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MATURE: Sex B4 Marriage

Discussion in 'LOVE, MARRIAGE, THE SEXES' started by omoge_Jumo, Jul 6, 2004.

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  1. omoge_Jumo

    omoge_Jumo Active Member

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    First and foremost, 'HELLO MY P’PLE'. Now to my topic :imp , why is it that a woman has to preserve herself for her husband whilst a man, even before the thought of marriage comes across his mind, could have even had more sex than he ever would in his whole wedded life.
    'Women must remain virgins until their wedding night' they say, but what about men. So you’re telling me that my husband can confidently enjoy me knowing that he's the only one to have ever done so yet I have to unite with him acknowledging that I’m not the first one, and may possibly not even be the last :mad: :devil :fbreath . It has even gone as bad as guyz hesitating to confess that they are virgins as if it's something for them to be ashamed of :eyes . Don’t get me wrong, I’m not confessing anything online o but if the depth of this were to be re-surfaced, one would realise that this is obviously unfair.

    So tell me, what are your opinions on this issue.
     
  2. Sola

    Sola Administrator
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    Men get the experience for you on the wedding night. How e for be if nobodi get experience dat nite? :)
     
  3. robeta_021

    robeta_021 Well-Known Member

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    Hmmm...nawa o. :)
     
  4. Okestra007

    Okestra007 Mr. Lover Man

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    I've got to be sure of "my skill" and there's no other way in knowing than to actually do this. Besides, based on my past experiences, I'll rather have someone with experience than one without, be for a wife or for a girlfriend. Believe me, is much better and easier on both party.
     
  5. Okestra007

    Okestra007 Mr. Lover Man

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    What's wa oo about this? Say something and stop running saliva all other the place jare! lol
     
  6. robeta_021

    robeta_021 Well-Known Member

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    I still believe there is a double standard when it comes to this issue. If you ask a good number of men, after mesing around, they still want "virgins" as wives. I don talk my own! :eyes
     
  7. Okestra007

    Okestra007 Mr. Lover Man

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    I understand that this is your own. And am sorry to say that, you're wrong. Most guy I have ever hard this sort of conversation with will rather have a test drive before buying, myself included. Besides, there's nothing speacial of good about been a virgin till wedding night other than the moral of it. The process of disvirgin is horrible and can sometime be terrifying. I hope not to ever have to go through it again. Oyinbo said "experience is the best teacher."
     
  8. robeta_021

    robeta_021 Well-Known Member

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    you hear yar name? abi "nawa o" be yar name now? :eyes
     
  9. robeta_021

    robeta_021 Well-Known Member

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    It depends on the calibre of guys you have asked i.e. if they share the same views as you do, they would of course concur to what you said.
     
  10. Nkechi

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    I believe that sex before marriage can be helpful sometimes for this is the only way to find out if you are going to be fulfilled in your relationship. I don't believe that sex before marriage is bad if performed with someone you love not even talking about this modern days where people feels the urge to be sexually satisfied within their marital relationship. I hate it when people says that they can have a happy marriage without being sexually satisfied or compatible with their partners. They are not being truthful to themselves, I am not discouraging the idea of remaining a virgin but it is better to go a virgin for a virgin so that will learn it together. :imp
     
  11. kcbabe64

    kcbabe64 Well-Known Member

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    TRUE DAT.BUT DNT U THINK IT SUD BE A 2 WAY THING, THEY CUD TEACH THEMSELVES AND COME UP WID NEW STYLES.
     
  12. kcbabe64

    kcbabe64 Well-Known Member

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    YES THEY ALWAYS WANT A GOOD AFRICAN GIRL WHO STILL KNOWS HER ROOTS N ALL DAT OTHER SHIT.
    BUT LADIES SUD CHECK THEIR HUSBANDS IF THEY WANNA DO IT FOR D FIRST TIME, LOTZ OF TEST D FELLA HAS 2 TAKE MEN.
     
  13. robeta_021

    robeta_021 Well-Known Member

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    EXACTLY!
     
  14. Pete

    Pete Well-Known Member

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    Ok, I support the idea of not having sex before marriage. It saves people from lots of trouble, though it takes real discipline, but it's worth it. Virginity is not common these days; it's actually a taboo to some ears, and I don't have problem with that, it all depends all how we want to live our lives.
     
  15. Nkechi

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    and what are the troubles it saves?
     
  16. Pete

    Pete Well-Known Member

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    don't get personal, sister. There are lots to mention.
     
  17. Nkechi

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    how do you mean? me personal ke, i guess u dont even knowwhat you talking about, sorry dear.
     
  18. Pete

    Pete Well-Known Member

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    ok, u want me to prove myself, right?
     
  19. robeta_021

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    Pete why you dey dodge question now? ;)
     
  20. Nkechi

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    heaven yes!!!!
     
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