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My Boyfriend/My Girlfriend

Discussion in 'LOVE, MARRIAGE, THE SEXES' started by mamarita, Mar 17, 2004.

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  1. mamarita

    mamarita OJODTROUBLELOVER

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    In this age where men play with girls, girls play with boys and they are all friends, what exactly would you call someone you're dating?
    And at wat point in time do you feel the time is right to make your relationship legit? As we know in this world today there's d beneficiary (if you don't know what mean jump down d river cos you're old) and the two friends that wake up one morning feeling funny things towards each other. Is it in the kiss that you know you've hit a different level of friendship?

    And is it that bad a thing when one cannot own up to being in a relationship and when you're seen with your partner, you don't know what to call them you end up just giving their names while they can confidently look their friends in the eye and call you their "lover" or whatever they choose to refer to their other partner in a relationship as?

    Did everything here make sense?
     
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    brandi Well-Known Member

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    No nada don't make sense. And I don't get the beneficiary thing. I must be old but I'm not jumping the river. But you really know from communication. Forget the kiss and the holding hands. Look first at your fellings as first stetp. Do you love him/her? if yes, then what does he/she say? If he/she says she/he loves you... then the zone is clear. But if the feeling is not mutually expressed, then I guess you can call it whatever you want. 'cause you'all could be playing yourselves.
     
  3. mamarita

    mamarita OJODTROUBLELOVER

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    Beneficiary is a fancy way of saying F**k buddie. I didn't even know they existed in Nigeria till.........lets not bring bad awful memories, but moving on.

    Now for you specially. HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN YOU'RE IN LOVE?
     
  4. Eunice27

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    mamarita i will help you out okay.

    When u are in love,
    First and foremost, i believe if the guy shows me respect as a human being and not just a woman (I will definately Love him for that)
    1 You can't get the person out of your mind
    2 You feel very comfortable around each other meaning (both of you talk about everything and you don't hide anything from eachother)
    3 He cares about you, calls you all the time and shows concern when you are hurt.
    4 When cares about you life including education, what you want out of life
    5 He doesn't force you to have sex with him except you want to
     
  5. brandi

    brandi Well-Known Member

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    Mmarita. Ah okay booty buddie, lol. The only way to know you are in love is you think about him all the time. And most especially when you're having a good time and he's not there. This is for me and every living being. Now that is the easy part. Yep! knowing you are in love is easy. The tricky part is your original question, which is when is the time right to make your relationship legit? How do you know he loves you back? That is what I meant by thru communications with him. Most of Eunice's reponse answers the other ways.

    1 You can't get the person out of your mind. this only tell you you're in love
    2 You feel very comfortable around each other meaning (both of you talk about everything and you don't hide anything from eachother)you might be in love, but he might not be, so it's not necessaryily good enough time to make it legit. Because it coul be he just likes you like a sister. What might help you to know is the quality of the everything y'all be talking about
    3 He cares about you, calls you all the time and shows concern when you are hurt. This is assuming you love him too, right. Cause this only tells you he loves you
    4 When cares about you life including education, what you want out of life. you know he loves you
    5 He doesn't force you to have sex with him except you want to. this one hard oo my sister
     
  6. lady_vexy

    lady_vexy Heart that is Sweet

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    true true
     
  7. peace0478

    peace0478 Active Member

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    Mamarita, Cher don sing am now 'If you wanna know if he loves you so, it's in his kiss, that's where it is.:o

    Don't mind me o, listen to the experts, them don talk am finish
     
  8. mamarita

    mamarita OJODTROUBLELOVER

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    Kai all this fairytale love na wan tin tin. Okay the hard part, you both play hard to get:D. And should you feel bad for not wanting to admit that he's your "partner" when you're with your friends?
     
  9. lady_vexy

    lady_vexy Heart that is Sweet

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    why?
     
  10. mamarita

    mamarita OJODTROUBLELOVER

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    Why are you two playing hard to get? Well very simple, its your "natures" and no one is ready to bend to accomodate d other. This is one of those times you just want to light a cigar and seat on your executive leather office chair and talk into an instrument, just because you can
     
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