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Marrying From Home

Discussion in 'LOVE, MARRIAGE, THE SEXES' started by aamad12, Mar 29, 2005.

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  1. dododudu

    dododudu Guest

    sweetie, I see ya email notification.

    bodi dey inside designer cloth and obroshoh!

    and I come take style go check dat "For the Married Folks":thread
    and I come see say ALL VOCAL MARRIED FOLKS ARE Missing In Action!! And na the kind serious talk wey I don dey hope say one of them go tish abi na teach us 'miserable and frustrated single". Dem really no want make me marry too oh!!!


    Shuo!! E be like na only cuss, abuse, and more curses dem sabi!!

    make dem teach us "single and never see man for road" way to join them for 'happy land' or utopic marriages. WHOSAI!!!!

    My jotter still dey kamkpe, I still dey lick my pencil tip to keep am moist for the furious points wey I go gather for that thread O!!!! (i.e., ifthe 'usual peeps' go even get anything tangible to contribute without copying and pasting googled up tips! :roll)


    Oya make I run, I don .....................

    and Fridays dey always hot me my username, as per dem like to vent dem 'frustration' on me before weekend.

    BYE!!!
     
  2. leggy

    leggy change is constant

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    Men.i can actually feel d venom in ur spit and its soooo scary 2 d xtent dat am begining2 imagine ur face popping out of my laptop in fury.:spin2: :1200: hmmm.its indeed true dat earth hath no fury dan a woman scorned!!!!!! yes,its not dat serious!its only d Net!! so why r u wailing???:confused:

    And wat diff does it make if ogonna is male/fem.hsssssssssssssssssssssssssss
     
  3. dododudu

    dododudu Guest

    tendencies :roll :roll :roll :roll
    not smart enuff to even change writing style.....


    Toodles!!

    I aint being Online for another Friday drama O jare.

    Hasta La Vista!!! Try next door!!:roll
     
  4. Ricardo

    Ricardo I'm Favored by God !

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    ..Peace Perfect Peace ....... Itssssss Fridayyyy !! grinning:
     
  5. Ricardo

    Ricardo I'm Favored by God !

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    ......hush dear !! Itsssss Friday remember ??????????? :)
     
  6. leggy

    leggy change is constant

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    a'ight.thanx
     
  7. Multioption

    Multioption Well-Known Member

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    Your view is rather constricted because in your attempt to be practical, you inadvertently missed the important issue raised by Rudeboy. A single lady with an MBA may forget/ignore/lower/abandon her class to get by, thus settling for "anything goes," but that doesn't mean she will continue to live her life "getting by."

    She is like a caged Eagle waiting for opportunity to soar!!
     
  8. lola_americana

    lola_americana i'M bRinGinG sExYBacK!!!!

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    i see say dis one go pass america and iraq war:box small small now these punches una dey jab each oda too much o. anyway estella shey you you no tok say you get work abeg carry go make you go make dollar make we spend for weekend o jare
     
  9. angeleyez

    angeleyez angeleyez

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    I read up to page 8 and just had to make a comment before I continue.....

    Leggy, refrain from thinking that Nigerian-American chicks are brainless 'cos not all of us as a matter of fact, I get brain well well so at least there goes your proff that we are not like that. Same brainless thingy goes for Naija babes too.....brainless abilities can attach to anyone o, kokoye, *****o, omo una, omo ngbati, ireke and so on and so forth.

    This can you marry from home thing get as he be o.....

    what we need to worry about is meeting the right person? If you shine your eyez well well and look with a non-brainless skull, then you won't have any reason running into a man that wants to use you for pali. If you purposely go home to find a spouse, you get agenda and men are mostly guilty of this 'cos they can't deal with American babes basically nononsense type....they want the boyboy type babe. In the case of women that goes home for that potential someone, you get agenda too, you are probably some kinda ashawo that can't get a man overseas and had to go home to trick that one man that will fall for your lies of been the most miss goody-two/too(whateva)-shoes.

    I've seen marriages work anyway, I have friends that moved home to be with their hubby and some that brought their hubby here and they are all doing fine. Funny enough, the friends that went home are doing way better than the ones here so marry from home is not as bad as people might view it to be. Because others had bad experiences does not mean you will. What is wrong is filing for someone anyway? Used to be free back in the days without charge (from what I know not what I've heard). Before I got married, I would file for anyone that wants it out of the goodness of my heart, no strings attached and knows a couple of more. What is a Pali anyway? I know y'all know people do live better outside America than those of us overseas.

    There are many bad stories out there but do we have to make their stories ours? What y'all need to do is learn from those stories or experiences and not create a stumbling block for yourselves. Because lagbaja had a bad experience does not mean tamedo will go through the same thing. As women, we already have preferences such as, looks, wallet size, class and so on and now we wan add kilometers.....all these put together equals no man o.

    But seriously, if you marry someone from here that has pali, he might be a 419bobo that you might end up visiting him in jail for a very long time or he might be a cheat or whateva. Women like I've always said....SHINE YA EYEZ O pali or no pali, naija or no naija, SHINE YA EYEZ. Thank God I shinned mine anyway...
     
  10. Ricardo

    Ricardo I'm Favored by God !

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    ..Well Stated ! grinning:
     
  11. angeleyez

    angeleyez angeleyez

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    Jejely o, Ogonna.....haba not that serious
     
  12. angeleyez

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    I beg to differ, there are some men out there that are also begging maybe not as much as women but they exist sir jamo.
     
  13. angeleyez

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    @highlight....Agenda, him get agenda.....after using all the women he can get overseas and dumping them......now he believes the ones overseas are bad apples and the ones in Naija are the good aples......be careful 'cos your naija wife may use to be an aristos.

    On the other hand sha, ain't nothing wrong in travelling world apart to fine ya sugarpie.
     
  14. Honourable

    Honourable Mr. Naijarules!

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    True Dat!!!grinning:
     
  15. angeleyez

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    Let me answer that for you......No, I don't think you'ld marry one.

    I don't think 99.99999% of all the women on these NR will marry one either.......we should all stop fronting......there was another thread that talked about this taxi driving too and everybody kept saying its a job. Yes, it is a job but all of us will say i won't marry the guy but WE WILL ONLY GIVE HIM A CHANCE IF HE CAN SUCCEED IN SWEEPING US OFF OUR FEET WITH HIS CABBY MONEY AND IN TURN NAGG HIM ABOUT CHANGING HIS CAREER IF HE WANTS TO BE A CABBY FOR LIFE. If a cabby asks every single women in the house out, everyone one will say absolutely NO and go have fun with your friends laughing your hearts out about some pot belly cabby asking you out. A cabby asking you out is like an ugly guy asking you out so women let's admit it, we all say no first and probably give him a chance later. But the first move is to say NO because of his profession sha.

    Y'all know I'm right so do not vampire my neck for this one o.
     
  16. angeleyez

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    @highlight.......coughs........:ringed not all of us o....I be pastor's wife, I no fit cuss..........on the other hand.....:)
     
  17. angeleyez

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    Leggy and Estella, e don do.....how people fit learn from all this bickering....
     
  18. angeleyez

    angeleyez angeleyez

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    oh! my sweet potato pie, u agree with me......smooches....:ringed
     
  19. olofofogal

    olofofogal Let d smoke carry d point

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    i see this thread is boiling already...i aint got time to contribute right now becos i no want indirect insult oh....so like BB i will hide jejely!

    btw frustration aint my middle name...i wonder why some peeps find it hard to believe that some marriages are made in heaven and people can get married and despite all odds remain happy together without wishing to be single...hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm na wah!...aynway make i run go shopping:roll :roll :roll
     
  20. Ayesha

    Ayesha InaAni - Classic Beauty

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    Does a thread always have to turn into a fight???? Goodness cant a thread just be drama free??? We are all educated and I believe everyone can give a good opinioin on how they feel. No one refers to anyone when threads are started but for some reason on NR, peeps feel like peeps are referring to them..Enough is Enough.. We should be able to have conversations that are insult free and drama free.

    In my opinion, I dont see anything wrong in marrying from Nigeria and bringing here.. there is nothing wrong in that.. or is that not your country.... However, I refuse to do it because its just not my style... Matter of opinion..

    Lets start acting like adults.. if you have nothing positive to say.. keep your comments to yourself.. and I AM NOT REFERRING TO ANYONE
     
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