I Married Him For Money, But After Marriage Everything Stopped

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ssergit

..still The Drama Queen!
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My name is Ayo. I am in my late 20’s. I have been married for 3 years. Okay let me start over again, I am writing this story because I want girls to read and learn from my experience.

I dated Alhaji for a while, not minding the fact that he has three wives. I was only interested in getting married, and it didn’t really matter who, as long as he had money, and I could be tagged a Lagos big girl. I eventually got married to alhaji, and he promised to buy me a house, car, and startup a business for me.
I got pregnant almost immediately and moved to one of his houses.

I thought alhaji would buy me a car immediately since I was carrying his baby but he always asked his driver to take me wherever I wanted. Is excuse was that he did not want me to drive around because of my condition.

I later mentioned it to him and he told me he was going to get it once I had my baby.
Three months after my baby was born, I raised the issue of starting my business and getting my car again, and he just waved it up.

After six months I couldn’t take it again because alhaji started giving me just 25k monthly for upkeep and I had to do something. So I called one of my ex-aristos and told him my predicament. He was kind enough to give me 500k I added 200k I had to it and started my business.

Alhaji asked me where I got the money from I told him it was my savings. After a while he gave me a 2-door golf car, and I was disappointed because his wives drives jeeps but alhaji would not hear of it, he said that’s what he had for me so I took it.

When the shame became too much I started sleeping with aristos again secretly and I am living better now. I went to my family to tell them I want tot leave alhaji, but they disagreed because they all opposed my marriage at first and they all insist I must continue.

I am already making plans I have to leave alhaji next year I can’t continue to suffer. I don’t care what you guys think or say about me, I just want ladies like me to read and learn that “All that glitters is not gold”.

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Village-Boi

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There isnt anything to learn from this story. Writer is still sleeping around and hasnt learnt anything from her own experience so what's there to learn.
Na wa o, me sef read the thing twice come dey wonder if I missed some important point Ayo made? Apparently not... she's an even dumber bush meat 2nd time around!
 

Sifu

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Honestly I think I have too much pride when I hear some Nigeria women talk. I would never have married had I lived in Nigeria. Too independent minded. To each their own
 

ssergit

..still The Drama Queen!
#6
I weak for the woman story sha.
She is WIFE #4!!! And she been expect say she go remain mistress abi Amariya for ever???

She never hear the proverb wey say na the cane wey husband take beat first wife e go take beat second one too????

And I guess her daftness go assume say Alhaji sef no see say she be gold digger before he married her? smh

she has LEARNT NOTHING! And I bet you na another polygamous home she go end up, all for the love of money!

i wonder, why did she even bother to marry? Seeing she is more 'productive' with her aristos!!!??


MUMU and IDIOTIC woman to the power 10000000000000! hisssss
 

mimi victor

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Glorified prostitution is the in thing among our Naija girls these days. Gone are the time when university Educations was highly respected The good girls are made to look like Suegbes by dumb dumb Ayos.
 

Sifu

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I weak for the woman story sha.
She is WIFE #4!!! And she been expect say she go remain mistress abi Amariya for ever???

She never hear the proverb wey say na the cane wey husband take beat first wife e go take beat second one too????

And I guess her daftness go assume say Alhaji sef no see say she be gold digger before he married her? smh

she has LEARNT NOTHING! And I bet you na another polygamous home she go end up, all for the love of money!

i wonder, why did she even bother to marry? Seeing she is more 'productive' with her aristos!!!??


MUMU and IDIOTIC woman to the power 10000000000000! hisssss
What makes her a wife though. How is she different from any other average runs girl.
 

ssergit

..still The Drama Queen!
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What makes her a wife though. How is she different from any other average runs girl.
Good question!

Well, she is 'married', living under the roof of a man....sodiafore, she is a 'wife'...forget that she is also an ashawo! Serves Alhaji right sef, for bringing his ashie home!
I feel sorry for the other wives (IF they are faithful O!), because #4 ashawo here fit waka carry AIDS come distribute to the whole clan via Alhaji!!
 

Amiga

Wonder woman
#10
Glorified prostitution is the in thing among our Naija girls these days. Gone are the time when university Educations was highly respected The good girls are made to look like Suegbes by dumb dumb Ayos.
There aint anything glorified about it, its plain and simple ashawo tings. University Education you say!!!! that is where they hone the skills for the very lucrative business of selling their bodies to the highest bidder, no dulling, lol
 
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