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Difference between a 'woman' and a 'wife'....

Discussion in 'LOVE, MARRIAGE, THE SEXES' started by ssergit, Dec 11, 2012.

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  1. ssergit

    ssergit ..still The Drama Queen!

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    A man must have written this! or a woman with VERY low self-esteem hiding behind religion!
    Seriously????
    Some of the points below makes no sense! And its the sort of garbage our women are fed from childhood that makes most of them stay in miserable marriages! Haba!

     
  2. ssergit

    ssergit ..still The Drama Queen!

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    Seriously?????

    I DON'T condone women cheating for whatever reason! BUT...... for her to PRAISE GOD FOR HER HUSBAND AND HER MARRIAGE AND YET STILL INTERCEDES..... ahhhhhh..... THAT ONE HARD O!!! Haba!!!!WHY???!!! In this day of HIV/AIDS????

    Wisdom says........!!!! <cough cough>
     
  3. kolinzo

    kolinzo Oodua4life

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    How about we just live our lives the way we want it?
     
  4. Thickmadam

    Thickmadam OHHHHHH YEAHHHHHHHH!!

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    i would like to know this person's idea of submission.
     
  5. Village-Boi

    Village-Boi Well-Known Member

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    Yup, must be a man. Worse still.... na 'pastor' write this thing bekwos these him chat-up lines are crap.
     
  6. Thickmadam

    Thickmadam OHHHHHH YEAHHHHHHHH!!

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    bwahahahahahahhahaha. you are a hot mess.
     
  7. Dsampler

    Dsampler D. Ultimate Naija Ruler

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    ...um,.......giving it up without complain everytime the man is horny?.....I really don't know, TM. You got me there. I have no idea.
     
  8. Village-Boi

    Village-Boi Well-Known Member

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    My yarn na true. Na poor man pastor be that. The guy no even get common laptop to take check out pastor chris-style speeching of babe ;-)
     
  9. Sifu

    Sifu Well-Known Member

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    Basically a story on "submission" but lets throw God in a couple of times so that it makes it seem more interesting.
     
  10. Thickmadam

    Thickmadam OHHHHHH YEAHHHHHHHH!!

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    i have no problem with submission, i just want to them to explain to me what their idea of submission is.
    i know what it is, for me.
    but most times my christian friends think i'm nuts so...*shrug*
     
  11. ssergit

    ssergit ..still The Drama Queen!

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    I weak! They surely threw GOD in the whole write up so as to be 'holy' and some women would be swallowing these hook line and sinker!!!
    Chai!

    Ignorance is a CRIME!!!!
     
  12. ssergit

    ssergit ..still The Drama Queen!

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    check this out:!!

    Smells and attracts WIFE BATTERY!

    na so she go submit till 10 years go waka pass and she wakes up one day and wonder whatever happened to her life!! And counts how many times she had really laughed or been happy in 10 years! perhaps during the births of their children??? smh

    my girl was hospitalized for 2 days recently. broken ribs and back! She was pregnant too! Dude beat her into the public with just her bra on! Everybody see her nakedness. She calls me that she is DONE! And would be going for abortion...... of course I told her to keep the baby, she is 32 or so.....she says wants no memory of him blah blah.....and I remember last time he beat her, she also said she was gone! But stayed! Even continued dishing the dude money! What makes our women stay even when they known their lives could be at risk? SUBMISSION??? Religious talks? What?

    SUBMISSION! Eh?!!

    Ok, I got a problem with a sistah feeding, housing the man and also doing bedroom duties plus housd and wifely chores and the man beating her!!! HABA!!! Dammit! Marriage na by force??? Living in misery better? And this is a chick who served in the military here and can always abandon this creepy dude and return back to her comfy independent, albeit single life! NAIJA WOMEN! Hah! Society really screwed up our mentality!
     
  13. Thickmadam

    Thickmadam OHHHHHH YEAHHHHHHHH!!

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    i have no problem with this
    if the man is not able and she is, then why not? theyre supposed to be a unit, a family. if she can carry the family while her husband cannot, then go for it sister with your strong self.
    a man should be able to help his wife with washing dishes if she cannot get to them, or throwing laundry in the machine if she is stuck at work and he is sitting home with no job. but if she is able to do all that when she comes home and it works for their family, then *clap, clap* for the woman.
    but no man should ever, ever lay his hands on a woman.

    and if she wants an abortion, why stop her? you don't know where it is paining her or what her life is like or if she can love the baby. her being 32 doesnt mean anything.
    40+ year old women can, and are, having babies.

     
  14. Kala Lou

    Kala Lou Well-Known Member

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    So when a woman becomes a wife, she stops being a woman? This is some ignant s&%# right here. Everybody dey try to be profound these days...I don roll my eyes tire at my facebook newsfeed...I'm almost cockeyed.....
     
  15. Dsampler

    Dsampler D. Ultimate Naija Ruler

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    Sis, wetin I know be say Love is stronger than pride...and love is also blind. Love will make you do all those things you've sworn never to ever do for a man in your life. Unless if na fake love. If you really really fall in love, if the man tell you to chop deti from the gutter, you go chop am. me I've seen some women do some very very scary things for their man with these my 2 eyes.
     
  16. Supermom

    Supermom Well-Known Member

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    Written by a man with a small package...ie pigs tail and height issues...
     
  17. Sifu

    Sifu Well-Known Member

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    That is not love. Love is not one sided. Therefore in a healthy relationship a good partner will not reduce his dedicated spouse to choping deti from gutter as you put it.
     
  18. Sifu

    Sifu Well-Known Member

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    lmao
     
  19. Thickmadam

    Thickmadam OHHHHHH YEAHHHHHHHH!!

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    Lolololol....bwahahahahahahaaaaaaaa
     
  20. amet13

    amet13 I dey keep my side

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    Supermom no kill me for my children oh!!!
     
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