Pastor T.D. Jakes made a statement once that was morbid but SO true! He said that when choosing a mate, you need to ask yourself whether or not that person is the one you would want to hold your hand as you are lowering your parents' bodies into the grave for the last time. Ladies, that is serious. Meditate on that for a few seconds. Your entire perspective in terms of what you are searching for in a mate should be based on that one question.
would you be worried , if you are 36 years and have no man in your life?
would you just say ,
God has a purpose in your life so will wait for the rite time or you will be desperate and go and search for a man?
we know back home your family will start getting worried when you are that age and no man has come to ask for your hand in marriage ,
also they say men are very scared to approach such women sometimes because of their wealth and and their level of education and so on,
some people also blame the ladies saying they have set high standards for themselves thats why no man is approaching them, others think maybe they have been used by men and dumped so nobody wants them now
was listening to this program on radio and was just thinking, why is our society thinking like that , because if you are 40 and not married is not a crime abi?