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Story Of An Igbo Woman In Dallas

Discussion in 'LOVE, MARRIAGE, THE SEXES' started by audrey, Oct 11, 2007.

  1. Sifu

    Sifu Well-Known Member

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    I am not saying that the man was not controlling everything but if she wanted to go pay her LAST RESPECTS to her father she would have gone. If money was the main issue then she would have found a way to go. I am saying this because if a woman came to me and told me such a sad story about what her man was doing to her and how her father has died and he will not let her go to Nigeria, I don't even have to know that woman from Adam. I will find that money and give to her. I will call people up and raise that money if I did not have it. So I feel that if she wanted to go to her dads funeral, she would have borrowed that money, begged for it if she had to.
    If you are coming from the point of view that she was just so abused that she could not even consider doing something he told her not to then I will understand but from a financial standpoint............ ahah
     
  2. chi

    chi I am blessed

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    for crying out loud this lady is 38 does it men she couldn't get wise after spending 10 -13 yrs in the US.....where every body knows his/or her right ....na wah oh ... na only God know the truth and na God go judge dem
     
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  3. Papino

    Papino Well-Known Member

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    Thank you plentygrinning:
    Now that somebody just relayed my point in a compressed formatsweat:,i would rest from this thread untill more facts unfold.
     
  4. Honourable

    Honourable Mr. Naijarules!

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    Shege Babangida!!! Dis one pass me o!!!!

    Even judging from their respective stories, you can tell who is giving us some truth and who is feeding us lumps of lies!! But haba!!! Dis woman yab no be small!!!! Nwanyi a ibu ewu! So it took her 20 good years to wake up and smell the coffee??? If this all transpired in Naija, ehen I can try and understand! As we all know that our archaic African culture will give a standing ovation to the woman who dies of high blood pressure while trying to maintain a happy home and give whiplash to that woman who emancipates herself from a suffocating marriage! But not here, in obodo America where even JJCs that got shipped from the village to their "Americana husbands" wisen up after 6 months!! Haba! So if she was choked to death within those 20 years, nah who she for don dey narrate all dis tales and moonlight to??? Ehn??

    As for her husband! Any intelligent mind wey read hin own version of the tori, fit tell what calibre of man hin be!! His version of the story has said a lot about him and the situation!!! Onye nzuzu!!
     
  5. Honourable

    Honourable Mr. Naijarules!

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    I weak!!!

    Classic quote from Mr. Nnawuihe:

    "She had earlier prepared ngwo-ngwo which she served while they were visiting and for the first time, she took drinks from the storage and chilled without my knowledge or help from the kids. Usually our kids refill the refrigerator when it is empty."

    And on and on and on....!!!! Lawd have mercy!!! What manner of man is this??? So if dem dey court nah all dis "ngwo-ngwo" stories hin go dey yarn!! Dis man deserve serious koboko!! Dis one nah kolo-mentality at its peak!!! :1200:
     
  6. Papino

    Papino Well-Known Member

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    I couldn't stop laughing!!What about ..."dancing Wholesale all through the night with Dr.Okechukwu:1087:Somebody please tell me;What is that?
    I thought Europe was unbeatable with low-life local dudes but seems like they are abound in the States.Cheisweat:
     
  7. Honourable

    Honourable Mr. Naijarules!

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    Papino, that man is beyond local I swear!!! Ah! That e-mail is "unique"!! It should be archived!! Never have I read anything so ridiculously funny!! sweat:

    Imagine, "...dancing wholesale all through the night..."!!! Even talking about "ngwo-ngwo"!!! Unbelievable!! sweat:
     
  8. Papino

    Papino Well-Known Member

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    For our non-igbo NR members,"NGWO NGWO" is the 17th century name for "ISI EWU"sweat:
     
  9. NTB

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    This sad story is true. The husband fired the first shot for one igbo forum and the wife responded. Two families has gone down the drain.
     
  10. maria2004

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    Amen!!!! You said it!
     
  11. rudeboy

    rudeboy Well-Known Member

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    This WHOLESALE NGWO NGWO episode is second to none! Honourable and Papino, you guys are something else!!
     
  12. Obariba

    Obariba Koininonia

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    :laugh:
    :lol

    :2pephula:
     
  13. Obariba

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    I agree imagine him saying she did not tell him before she took drinks out of the storage to chill for the guest .... the woman really hear wien from this man ....she was sleeping with the enemy !!
     
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    Obariba Koininonia

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    Na lie na intestine not goat head !!
     
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    Obariba Koininonia

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    The wholesale part was the funniest ....poor girl was imported to a local area boy ...never even going to college .

    This is why I say folks should stop trying so hard to go abroad.
     
  16. gravity

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    This story is VERY True. The lady used to attend the same church my mother attends in Dallas. My mother heard about the women's situation outside of the web. She is just defending herself because her husband is making accusations in Dallas.
     
  17. NTB

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    All this yawa de come out now all because of OOPA election
     
  18. chi

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    u never see something ..... houston na dia headquaters.... na dia u go see man wey go carry trouseeeeee put for bellee. ......suite sef go reach knee length.......... although we have the clean ones but the local ones will make u wonder if they entered the US through the cargo section ......sweat:
     
  19. chi

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    i never see this one ...chei Honourable u go pay for my laughingitis medicine :laugh:.........i don laugh sotay my belle dey pain me :laugh:
     
  20. chi

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    abeg tell them .... na dis kin dey dey call nigerian american agboro.....sweat:
     

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