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Difference between a 'woman' and a 'wife'....

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ssergit

..still The Drama Queen!
#1
A man must have written this! or a woman with VERY low self-esteem hiding behind religion!
Seriously????
Some of the points below makes no sense! And its the sort of garbage our women are fed from childhood that makes most of them stay in miserable marriages! Haba!

* A wife is one who is married to Christ first! A woman is one who just looks forward to our earthly marriage and all she wants is a man in her life without accepting responsibilities of a wife!

*A woman is one who wants to be in control and wants to head the family but a wife is one who says even if you have your flaws I
will submit to you and help you become a perfect husband!!

* A woman is one who raises her voice in an argument with the husband yet a wife is one who is willing to give an ear and listen to the head of the house and waits for right/conducive time to address her issues.

* A woman is one who neglects her duties wanting the man's responsibilities, a wife is one who knows and does her duties well and is there to give insight in a loving way where her husband is lacking not to take over where he is lacking!!

* A woman is one who seeks vengeance in a marriage yet a wife is one who knows how to kneel down and intercede for her husband when he does wrong!!

* A woman is one who thinks that being promiscuous also is the best way to settle a score with a cheating husband yet a wife is one who praises God for a husband and her marriage and yet still intercedes for the husband and marriage!!

* A woman is one who thinks that her salary brings food on the table and prosperity in the family yet a wife is one who knows that her submission is one which bring all favor on the marriage!!

* A woman is one who thinks that her rights are the one which protects her from the husband but a wife is one who knows that submission is her best weapon in marriage!!

* A woman who thinks that her beauty is the which attracts a man's wealth yet a wife who knows that her submission and character in Christ is the one which attract a man's heart, love and wealth!!

* A woman is one who wants a perfect husband and a wife is one who perfects the husband

In short a woman is one whose heart lies in earthly/world riches and sees marriage as a leeway to a better life for herself yet a wife is one whose heart lies in Christ and His riches and knows that marriage is God's institution and no matter what wilderness it goes through she remain soaked in Christ and His ways!!... AMEN!!!
"Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised." - Proverbs 31:30
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ssergit

..still The Drama Queen!
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Seriously?????

A woman is one who thinks that being promiscuous also is the best way to settle a score with a cheating husband yet a wife is one who praises God for a husband and her marriage and yet still intercedes for the husband and marriage!!
I DON'T condone women cheating for whatever reason! BUT...... for her to PRAISE GOD FOR HER HUSBAND AND HER MARRIAGE AND YET STILL INTERCEDES..... ahhhhhh..... THAT ONE HARD O!!! Haba!!!!WHY???!!! In this day of HIV/AIDS????

Wisdom says........!!!! <cough cough>
 

Sifu

Well-Known Member
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Basically a story on "submission" but lets throw God in a couple of times so that it makes it seem more interesting.
 

Thickmadam

OHHHHHH YEAHHHHHHHH!!
#10
i have no problem with submission, i just want to them to explain to me what their idea of submission is.
i know what it is, for me.
but most times my christian friends think i'm nuts so...*shrug*
Basically a story on "submission" but lets throw God in a couple of times so that it makes it seem more interesting.
 

ssergit

..still The Drama Queen!
#11
I weak! They surely threw GOD in the whole write up so as to be 'holy' and some women would be swallowing these hook line and sinker!!!
Chai!

Ignorance is a CRIME!!!!
 

ssergit

..still The Drama Queen!
#12
check this out:!!

Smells and attracts WIFE BATTERY!

* A woman is one who thinks that her rights are the one which protects her from the husband but a wife is one who knows that submission is her best weapon in marriage!!
na so she go submit till 10 years go waka pass and she wakes up one day and wonder whatever happened to her life!! And counts how many times she had really laughed or been happy in 10 years! perhaps during the births of their children??? smh

my girl was hospitalized for 2 days recently. broken ribs and back! She was pregnant too! Dude beat her into the public with just her bra on! Everybody see her nakedness. She calls me that she is DONE! And would be going for abortion...... of course I told her to keep the baby, she is 32 or so.....she says wants no memory of him blah blah.....and I remember last time he beat her, she also said she was gone! But stayed! Even continued dishing the dude money! What makes our women stay even when they known their lives could be at risk? SUBMISSION??? Religious talks? What?

SUBMISSION! Eh?!!

Ok, I got a problem with a sistah feeding, housing the man and also doing bedroom duties plus housd and wifely chores and the man beating her!!! HABA!!! Dammit! Marriage na by force??? Living in misery better? And this is a chick who served in the military here and can always abandon this creepy dude and return back to her comfy independent, albeit single life! NAIJA WOMEN! Hah! Society really screwed up our mentality!
 

Thickmadam

OHHHHHH YEAHHHHHHHH!!
#13
i have no problem with this
a sistah feeding, housing the man and also doing bedroom duties plus housd and wifely chores
if the man is not able and she is, then why not? theyre supposed to be a unit, a family. if she can carry the family while her husband cannot, then go for it sister with your strong self.
a man should be able to help his wife with washing dishes if she cannot get to them, or throwing laundry in the machine if she is stuck at work and he is sitting home with no job. but if she is able to do all that when she comes home and it works for their family, then *clap, clap* for the woman.
but no man should ever, ever lay his hands on a woman.

and if she wants an abortion, why stop her? you don't know where it is paining her or what her life is like or if she can love the baby. her being 32 doesnt mean anything.
40+ year old women can, and are, having babies.

check this out:!!

Smells and attracts WIFE BATTERY!



na so she go submit till 10 years go waka pass and she wakes up one day and wonder whatever happened to her life!! And counts how many times she had really laughed or been happy in 10 years! perhaps during the births of their children??? smh

my girl was hospitalized for 2 days recently. broken ribs and back! She was pregnant too! Dude beat her into the public with just her bra on! Everybody see her nakedness. She calls me that she is DONE! And would be going for abortion...... of course I told her to keep the baby, she is 32 or so.....she says wants no memory of him blah blah.....and I remember last time he beat her, she also said she was gone! But stayed! Even continued dishing the dude money! What makes our women stay even when they known their lives could be at risk? SUBMISSION??? Religious talks? What?

SUBMISSION! Eh?!!

Ok, I got a problem with a sistah feeding, housing the man and also doing bedroom duties plus housd and wifely chores and the man beating her!!! HABA!!! Dammit! Marriage na by force??? Living in misery better? And this is a chick who served in the military here and can always abandon this creepy dude and return back to her comfy independent, albeit single life! NAIJA WOMEN! Hah! Society really screwed up our mentality!
 

Kala Lou

Well-Known Member
#14
So when a woman becomes a wife, she stops being a woman? This is some ignant s&%# right here. Everybody dey try to be profound these days...I don roll my eyes tire at my facebook newsfeed...I'm almost cockeyed.....
 

Dsampler

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I weak! They surely threw GOD in the whole write up so as to be 'holy' and some women would be swallowing these hook line and sinker!!!
Chai!

Ignorance is a CRIME!!!!
Sis, wetin I know be say Love is stronger than pride...and love is also blind. Love will make you do all those things you've sworn never to ever do for a man in your life. Unless if na fake love. If you really really fall in love, if the man tell you to chop deti from the gutter, you go chop am. me I've seen some women do some very very scary things for their man with these my 2 eyes.
 

Sifu

Well-Known Member
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Sis, wetin I know be say Love is stronger than pride...and love is also blind. Love will make you do all those things you've sworn never to ever do for a man in your life. Unless if na fake love. If you really really fall in love, if the man tell you to chop deti from the gutter, you go chop am. me I've seen some women do some very very scary things for their man with these my 2 eyes.
That is not love. Love is not one sided. Therefore in a healthy relationship a good partner will not reduce his dedicated spouse to choping deti from gutter as you put it.
 
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