I have a friend who is in love with a married man and man is equally in love with her. If he's not, then the guy deserves an Oscar nomination for best Actor of the world! Anyway, trouble is: They cant marry. And they are in love. And the guy cannot or rather does not want to leave his wife. (Good thing though) ISSUE AT STAKE: 1. They have been married for 5 years. 2. They dated ON/OFF for 5 years before then. 3. The girl was living in America with her parents while bobo was in Naija. 4. The bobo got his visa to US, and 'naturally' married the chick. 5. They have 3 kids. 6. The bobo is an orphan, and has taken the girls parents as his too. 7. The bobo is 34 years old while the babe is 30. 8. The guy says he loves my girlfriend more than his wife at this point. But the issue of his kids worry him and it would look like he is leaving the wife after all she has done for him (visa wise) 9. He is unhappy. And worse still, is so open about his relationship with my girl! Would dash over 150 miles each way just to come kiss ma girl! 10. Ma girl is also so smitten. If you stay around them two, you will KNOW for sure that they are in love. 11. Bobo says he loves them both (wife and ma girl) but loves ma girl more!) Ma girl wont even give any single guy chance right now! Help! This is more than madness, you think? OK< people, Is this possible? Please brainstorm here, I need to give word to ma gurl!!