After the death of her husband, stella has totally become a shadow of her very beautiful, young self.You all needed to have been at jaiye's wake keeping and burial (Of course i was there) to see this pitiful widow in sorrows and every one around couldnt help but cry along...with kate henshaw nuttal who happens to be stella's closest pal crying like a day old child and stella who looks so lean and unkempt and so fragile( evidence of starvation) all due to her husband;s desmise. Stella actually slumbed while the choiristers were in action and it took the intervention of some of the people around to carry her up and one question that i kept asking myself was "what a world".Looking at the deceased in his coffin alone was enough for any witch to drop all her evil charms and turn a good leaf....jaiye lived a life so brief but well spent....after the wake keeping we headed straight to the burial at victoria garden cemetry, lekki. That was another sad event as stella couldnt hold the tears and grief..she was trembling as she was aked to perform the dust to dust rite......she kept on calling "jai..ye in a very faint and weak voice. She had some peel on her skin and people said she had been scratching herself all in the sad moments.....stela was a complete shadow of her very true self and i hereby ask that we all pray 4 God to give her the heart to bear the great loss..and God should help her so she doesnt starve herself to death...her two kids need her now than ever. I know its a sad experience so lets pray 4 her.....u wont wish u were at the burial cos i wept all through.

Oh my God! This totally breaks my heart. I've been holding up not responding to jaiye's death thread, hoping it's some sick joke, just like when the rumours was about that Kwam1 died.

My heart breaks and weeps for this beautiful and humble lady, whom death has deprived her of a loving husband and happiness especially during this festive period.

Stella, my heart goes out to you and will be full in prayer. May the lord hold you in strength and give you the fortitude to bear this loss. I pray for God's favour, kindness and strength for you to be the mother and father to your children.

May God abide with you always. Take heart baby..

Adieu Jaiye Aboderin.

Thats very sad to hear, I hope she recovers soonest of that heartache!
It is not easy to lose someone you love so dearly, especially if it is your husband you have kids with! May the good Lord be with her and her family!

Lord, Only U know the reason things happen the way they do... and we can not change what ever decision you have made on our lives... so we say may your will be done in our lives... We call on you now on behalf of Stella and her kids... Lord you give and Take... at the same time we say may you Give Stella all the strenght that she needs to go on... to bear the loss of her husband, her kids needs her to be strong for them... Lord we ask you to give all those that lost their beloved ones the strenght to go on...and any thing that will bring more unhappines please delete them all form their path... Bless her and her kids... bless them all. Amen

Jesu oh eh shanu wah. May God Keep and bless them with His spirit of comfort, strength and healing. May she find comfort and stregnth in Christ her redeemer. God said he never gives us more than we can handle for His grace is sufficient for us. May his grace embrace her and carry her through these times. May the sun never set on her joy, and may her children find inspiration in His light that will resonate from her face. May all who see her that serve the Lord find His words concerning widows a thing of fulfillment. May care never pass her by without a loving stroke. She will be blessed on every side and find favor with God. In His name will she find redemption. In Jesus name i pray. Amen

people may joke all they want but this kind of joke is not allowed on this site, it's a pity that this has happened and only god knows best, i pray that his soul rest in peace, and may god continue to give the family the strenght to bear the great loss, rest in peace.

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Really, this sad event calls 4 prayers 4 all bereaved, especially Stella and her kids.
I pray that God, the great comforter will give her the fortitude to bear this great loss.
Stella my dear, be strong. Take heart. God knows all

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Dis is really sad news, may his Gentle soul rest in perfect peace.I wonder wetin go happen to the chic and her children.abeg stella accept my condolence.(na God sabi best).

This thread leaves me with tears in ma eyes.....God noes best tho.....May God strengthen her 2 be able 2 survive this turmoil. I hope dat she will remain strong...@ least 4 de sake of her kids....

God gives n takes when he deems it appropriate n der4 I believe that ther is hope 4 da future...Dis is SO SAD......

What Stella has gone through is very tragic but she is bearing up. She has to for the sake of her children. She comes from a very close knit family and all of them are around her. None of them are going to watch her starve herself to death but your right we need to pray really strong and ask God to guide her through this time.

What Stella need as moviewizard has said, is prayers.We all need to pray for her for strength and comfort at this sad time in her life.Sunday is around the corner, those who go to church put her in special intention prayers.Even those who go to mosque, Friday is also around the corner.Pray!
Now is less questions of how, why when, and more of prayers for her.
May God give her divine comfort and strength to go on in life AMEN!

OO my God, am so shocked. All i got to say is that she should leave everything to God. You will always be in my prayers.

Sometimes I just dont understand, you know death comes a time you never thought of especially when your loved just goes like that, tragically, i know stella is going through alot of pain right now and its really hard. and and she is asking herself why me? why me? am writing this from experience. this is the most difficult time in life, you feel God is not there for you.You ask yourself if God doesnt want his people to suffer why should he take away my happiness? But God has a purpose for everything he does,and he surely will pull you through all this pain. let the word of God be your Comfort through this difficult time.

The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, And saves such as have a contrite spirit. (Ps 34.18)

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My eyes are filled with tears after reading Moviewizard's thread. My heart goes out to U Stella may the Good Lord who is our eiderdown keep u. May he console u in this trying times we will be with in prayers.

My heart bleeds i just hope she will still be her old self cos i know it will never be disame.Am already crying.I pray God to grant her a stronger heart.