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Has it ever happened to you before?

Discussion in 'LOVE, MARRIAGE, THE SEXES' started by babygurl, Apr 6, 2004.

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  1. babygurl

    babygurl Member

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    you meet someone and both of you ended up liking each other but it 's just too hard for both of you to be together cos of some circunstances.
    but my question is HOW CAN YOU GET OVER THAT PERSON?
     
  2. lady_vexy

    lady_vexy Heart that is Sweet

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    Avoid Him/her If U Can
     
  3. Ziggy

    Ziggy Member

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    Find some new interest, or new person to take your mind off them
     
  4. Okestra007

    Okestra007 Mr. Lover Man

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    Before you think about getting over that person, have you asked yourself if the circumstances are permanent? Sometimes what you think is a big deal might not be that much of a deal after all. If you two think that you want this to happen, you can work around things sometimes.
     
  5. robeta_021

    robeta_021 Well-Known Member

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    I agree with everyone that has posted their replies so far. It is very difficult though to get over someone that you have feelings for. But just as Okestra said, the "circumstances" might not be as serious as they seem. However, if all else fails, I think with time you'll get over that person, it's not easy, but you will.
     
  6. elvis02

    elvis02 DA KING

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    If only y'all truely have feelings 4 each other, no mather what the circumstances, there maybe a solution and i think only the two of you could solve it if only those feelings are 4 real.Oh yeah and u dn't want to give up on something u truely believe that u could get no matter what it takes.PEACE1!!
     
  7. mamarita

    mamarita OJODTROUBLELOVER

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    you waka pass
     
  8. adbabie

    adbabie Active Member

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    As u said..it's the circumstance that can't make it work...it's all in the mind - but then again avoiding the person can work too... ;)
     
  9. Hardcore

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    To get over someone, you have got to accept whta has happened. YOu have gotta accept the fact that yall cannot be together...only then, will you have a good healing process.

    One of my boyz, fell in love two years ago. He dated this lovely lovely girl and then he finally proposed. Only for his family to find out that the girl was an OUTKAST...those of you that are ibo, know what this means...and his father refused them the right to marry and now its all over.
    When i heard the story...i was shocked. This is 2004, who still cares who is an outkast and who isnt.
    But such is life.

    Prayer too works more than we think it does.
     
  10. hafseedee

    hafseedee music lover

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    well i guess u just take it one day at a time. or explain tot he person so u can have an amicable seperation.
     
  11. solatoks

    solatoks naija rules 4ever

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    Abeg I know it's going to be difficult but with time, u'll forget that person. Remember time's a healer
     
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