DUE TO THE GRAPHIC CONTENT OF THE FOLLOWING POST, READER DISCRETION IS ADVISED. IF YOU ARE EASILY OFFENDED BY OPEN DISCUSSION OF HUMAN SEXUAL BEHAVIOURS, PLEASE YOU ARE ADVISED TO HOLD ALOOF. She gave me a head... He ate me up... Before you frown your face out of proportion...hear me out. I have been wondering the reaction of African men on this issue and judging from my research, it is obvious they are okay with this when they are on the receiving end...they find it rather disgusting to 'eat up' their mates...the two things are the same so they should express disgust over both receiving head and eating up... We all know that open discussion of sex in the African society is a taboo...even though there's no written law that says so...just as it is a taboo ta get a divorce or have a child out of wed lock (ime mkpuke/ime oghom). I pointed this out because it has been said that those 'abominable' practices are of the western origin and shouldn't be embraced by Africans. I have a feeling that our ancestors practiced these but due to theuir secretive nature...nobody knew about it...I bet NONE of us has the courage to find out from our parents. Bottom line: I think a couple (preferably married) who are deeply entangled in the intricate web of affection should do anything within the horizon of human imagination to spice up their sex life. Sex, like any other thing we do in life gets boring and too monotonous when it is stripped of its flava... I'd like to get your opinion on this. P.S. You don't have to be a head giver or receiver to reply 'cause I myself am not a head receiver, neither have I 'had anyone for lunch'. Just state your opinion. Thanks.