I even have the movie I had bought the book and movie together ! Tai Ikomi is now married and has more children. She has a lot of really nice books on grieving too ! I agree infact people that still have their children should just clear the way for people who have gone thru a similar experience becos ther is no way to bring comfort to such a person unless you have been thru a similar situation. My college friend lost her daughter in the crash..when people went to see him he was crying bitterly.....now u know men rarely cry but this father is crying and wailing openly. There is another family in PH that is very wealthy but after the Bellview crash they decided their kids wont fly again.So this father made the long drive to Abuja to pick up his children !!