Marrying From Home

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dododudu

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lola_americana said:
na wish kain yeye exit b dat u no even wait for me to land before you dey vamoos n e way how you dey how bodi shey e still dey for inside clot
sweetie, I see ya email notification.

bodi dey inside designer cloth and obroshoh!

and I come take style go check dat "For the Married Folks":thread
and I come see say ALL VOCAL MARRIED FOLKS ARE Missing In Action!! And na the kind serious talk wey I don dey hope say one of them go tish abi na teach us 'miserable and frustrated single". Dem really no want make me marry too oh!!!


Shuo!! E be like na only cuss, abuse, and more curses dem sabi!!

make dem teach us "single and never see man for road" way to join them for 'happy land' or utopic marriages. WHOSAI!!!!

My jotter still dey kamkpe, I still dey lick my pencil tip to keep am moist for the furious points wey I go gather for that thread O!!!! (i.e., ifthe 'usual peeps' go even get anything tangible to contribute without copying and pasting googled up tips! :roll)


Oya make I run, I don .....................

and Fridays dey always hot me my username, as per dem like to vent dem 'frustration' on me before weekend.

BYE!!!
 

leggy

change is constant
EstellaCouture said:
for your information SECOND ID I know so well, and also dislike very well too:!

I just read that Ogonna is a man, and that makes a whole lot of difference, as he is not a fussing, clueless married woman.

And do yaself a favor and stop looking for my attention!!

I hope this would last you for the whole Friday, as I am sure you would raise your other username and this one to cuss me out today, or instigate ya peeps to cuss me, but too bad I wont be responding to you anymore! Get a life dear!! Its not that serious! Its only the Net!!!

Men.i can actually feel d venom in ur spit and its soooo scary 2 d xtent dat am begining2 imagine ur face popping out of my laptop in fury.:spin2: :1200: hmmm.its indeed true dat earth hath no fury dan a woman scorned!!!!!! yes,its not dat serious!its only d Net!! so why r u wailing???:confused:

And wat diff does it make if ogonna is male/fem.hsssssssssssssssssssssssssss
 
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dododudu

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tendencies :roll :roll :roll :roll
not smart enuff to even change writing style.....


Toodles!!

I aint being Online for another Friday drama O jare.

Hasta La Vista!!! Try next door!!:roll
 

Ricardo

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leggy said:
Men.i can actually feel d venom in ur spit and its soooo scary 2 d xtent dat am begining2 imagine ur face popping out of my laptop in fury.:spin2: :1200: hmmm.its indeed true dat earth hath no fury dan a woman scorned!!!!!! yes,its not dat serious!its only d Net!! so why r u wailing???:confused:

And wat diff does it make if ogonna is male/fem.hsssssssssssssssssssssssssss
..Peace Perfect Peace ....... Itssssss Fridayyyy !! grinning:
 

Ricardo

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EstellaCouture said:
tendencies :roll :roll
not smart enuff to even change writing style.....


Toodles!!

I aint being Online for another Friday drama O jare.

Hasta La Vista!!! Try next door!!:roll
......hush dear !! Itsssss Friday remember ??????????? :)
 

Multioption

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jamaicayute said:
Maybe I am just a logical thiking being. Let us use Liberia as an example.Before the war there was a MBA girl supposedly in a higher class, war comes economy is shot no job, what is shje gonna do with her coveted MBA? That is not my point however, so she is in a "higher class" with her MBA. Mr Monrovia based taxi driver is supposedly in a lower class.

The war is over she still have no job with her coveted MBA because the economy is still not rebuilt but he is making money shuttling people all around? My question, has she moved down in class? Has he moved up? Is he class based on her degree? Income or what? Think about it and you will see class is baloney. People by elevating themselves above others in their own mind actually are only excluding themselves from potential good partnerships and relationships business and otherwise.
Your view is rather constricted because in your attempt to be practical, you inadvertently missed the important issue raised by Rudeboy. A single lady with an MBA may forget/ignore/lower/abandon her class to get by, thus settling for "anything goes," but that doesn't mean she will continue to live her life "getting by."

She is like a caged Eagle waiting for opportunity to soar!!
 

lola_americana

i'M bRinGinG sExYBacK!!!!
leggy said:
Men.i can actually feel d venom in ur spit and its soooo scary 2 d xtent dat am begining2 imagine ur face popping out of my laptop in fury.:spin2: :1200: hmmm.its indeed true dat earth hath no fury dan a woman scorned!!!!!! yes,its not dat serious!its only d Net!! so why r u wailing???:confused:

And wat diff does it make if ogonna is male/fem.hsssssssssssssssssssssssssss


EstellaCouture said:
tendencies
not smart enuff to even change writing style.....


Toodles!!

I aint being Online for another Friday drama O jare.

Hasta La Vista!!! Try next door!!:roll
i see say dis one go pass america and iraq war:box small small now these punches una dey jab each oda too much o. anyway estella shey you you no tok say you get work abeg carry go make you go make dollar make we spend for weekend o jare
 

angeleyez

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I read up to page 8 and just had to make a comment before I continue.....

Leggy, refrain from thinking that Nigerian-American chicks are brainless 'cos not all of us as a matter of fact, I get brain well well so at least there goes your proff that we are not like that. Same brainless thingy goes for Naija babes too.....brainless abilities can attach to anyone o, kokoye, *****o, omo una, omo ngbati, ireke and so on and so forth.

This can you marry from home thing get as he be o.....

what we need to worry about is meeting the right person? If you shine your eyez well well and look with a non-brainless skull, then you won't have any reason running into a man that wants to use you for pali. If you purposely go home to find a spouse, you get agenda and men are mostly guilty of this 'cos they can't deal with American babes basically nononsense type....they want the boyboy type babe. In the case of women that goes home for that potential someone, you get agenda too, you are probably some kinda ashawo that can't get a man overseas and had to go home to trick that one man that will fall for your lies of been the most miss goody-two/too(whateva)-shoes.

I've seen marriages work anyway, I have friends that moved home to be with their hubby and some that brought their hubby here and they are all doing fine. Funny enough, the friends that went home are doing way better than the ones here so marry from home is not as bad as people might view it to be. Because others had bad experiences does not mean you will. What is wrong is filing for someone anyway? Used to be free back in the days without charge (from what I know not what I've heard). Before I got married, I would file for anyone that wants it out of the goodness of my heart, no strings attached and knows a couple of more. What is a Pali anyway? I know y'all know people do live better outside America than those of us overseas.

There are many bad stories out there but do we have to make their stories ours? What y'all need to do is learn from those stories or experiences and not create a stumbling block for yourselves. Because lagbaja had a bad experience does not mean tamedo will go through the same thing. As women, we already have preferences such as, looks, wallet size, class and so on and now we wan add kilometers.....all these put together equals no man o.

But seriously, if you marry someone from here that has pali, he might be a 419bobo that you might end up visiting him in jail for a very long time or he might be a cheat or whateva. Women like I've always said....SHINE YA EYEZ O pali or no pali, naija or no naija, SHINE YA EYEZ. Thank God I shinned mine anyway...
 

Ricardo

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angeleyez said:
There are many bad stories out there but do we have to make their stories ours? What y'all need to do is learn from those stories or experiences and not create a stumbling block for yourselves. Because lagbaja had a bad experience does not mean tamedo will go through the same thing. As women, we already have preferences such as, looks, wallet size, class and so on and now we wan add kilometers.....all these put together equals no man o.
But seriously, if you marry someone from here that has pali, he might be a 419bobo that you might end up visiting him in jail for a very long time or he might be a cheat or whateva. Women like I've always said....SHINE YA EYEZ O pali or no pali, naija or no naija, SHINE YA EYEZ. Thank God I shinned mine anyway...
..Well Stated ! grinning:
 

angeleyez

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ogonna said:
Abeg, make we hear word! Some of us are tired of hearing all these horror stories which naija women abroad keep on re-cycling to comfort yourselves in your miserable loneliness.

What is it jo? So it is every time naija man goes home to marry that it must crash?

What is the percentage of such marriages that crash?

That is how you women keep on deceiving yourselves - instead of making yourselves marriageable, you all gather in your witches conclaves at naija parties and weddings and trade horror stories about absconding wives from home just in order to make your sad selves happy.

Na the type of una wey dey go welcome party for the new wife from home to sneer and pray for the marriage to fail so that you pple will be vindicated.

Why not kuku marry oyibo or Asian and leave the foolish naija men to continue going home to marry?

After all you did not pay anybody's ticket to come to America - so wetin concern weda naija man go home to marry?
Jejely o, Ogonna.....haba not that serious
 

angeleyez

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jamaicayute said:
Bredren I am in no war with no man. All the guy was saying is the women complain but they make no effort to meet folk. I dont think any man with 2 legs and a head on his shoulders have problem finding a woman. Its they who are complaining not us.
Lot of people hype themselves about job looks and shape and all that vanity, but been there done that, lot of them a waste of tiem which is why they cant get no one. Ogonna told the truth. its hurts though

I beg to differ, there are some men out there that are also begging maybe not as much as women but they exist sir jamo.
 

angeleyez

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Honourable said:
I really feel marriage is a life-long investment, and the idea of having to move from one place to the other looking for a life partner( you know almost nothing about ) is a very risky venture. The whole idea that single naija girls in America are all "frustrated", "club-hopping" women is very tired: there are very good Nigerian single girls out here. For a man to leave for Naija in search of a "wife": a woman he knows almost nothing about, is not very smart in my opinion. Dat man must have a problem with himself he needs to take care of. I know countless Nigerian couples that met here in America and their marriages are doing just fine. Now other ppl's opinion might differ, but of course to each his own.smokin:

@highlight....Agenda, him get agenda.....after using all the women he can get overseas and dumping them......now he believes the ones overseas are bad apples and the ones in Naija are the good aples......be careful 'cos your naija wife may use to be an aristos.

On the other hand sha, ain't nothing wrong in travelling world apart to fine ya sugarpie.
 

Honourable

Mr. Naijarules!
angeleyez said:
@highlight....Agenda, him get agenda.....after using all the women he can get overseas and dumping them......now he believes the ones overseas are bad apples and the ones in Naija are the good aples......be careful 'cos your naija wife may use to be an aristos.

On the other hand sha, ain't nothing wrong in travelling world apart to fine ya sugarpie.
True Dat!!!grinning:
 

angeleyez

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EstellaCouture said:
Not fair!!!!!!!

A job is a job in America!!

Afterall, back in the day, there was a slang in naija as per people saying they dont mind to come wash corpses in America.!! Cab no better? haba!

I would rather a man drives a cab, than going to push cocaine or going to rob a bank, abeg!!!!!

And would I marry a cab driver?

Let me answer that for you......No, I don't think you'ld marry one.

I don't think 99.99999% of all the women on these NR will marry one either.......we should all stop fronting......there was another thread that talked about this taxi driving too and everybody kept saying its a job. Yes, it is a job but all of us will say i won't marry the guy but WE WILL ONLY GIVE HIM A CHANCE IF HE CAN SUCCEED IN SWEEPING US OFF OUR FEET WITH HIS CABBY MONEY AND IN TURN NAGG HIM ABOUT CHANGING HIS CAREER IF HE WANTS TO BE A CABBY FOR LIFE. If a cabby asks every single women in the house out, everyone one will say absolutely NO and go have fun with your friends laughing your hearts out about some pot belly cabby asking you out. A cabby asking you out is like an ugly guy asking you out so women let's admit it, we all say no first and probably give him a chance later. But the first move is to say NO because of his profession sha.

Y'all know I'm right so do not vampire my neck for this one o.
 

angeleyez

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EstellaCouture said:
sweetie, I see ya email notification.

bodi dey inside designer cloth and obroshoh!

and I come take style go check dat "For the Married Folks":thread
and I come see say ALL VOCAL MARRIED FOLKS ARE Missing In Action!! And na the kind serious talk wey I don dey hope say one of them go tish abi na teach us 'miserable and frustrated single". Dem really no want make me marry too oh!!!


Shuo!! E be like na only cuss, abuse, and more curses dem sabi!!

make dem teach us "single and never see man for road" way to join them for 'happy land' or utopic marriages. WHOSAI!!!!

My jotter still dey kamkpe, I still dey lick my pencil tip to keep am moist for the furious points wey I go gather for that thread O!!!! (i.e., ifthe 'usual peeps' go even get anything tangible to contribute without copying and pasting googled up tips! :roll)


Oya make I run, I don .....................

and Fridays dey always hot me my username, as per dem like to vent dem 'frustration' on me before weekend.

BYE!!!
@highlight.......coughs........:ringed not all of us o....I be pastor's wife, I no fit cuss..........on the other hand.....:)
 

olofofogal

Let d smoke carry d point
i see this thread is boiling already...i aint got time to contribute right now becos i no want indirect insult oh....so like BB i will hide jejely!

btw frustration aint my middle name...i wonder why some peeps find it hard to believe that some marriages are made in heaven and people can get married and despite all odds remain happy together without wishing to be single...hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm na wah!...aynway make i run go shopping:roll :roll :roll
 

Ayesha

InaAni - Classic Beauty
Does a thread always have to turn into a fight???? Goodness cant a thread just be drama free??? We are all educated and I believe everyone can give a good opinioin on how they feel. No one refers to anyone when threads are started but for some reason on NR, peeps feel like peeps are referring to them..Enough is Enough.. We should be able to have conversations that are insult free and drama free.

In my opinion, I dont see anything wrong in marrying from Nigeria and bringing here.. there is nothing wrong in that.. or is that not your country.... However, I refuse to do it because its just not my style... Matter of opinion..

Lets start acting like adults.. if you have nothing positive to say.. keep your comments to yourself.. and I AM NOT REFERRING TO ANYONE
 
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