Chris Brown and Rihanna in domestic violence shocker

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paj

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Speaking for myself and myself only, (even before this whole show) I never thought of Rihanna as "angelic", she ain't no freakin' Carrie Underwood! And honestly, judging by the comments on this thread no one put Rihanna on a pedestal of being blameless. The question has always been: can such level of battery ever be justifiable?

Everyone has a dark side and of course Rihanna must have done something to initiate what happened. But guess what, we might never know the truth. But we know that Chris Brown has been placed alongside the likes of Ike Turner, Mike Tyson e.t.c historic women beaters.Is judging without knowing the facts fair? Maybe, not. BUT, be rest assured that even if Rihanna came out with 1000 interviews claiming it was all her fault that things went out of hand, the society at large has already concluded based on what they saw (the infamous picture).

So, its not about anyone thinking Rihanna is angelic and putting all the blame on Chris! Nope!
...by who?:confused: I thought Ike Turner and Mike Tyson got their stigmas AFTER the women came out and said something?:confused:how can Chris Brown be labelled as anything without Rihanna saying something and/or showing proof of this?:confused: this is part of the problem I have with your stance...how can people judge someone from hearing one side of the story?I don't know who Carrie Underwood is...and honestly speaking..in literal terms,neither do you...so without knowing these people personally we run the risk of assumptions when there's a 'situation',I think...
..I won't,didn't and can't say IF the level of 'battery' is justifiable or not because I wasn't there...and neither were you.I dont know the level of provocation and it may very well be undeserved on her part,but what I'm not buying is that a woman should NEVER face any repercurssions for their actions especially if they drew first blood simply because she's a woman....the fact that someone is a woman does not absolve them of the responsibility of restraint,even if they half expect the man not to react....women who respect themselves will not violate anyone else physically,especially to avoid something like this because all its likely to accomplish is bring out the animal in both humans..
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Una dey argue here and the girl don reconcile with her man. There are staying at Star Island in Miami Beach, I no dey her heart o but from the outside looking in I think she has lost all credibility...what are these young girls supposed to think? That it is okay to go back to your abuser? You can forgive and if you can, forget as well that's great but to go back to him as a girlfriend...only God knows what is in her mind but I think it is safe to say that the person outside of the stage might have a low self esteem.

May God help her but I think this is the worse decision she could have made to take him back.
 

paj

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Una dey argue here and the girl don reconcile with her man. There are staying at Star Island in Miami Beach, I no dey her heart o but from the outside looking in I think she has lost all credibility...what are these young girls supposed to think? That it is okay to go back to your abuser? You can forgive and if you can, forget as well that's great but to go back to him as a girlfriend...only God knows what is in her mind but I think it is safe to say that the person outside of the stage might have a low self esteem.

May God help her but I think this is the worse decision she could have made to take him back.
...her going back to him may indicate we don't know the details of the altercation....abeg mai una stop judging...
 

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Una dey argue here and the girl don reconcile with her man. There are staying at Star Island in Miami Beach, I no dey her heart o but from the outside looking in I think she has lost all credibility...what are these young girls supposed to think? That it is okay to go back to your abuser? You can forgive and if you can, forget as well that's great but to go back to him as a girlfriend...only God knows what is in her mind but I think it is safe to say that the person outside of the stage might have a low self esteem.

May God help her but I think this is the worse decision she could have made to take him back.
Bb, @highlighted: I think so too. An ugly impression has been made already, even if she came back with 20,000 interviews about how "sweet and caring" he is-an impression has already been made: her boyfriend is a woman beater.

As far as public credibility, they both lost major points: the abused and the abuser.
 

Sifu

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She's just going to say it was a fight and that he did not beat her. Trust me the story is going to change real quick
 

sidney

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This is simply unreal.... UNREAL!!! Wow, wow, wow..

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I won't lie, I choked up a bit reading this and then got real angry. I will kill any man who ever attempts something like this on my daughters.. I swear! I will rather be judged by 12 then have my daughter carried by 6..... This is BULLSHIT!!
 
I was about to come post this hear after I just heard Rick Sanchez on CNN give a blow by blow narration of the report. Where is PaJ now? Even the lawyer said that forensic evidence supports the report. I can't see or hear what Sean Connery said but I hope it ain't something stupid because he too has offended in this department!
 

takestyle

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I was about to come post this hear after I just heard Rick Sanchez on CNN give a blow by blow narration of the report. Where is PaJ now? Even the lawyer said that forensic evidence supports the report. I can't see or hear what Sean Connery said but I hope it ain't something stupid because he too has offended in this department!
Sean Connery would never punch a woman in the face like CB... He strongly believes that you should use an open hand when giving a woman a smack to shut her up.
 

Thickmadam

OHHHHHH YEAHHHHHHHH!!
This is simply unreal.... UNREAL!!! Wow, wow, wow..

EDIT:
I won't lie, I choked up a bit reading this and then got real angry. I will kill any man who ever attempts something like this on my daughters.. I swear! I will rather be judged by 12 then have my daughter carried by 6..... This is BULLSHIT!!
when i read something, what i am reading plays out in my head (i don't know if that makes sense).
the picture that played out in my head as i read the report...

let me just say...sometimes people need help and they don't know they need help.

if indeed this is what transpired between them, mr brown needs help.
if indeed this is what transpired between them, ms rihana needs help.

having worked with an abused women's group, let me just say that sometimes the women need help from themselves.

she loves him, but she needs to demand that he gets help for a period of at least six months before she gets back with him.
help from a pastor is good, but he also needs a professional counselor. and so does she.

i hope to make this my last post on this matter.
I hope.
 

Sifu

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when i read something, what i am reading plays out in my head (i don't know if that makes sense).
the picture that played out in my head as i read the report...

let me just say...sometimes people need help and they don't know they need help.

if indeed this is what transpired between them, mr brown needs help.
if indeed this is what transpired between them, ms rihana needs help.

having worked with an abused women's group, let me just say that sometimes the women need help from themselves.

she loves him, but she needs to demand that he gets help for a period of at least six months before she gets back with him.
help from a pastor is good, but he also needs a professional counselor. and so does she.

i hope to make this my last post on this matter.
I hope.
This one has to go back into his mother's womb and start all over again. He is too damaged. This is horrible. This is a woman you claim to love and you do this. He could have easily killed her in his rage. I just cannot believe that she went back to him. I don't believe someone like this can ever change. The rage was just too intense.
 

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Mr. Naijarules!
This is simply unreal.... UNREAL!!! Wow, wow, wow..

EDIT:
I won't lie, I choked up a bit reading this and then got real angry. I will kill any man who ever attempts something like this on my daughters.. I swear! I will rather be judged by 12 then have my daughter carried by 6..... This is BULLSHIT!!
Sid, its not just unreal it is bizzarre! In this day and age people don't even beat their dogs in that manner,how much more a human being. When I said such a beating was unjustifiable, some where screaming "Oh don't judge, we don't know the full facts". What full facts?! When I can clearly see in the picture that a line has been crossed.

You choked up after reading this? I almost shed a tear when I saw her picture the first time! Unacceptable on all levels. Unacceptable. It is serious BULLSHIT!! Nothing more nothing less!
 

sidney

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Sid, its not just unreal it is bizzarre! In this day and age people don't even beat their dogs in that manner,how much more a human being. When I said such a beating was unjustifiable, some where screaming "Oh don't judge, we don't know the full facts". What full facts?! When I can clearly see in the picture that a line has been crossed.

You choked up after reading this? I almost shed a tear when I saw her picture the first time! Unacceptable on all levels. Unacceptable. It is serious BULLSHIT!! Nothing more nothing less!
Totally correct!!
 
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