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Discussion in 'LOVE, MARRIAGE, THE SEXES' started by msjollies, Mar 15, 2007.

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  1. msjollies

    msjollies Planner Extraodinaire

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    Here is where you ask questions on Sex, love, marriage and finances or on any but reasonable topic, be clear on your question as much as you can as that will help me answer to the best of my ability.
     
  2. Simisola

    Simisola Well-Known Member

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    Dear Ms Jollies

    I think i'm falling in love with someone who i shouldn't be falling for.
     
  3. Field Marshal

    Field Marshal ABSOLUTE SUPREME RULER

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    Dear Msjollies,
    When do we consumate our new found friendship in my Elegant Mansion? :D

    Yours truely,
    Ever Ready! ;)
     
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    msjollies Planner Extraodinaire

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    Simi sola,First, who is the person to you? and second are they available? if they not available, you have to move on, but if they are available, you need to find out if you have a chance with them or not.
     
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    msjollies Planner Extraodinaire

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    Hm, i really cant tell you now because i have my hands full.
     
  6. Simisola

    Simisola Well-Known Member

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    Well, dat's d thing....u see, i met dis pesin in d most strangest way and we've been in touch since then. I've not been in a relationship for a while now, so it even makes it difficult for me cos i tend to fall easily for charms.
     
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    But do you know if they are available or not? and how long have you been in touch with this person?
     
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    Field Marshal ABSOLUTE SUPREME RULER

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    :D :D ;) I sabi sey na me u dey tok!:)
     
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    Simisola Well-Known Member

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    Get me behind me Satan and never come back! :eyes
     
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    Field Marshal ABSOLUTE SUPREME RULER

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    :shock Nna men!! Oyibo! Chei! Simi tek am easy o! I believe it is supposed to be "Get thee behind me Satan":1087:
     
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    chi I am blessed

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    jollies cornersweat: ...i like this.......:)
     
  12. Obariba

    Obariba Koininonia

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    Dear Ms.Jollies ..why do you like Betty Boop ?
    :cow:
     
  13. msjollies

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    thanks
     
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    Because i think she is sexy and very dainty like me.
     
  15. dododudu

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    Dear Ms Jollies,
    What does one say to a woman that wants to back out of her marriage? She has had 3 kids for the man already! Her reason: The man lied to her about his financial position when he came to Naija to marry her. And things are getting harder and harder due to the students loans and other debts he is still paying for!

    This man married and brought her to USA. She is concernd about that people would say....but that she is suffering mentally cos the man is frustrated and vents it on her and the kids. And her teaching job doesnt bring much in.

    Awaiting response.
     
  16. ddizzle

    ddizzle Aunty!

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    Dear Jollies,

    How do you deal with people that are annoying you...do you jump them or do you just ignore them

    p.s my ignorance jar is full oh!

    thank you
     
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    Estella,
    You have to be very careful about your advice to her, do not tell her to leave her hubby but tell her to be patient atleast for her kids sake besides it is not easy being a single mom especially with 3 kids, she needs to pray about her situation.
    The other thing they can do is if they have a home with good equity, they can get home equity line of credit to pay off these bills and she might want to consider getting another job to supplement her current income.
    She enjoyed when the going was good, so she can not leave him now but to help him sort things out.
     
  18. Mojames

    Mojames youwillbeok!!!

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    Dear Aunty Jollies,
    Why is it that em...em...i like 7 people at the same time....diff one for each day....i dont think its normal oooo??:cry
     
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    There is nothing as mature as ignoring people that get on your nerve it just shows that you have class.
     
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    I am glad you said like, there is nothing wrong in liking people, if you had used another word, i would have suggested a shrink.
     
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