend and do not expect you to act on this either.
I really appreciate you as a friend. You are an awesome man!
Do you by any chance have a twin brother or a clone version of you?
Always your friend.