First and foremost, 'HELLO MY P’PLE'. Now to my topic :imp , why is it that a woman has to preserve herself for her husband whilst a man, even before the thought of marriage comes across his mind, could have even had more sex than he ever would in his whole wedded life. 'Women must remain virgins until their wedding night' they say, but what about men. So you’re telling me that my husband can confidently enjoy me knowing that he's the only one to have ever done so yet I have to unite with him acknowledging that I’m not the first one, and may possibly not even be the last :devil :fbreath . It has even gone as bad as guyz hesitating to confess that they are virgins as if it's something for them to be ashamed of :eyes . Don’t get me wrong, I’m not confessing anything online o but if the depth of this were to be re-surfaced, one would realise that this is obviously unfair. So tell me, what are your opinions on this issue.