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MATURE: She gave me...

Discussion in 'LOVE, MARRIAGE, THE SEXES' started by grafikdon, May 19, 2006.

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  1. grafikdon

    grafikdon Well-Known Member

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    DUE TO THE GRAPHIC CONTENT OF THE FOLLOWING POST, READER DISCRETION IS ADVISED.

    IF YOU ARE EASILY OFFENDED BY OPEN DISCUSSION OF HUMAN SEXUAL BEHAVIOURS, PLEASE YOU ARE ADVISED TO HOLD ALOOF.


















    She gave me a head... He ate me up...


    Before you frown your face out of proportion...hear me out.

    I have been wondering the reaction of African men on this issue and judging from my research, it is obvious they are okay with this when they are on the receiving end...they find it rather disgusting to 'eat up' their mates...the two things are the same so they should express disgust over both receiving head and eating up...

    We all know that open discussion of sex in the African society is a taboo...even though there's no written law that says so...just as it is a taboo ta get a divorce or have a child out of wed lock (ime mkpuke/ime oghom). I pointed this out because it has been said that those 'abominable' practices are of the western origin and shouldn't be embraced by Africans. I have a feeling that our ancestors practiced these but due to theuir secretive nature...nobody knew about it...I bet NONE of us has the courage to find out from our parents.

    Bottom line: I think a couple (preferably married) who are deeply entangled in the intricate web of affection should do anything within the horizon of human imagination to spice up their sex life. Sex, like any other thing we do in life gets boring and too monotonous when it is stripped of its flava...

    I'd like to get your opinion on this.

    P.S. You don't have to be a head giver or receiver to reply 'cause I myself am not a head receiver, neither have I 'had anyone for lunch'. Just state your opinion.

    Thanks.
     
  2. blackbutterfly

    blackbutterfly Well-Known Member

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    BBfly slowwwwwwwwwly backs out of the room and tip toes down the halllllllll with both hands over her eyes:eek:
     
  3. obude

    obude Eson 'N' Uselu.

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    Hmmm!!!!!!
     
  4. robeta_021

    robeta_021 Well-Known Member

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    I agree, I think it spices up a relationship and it's more fun when you're committed.
     
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    khamileon Well-Known Member

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    :roll :roll :roll
     
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    hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
     
  7. msjollies

    msjollies Planner Extraodinaire

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    My broda, i am so there with you on this topic, i believe men who do no give are being selfish and all they think about is themselves, trust me dat kin man after him don ***, e no care wetin happen to d woman.
    Anyways, it is a true way to add spice to a healthy relationship, i mean u do not want 2 make love all the time and sometimes good foreplay leads to a wonderful session of love making.

    There are times dat all u do is wine and dine each other and just enjoy fore play instead of having s*x, making love or f***ing, which ever floats ur boat.

    Trust me alot of women give it and do not know what it feels like to experience it and u can't blame them cos their men will not even go there on dat.
    dats my $2 on the topic
     
  8. Joi

    Joi Code Cracker

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    na wetin carry me come here sef ? :liturgy:
     
  9. sidney

    sidney Well-Known Member

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    "I'll give you Head
    Til you're burning up
    Head
    Til you get enough
    Head
    Til you're love is red
    Head
    Love you til you're dead"

    "Head" - Prince

    :music-smi
     
  10. sidney

    sidney Well-Known Member

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    Are you going to get some?? sweat:
     
  11. Africanbeauty

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    PRO!!! Stop pretending. Its ok.:spiny:
     
  12. robeta_021

    robeta_021 Well-Known Member

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    Hehehee :bouncy
     
  13. cyndi

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    my opinion is that, loads of African brothas practice giving but they just prefer to pretend otherwise in public to their friends etc.
     
  14. bollyd

    bollyd moda b4 moda!

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    :thumbs_up: I agree with you my brother. anything to keep making my marital life hot ( interesting) and spicy, i'm so there. new ideas new stuff that's wat I'm talking about.:bananajump: :Dancing_laugh:
     
  15. bollyd

    bollyd moda b4 moda!

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    hummmmmmmmmmmmm
     
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    Field Marshal ABSOLUTE SUPREME RULER

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    If right hand wash left hand......maki left handi do de same to de right hand naw! grinning:
     
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    I know a lot of naija men that say they will neva do it to their women, but what they do behind close doors is another story….before I started dating my man, I remember how he used to tell his boys he would never do that shit…that naija men are not …..blah blah blah….. I laugh when I think about it now….he knows better….my motto has always been “ u aren’t sticking if you aren’t licking”, even now that am married
     
  18. bollyd

    bollyd moda b4 moda!

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    lol:spin2:
     
  19. kolinzo

    kolinzo Oodua4life

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    Olopa O!
     
  20. blackbutterfly

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    BBfly pulls a piece of paper out to write said advice/warning/threat down for future reference.
     
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