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Multioption

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Sola said:
As for boring, I will say exactly what I have said to others who think along this line in the past. NR is just a website. Don't expect anything more from it. It will not make up for activities we can do offline. It is a website, one of a zillion. No big deal. The webmaster can fall down and die today and the site will disappear. I can go bankrupt today and the site will disappear. Life will go on.
Area Fda, You will not die, no NR member will die. We shall all live and enjoy life to the fullest. Amen. You will not go bankrupt; it will not happen by the special grace of God. Please o! You are the best in all, and your effort is greatly appreciated. I can not even do one quarter of what you're doing to keep all the sites going. God will reward you. Amen.
 

Sola

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Multioption said:
Area Fda, You will not die, no NR member will die. We shall all live and enjoy life to the fullest. Amen. You will not go bankrupt; it will not happen by the special grace of God. Please o! You are the best in all, and your effort is greatly appreciated. I can not even do one quarter of what you're doing to keep all the sites going. God will reward you. Amen.
Better be careful before you get tagged a suck up too. Its incredible how anyone wishing a moderator or the webmaster well gets labelled a suck up. Is it bad for someone to wish us well now? Is it bad for someone to comply with the rules of the place? I mean who is a suck up? Its getting on my nerves now, really? Truth be told, we ALL suck up to something or someone, off or online. If someone has what you want in real life, you do what you can to get it off them and that can be tagged sucking up. My sister and I are closer than I am to my old man...so we have a clique? Its so kindegarten, all these baseless accusations. Members can't like the moderator or the admin again without being called suck ups, but its okay for members to like other members...or you! When people like you and hail you, it is not a suck up or clique. When it is another member, it is a clique. Rather convenient, isn't it?

Ah...I'm in a crappy mood today. i need to stop before I offend my friends and members. Let me go and work on another web space. Maybe that will cheer me up...
 

Sola

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Dessy said:
Intimidating did you say? Why don't you stop being so sensitive. Yes this site is big enough and you don't need headaches like myself right? Sorry I visit too frequently o. It's amazing how you picked just my post, afterall i'm the only female picking on this guys abi?

Abeg ban we if you wan jo! Enough tip toeing around! Wetin, person no fit open mouth for this site again? Carry go abeg!
There you go... You get a little bit of truth and you get on the roof top. You did not offend me. I'm just giving you a contrary view to your POV. You're no headache, believe me. But your post first exhibited the "sensitivity" you now accuse me off. See how the shoe is on the other foot? Disagreeing with you does not keep you from opening your mouth, Dessy. And I will not ban you. Why? Cos there are things only your personality can add to this site. If you leave, I will find your number and hound you with phone calls until you come back.
 

Multioption

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Sola said:
Better be careful before you get tagged a suck up too. Its incredible how anyone wishing a moderator or the webmaster well gets labelled a suck up. Is it bad for someone to wish us well now? Is it bad for someone to comply with the rules of the place? I mean who is a suck up? Its getting on my nerves now, really? Truth be told, we ALL suck up to something or someone, off or online. If someone has what you want in real life, you do what you can to get it off them and that can be tagged sucking up. My sister and I are closer than I am to my old man...so we have a clique? Its so kindegarten, all these baseless accusations. Members can't like the moderator or the admin again without being called suck ups, but its okay for members to like other members...or you! When people like you and hail you, it is not a suck up or clique. When it is another member, it is a clique. Rather convenient, isn't it?

Ah...I'm in a crappy mood today. i need to stop before I offend my friends and members. Let me go and work on another web space. Maybe that will cheer me up...
My brother, oro na su mi o. That's why I don take style comot myself from hia, na so I dey frequent NIA forum instead.

I'm one person wey like swinging in all direction, but seeing the truth and not been able to tell without stepping on toes is betraying my personality and I will not compromise age and experience (maturity) for anything. I got your drift. The only thing be say I go appeal to all members to always consider age in all matters.

Am getting tired o. it's true we all meet on this site for fun, but does it mean we are all age mates? Can't we respect age if we can't respect intelligence? That's my concern.
 

Multioption

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Dessy said:
I must admit, NR is very addictive. If i should leave today, it will only be a plus, because it would mean my work will no longer suffer due to the unreasonable amount of time I spend on this site, my friends would not be complaining of not being able to get me on the phone as my line is usually busy. Even better is the fact that i won't be labelled and "arshi" all because I jokingly flirt with some NR males.

I have to say though that the person i'll miss most would be Crystalgirl and not any of the so called "NR super powers". Kilode gan?!
Good Lord!!!! Won't you miss me? na only Crystalgirl you go miss? :sport-smi
 

Hubscrown

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Sola said:
Ah...I'm in a crappy mood today. i need to stop before I offend my friends and members. Let me go and work on another web space. Maybe that will cheer me up...
SOLA, let me suck up to you a bit? (does that word sound right? :rolleyes: )

Anyway, what is good. I always love your candor, putting your feet down and also aware of what are you doing. You have more than every reason to be happy today. You are the best :spiny:
 

Sola

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Dessy said:
I must admit, NR is very addictive. If i should leave today, it will only be a plus, because it would mean my work will no longer suffer due to the unreasonable amount of time I spend on this site, my friends would not be complaining of not being able to get me on the phone as my line is usually busy. Even better is the fact that i won't be labelled and "arshi" all because I jokingly flirt with some NR males.

I have to say though that the person i'll miss most would be Crystalgirl and not any of the so called "NR super powers". Kilode gan?!
Whatever you do iin this life, people will label you. It is a new thing to me that you say you're getting called names. It is childish of course, but you can easily shrug that off. You know yourself and need no one's validation to live your life as you like it. If this place is getting to you negatively, it is not a prison and so anyone can leave. Yes, I don't want people living...or I wouldn't have a website anymore. But I also don't want people getting too attached so that they start expecting too much. The Mods and I are only human and can only do so much.

Now, Super-powerism is only a state of mind. We have never used it to oppress anyone (anyone thinking otherwise is free to prove it). We only use the extra power to help others and keep the peace. It is so that this place can be useful for the WIDEST RANGE of members. I almost do not post here anymore because everytime I say something, meanings are read to it. I am being driven away from this place by the same mebers I am trying to please...just so I don't offend or get in there way. Occasionally, I have to come in and speak what I consider some truth. It might not go down well, but someone has to say it. I'm not trying to be anyone's favorite. If we cannot get along civilly here, we might as well close it and move on. There are many other forums out there. I have other sites to tend.

As long as you are in a public spehere like this, you cannot always have your way. That's what I want us all to understand. We all have to sacrifice something to keep this place usable. That's life.

As I said, don't go anywhere. I won't let you anyhow...
 

Sola

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Multioption said:
Please don't let her go for reasons beyond my explanation. Cold don grip my body now now. :)
I'm going to find her number and haunther with phone calls. I will call her parents if I have to.
 

Multioption

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Sola said:
I'm going to find her number and haunther with phone calls. I will call her parents if I have to.
Thank you so much. Dessy, please don't leave o.


I better go to "Express Yourself Today" thread.



am not feeling good right now.
 

erinma

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Dessy said:
I laughed. See I used the word "if" and not "when", because i'm not ready to throw in the towel just yet. Not even the ever annoying Pete would make me do that. Sola it's amazing how you say you only make contribution when a member isn't following the rules...would you say Pete, a moderator for that matter was following the rules when he called me an "ARSHI"? Did i call anyone names on this thread? Did you scold Bluestocking? Puhlease i ain't stupid.

By the way, even if I should leave, I won't broadcast it like some people have done, i'll do it quietly and unsuspectingly but would still drop by to read the posts, however not make contributions myself. :biggrinsa

Pete, by the way you are so vain it's unbelievable! :biggrinsa (Felt i should add that)
I know say this one no concern me... but if na that one ... oh baby dont take it to heart ...no matter what ppl do, no be everyone go gree with you, flirt or no flirt, as long as you are doing your thing and happy with yourself, who cares? it wont take any thing out of your skin or add for that matter, you shouldnt just let things like this get to you!!!




besides i dont wanna lose my psychologist... :cool:
 

Sola

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Dessy said:
I laughed. See I used the word "if" and not "when", because i'm not ready to throw in the towel just yet. Not even the ever annoying Pete would make me do that. Sola it's amazing how you say you only make contribution when a member isn't following the rules...would you say Pete, a moderator for that matter was following the rules when he called me an "ARSHI"? Did i call anyone names on this thread? Did you scold Bluestocking? Puhlease i ain't stupid.

By the way, even if I should leave, I won't broadcast it like some people have done, i'll do it quietly and unsuspectingly but would still drop by to read the posts, however not make contributions myself. :biggrinsa

Pete, by the way you are so vain it's unbelievable! :biggrinsa (Felt i should add that)
I scolded You and Blue in a prior post. I addressed a post of yours specifically after that because I thought it warranted a response. Believe me, not all NR members are vocal and some do need someone to speak up for them. Pete should know as a Moderator, he has to play a balancing game and shouldn't be the instigator of conflicts. Pete, you owe Dessy an apology as she doesn't take kindly to you calling her names - even if it was in jest. Dessy, I hope you told Pete you didn't like it when you saw the post you're refering to. I have not come across it as I cannot read every thread.

The thing with forums is that people will leave daily. You shouldn't even be trying to stop it. That's life. People relocate, get busier, lose internet connection or interest, get married, priorities change... You can't make anyone stay. It isn't like you're paying them salaries to hangout with you. That's the way I see it, so I never hold on too tight to anything...Just in case I lose it. Same with all the websites. I love them and the community around them, but when you have to let go, you have to let go... That's life. Be at peace young lady. I'm done here.
 

Multioption

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If Dessy should leave peren, that means I would have to drink tea without sugar, and that won't be funny at all.

Pete, I beg una o, make you start directing all your jokes to me.
 
Laughing, the Landlord is all up, the renters are getting cold...

MCDONALD's AM LOVING IT
I read post sometimes and people make me laugh and I READ SOME AND I JUST BURST... Don't even know, if I am CRYING OR LAUGHING, I just don't know maybe ............................................................................................................................................ (My mama is always saying, oloro buruku (bad talker) doesn't say it 2 times.)
 
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