I've known this church member for over 5 years with his wife and 2 beautiful daughters. He was never a friend but we often exchange pleasantries. Today, I walked into a restaurant with my wife and saw him sitting with a youngish looking lady. My first instinct was that she was his co-worker or a business associate. I naively asked how he was doing and how are his wife and kids. He muffled "fine". I found that his response was kind of ambivalent and nonchalant so we promptly proceeded to our seat as led by the waitress. I then heard the young lady yelled " How dare you lied to me" followed by a splashing noise and when I looked back, the guy was wet and the large cup of coke and ice on their table appeared empty. The girl then bailed towards the bathroom in tears and He followed her saying" It's not what you are thinking". I told my wife that we needed to leave ASAP but she then sat comfortably like someone waiting to see the conclusion of a movie. I held her wrist, grind my teeth and calmly but seriously said let's get out of here now and she complied........ My wife didn't think I did any thing wrong but I felt so bad for ruining someone's date. My questions are: Was I wrong for asking about his family in front of another lady? Do I call him and offer an apology? What do I do when I next see him? Should I just skip church for about a month and see what happen? Was I wrong to leave the restaurant? I really feel bad for the dude and thanks in advance for your input.