MATURE: Sex B4 Marriage

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First and foremost, 'HELLO MY P’PLE'. Now to my topic :imp , why is it that a woman has to preserve herself for her husband whilst a man, even before the thought of marriage comes across his mind, could have even had more sex than he ever would in his whole wedded life.
'Women must remain virgins until their wedding night' they say, but what about men. So you’re telling me that my husband can confidently enjoy me knowing that he's the only one to have ever done so yet I have to unite with him acknowledging that I’m not the first one, and may possibly not even be the last :mad: :devil :fbreath . It has even gone as bad as guyz hesitating to confess that they are virgins as if it's something for them to be ashamed of :eyes . Don’t get me wrong, I’m not confessing anything online o but if the depth of this were to be re-surfaced, one would realise that this is obviously unfair.

So tell me, what are your opinions on this issue.
 

Sola

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Men get the experience for you on the wedding night. How e for be if nobodi get experience dat nite? :)
 

Okestra007

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I've got to be sure of "my skill" and there's no other way in knowing than to actually do this. Besides, based on my past experiences, I'll rather have someone with experience than one without, be for a wife or for a girlfriend. Believe me, is much better and easier on both party.
 

robeta_021

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Okestra007 said:
I've got to be sure of "my skill" and there's no other way in knowing than to actually do this. Besides, based on my past experiences, I'll rather have someone with experience than one without, be for a wife or for a girlfriend. Believe me, is much better and easier on both party.

I still believe there is a double standard when it comes to this issue. If you ask a good number of men, after mesing around, they still want "virgins" as wives. I don talk my own! :eyes
 

Okestra007

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robeta_021 said:
I still believe there is a double standard when it comes to this issue. If you ask a good number of men, after mesing around, they still want "virgins" as wives. I don talk my own! :eyes
I understand that this is your own. And am sorry to say that, you're wrong. Most guy I have ever hard this sort of conversation with will rather have a test drive before buying, myself included. Besides, there's nothing speacial of good about been a virgin till wedding night other than the moral of it. The process of disvirgin is horrible and can sometime be terrifying. I hope not to ever have to go through it again. Oyinbo said "experience is the best teacher."
 

robeta_021

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Okestra007 said:
I understand that this is your own. And am sorry to say that, you're wrong. Most guy I have ever hard this sort of conversation with will rather have a test drive before buying, myself included. Besides, there's nothing speacial of good about been a virgin till wedding night other than the moral of it. The process of disvirgin is horrible and can sometime be terrifying. I hope not to ever have to go through it again. Oyinbo said "experience is the best teacher."


It depends on the calibre of guys you have asked i.e. if they share the same views as you do, they would of course concur to what you said.
 
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I believe that sex before marriage can be helpful sometimes for this is the only way to find out if you are going to be fulfilled in your relationship. I don't believe that sex before marriage is bad if performed with someone you love not even talking about this modern days where people feels the urge to be sexually satisfied within their marital relationship. I hate it when people says that they can have a happy marriage without being sexually satisfied or compatible with their partners. They are not being truthful to themselves, I am not discouraging the idea of remaining a virgin but it is better to go a virgin for a virgin so that will learn it together. :imp
 

kcbabe64

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Sola said:
Men get the experience for you on the wedding night. How e for be if nobodi get experience dat nite? :)
TRUE DAT.BUT DNT U THINK IT SUD BE A 2 WAY THING, THEY CUD TEACH THEMSELVES AND COME UP WID NEW STYLES.
 

kcbabe64

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robeta_021 said:
I still believe there is a double standard when it comes to this issue. If you ask a good number of men, after mesing around, they still want "virgins" as wives. I don talk my own! :eyes

YES THEY ALWAYS WANT A GOOD AFRICAN GIRL WHO STILL KNOWS HER ROOTS N ALL DAT OTHER SHIT.
BUT LADIES SUD CHECK THEIR HUSBANDS IF THEY WANNA DO IT FOR D FIRST TIME, LOTZ OF TEST D FELLA HAS 2 TAKE MEN.
 

robeta_021

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kcbabe64 said:
YES THEY ALWAYS WANT A GOOD AFRICAN GIRL WHO STILL KNOWS HER ROOTS N ALL DAT OTHER SHIT.
BUT LADIES SUD CHECK THEIR HUSBANDS IF THEY WANNA DO IT FOR D FIRST TIME, LOTZ OF TEST D FELLA HAS 2 TAKE MEN.

EXACTLY!
 

Pete

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Ok, I support the idea of not having sex before marriage. It saves people from lots of trouble, though it takes real discipline, but it's worth it. Virginity is not common these days; it's actually a taboo to some ears, and I don't have problem with that, it all depends all how we want to live our lives.
 
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Pete said:
Ok, I support the idea of not having sex before marriage. It saves people from lots of trouble, though it takes real discipline, but it's worth it. Virginity is not common these days; it's actually a taboo to some ears, and I don't have problem with that, it all depends all how we want to live our lives.
and what are the troubles it saves?
 
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