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NTB

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Okay So I want this pair of shoes and I believe I deserve it LOL. I am on a diet so I cannot eat anything I want. I have practically given up coffee. In fact this makes me cry just to think of it LOL. All I can do now is sniff the bag of ground coffee on my bedside table. I also put myself on a financial budget. I think I deserve to buy this shoe if I want to. Haba. I mean its not like I am going to go anywhere. I just leave it in my closet and look at it anyway. It just gives me great pleasure to shop for something for myself. It encourages me. The shoe is cheap too. Shoe dazzle so it will never be more than $40.00. Don't you agree that I deserve to buy it and a purse to match at some other unspecified day
I mean do I have a problem if I cannot think of anything else but these shoes and have even made it my screensaver. I know I am an unredeemable shoe whore but this is my only vice. I cannot give up everything. I am trying to convince myself that this is not a bad idea. LOL. View attachment 3860
My dear buy the shoe cause na one life we get.
 

blackpearl

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Sifu, I know it's you thread but I guess we can make it a general "Tell me it's okay" Thread :)

I am attending a wedding and I saw this two dresses when I went shopping with a friend of mine. And I bought them both. (let's better not talk about the price *clears throat*)
So I tried both of these on and they fit so perfectly well
Dress 1.jpg and Dress 2.jpg

I then started looking for an entire outfit *sigh* and ended up at ALDO and bought this clutch bag.jpg

I bought the fitting jewelery, I might need to take pictures of those and attached them into this post.

But right now i am looking for classy beautiful creamy white shoes. I need help everyone!

And yes, I need to return one of these dresses. But both of them fit me soooooooooooo well.

Which one do you guys like more?

Oh and the back of the second dress is a low cut, but still enough for someone to wear a bra but just sexy, lemme see if i find the back view of this dress.
Okay here is it back view.jpg
 

kaymax

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#53
Sifu, I know it's you thread but I guess we can make it a general "Tell me it's okay" Thread :)

I am attending a wedding and I saw this two dresses when I went shopping with a friend of mine. And I bought them both. (let's better not talk about the price *clears throat*)
So I tried both of these on and they fit so perfectly well
View attachment 3881 and View attachment 3882

I then started looking for an entire outfit *sigh* and ended up at ALDO and bought this clutch View attachment 3883

I bought the fitting jewelery, I might need to take pictures of those and attached them into this post.

But right now i am looking for classy beautiful creamy white shoes. I need help everyone!

And yes, I need to return one of these dresses. But both of them fit me soooooooooooo well.

Which one do you guys like more?

Oh and the back of the second dress is a low cut, but still enough for someone to wear a bra but just sexy, lemme see if i find the back view of this dress.
Okay here is it View attachment 3884
Okay, here is my 2 kobo, we need to see you in the dress, because I'm not feeling the dresses on either of these models, perhaps you look better in them. Secondly, is it a day or night wedding? Thirdly, love the clutch, but you have an ecru clutch with a tortoise shell rim closure and black dress, again, I need to see it. Lastly, depending on what time of day the wedding is, should you wear the either of the dresses to a day wedding, I would pop it off with some color accessories, Perhaps burnt orange or lime green, stilettos since both dresses are 'consertively sexy', but the accessories would give it an edgy finish in a subtle manner and still pop it at the same time, a very hard feat to pull, but if done right, it'll rock. If it's a night wedding, the clutch will be fine, however, I'd still do stilettos but I'd do a nude platform stiletto to tie the tortoise rim of the clutch and do perhaps pearl drop earrings or diamond studs. I would leave the neckline alone on either dress as the necklines don't need competition from a necklace, keep it simply elegant but still rock your stilettos!!!
 

blackpearl

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#54
Okay, here is my 2 kobo, we need to see you in the dress, because I'm not feeling the dresses on either of these models, perhaps you look better in them. Secondly, is it a day or night wedding? Thirdly, love the clutch, but you have an ecru clutch with a tortoise shell rim closure and black dress, again, I need to see it. Lastly, depending on what time of day the wedding is, should you wear the either of the dresses to a day wedding, I would pop it off with some color accessories, Perhaps burnt orange or lime green, stilettos since both dresses are 'consertively sexy', but the accessories would give it an edgy finish in a subtle manner and still pop it at the same time, a very hard feat to pull, but if done right, it'll rock. If it's a night wedding, the clutch will be fine, however, I'd still do stilettos but I'd do a nude platform stiletto to tie the tortoise rim of the clutch and do perhaps pearl drop earrings or diamond studs. I would leave the neckline alone on either dress as the necklines don't need competition from the necklace, keep it simply elegant but still rock you stilettos!!!
OKay, I might need to send some of yall private messages with the pictures. Yes it is an evening wedding, more like a cocktail reception AND the couple that is getting married asked for attendees to come in black. Yup, both dresses are quite conservative but I am very busty and then again the type of people that will be there, are more of the conservative type. I might end up taking both back, but i am in love with the clutch. I was thinking of burnt orange too. I know once i got the right pair of shoes, I'll be fine.
 

kaymax

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OKay, I might need to send some of yall private messages with the pictures. Yes it is an evening wedding, more like a cocktail reception AND the couple that is getting married asked for attendees to come in black. Yup, both dresses are quite conservative but I am very busty and then again the type of people that will be there, are more of the conservative type. I might end up taking both back, but i am in love with the clutch. I was thinking of burnt orange too. I know once i got the right pair of shoes, I'll be fine.
Good, you love the clutch, then we shall make that accessory your focal point. See below for where my thought process is going, perhaps you can get a burnt orange stiletto with some inlay specs to tie the dress and the clutch together:

IONA

It ties in the rim of your clutch and still has textured look to it bringing in the inlay of the dresses. something like this, but in stiletto, not a pump, but if you're feeling wild, do a peep toe. I love it because because it's bold with a subtle conservative tone, perfect for what you say the wedding is and the crowd. Plus, you need something great on your feet to draw attention away from the bust. LOL

BTW, to answer your initial question, I like the second dress better, you can do more with it because of the inlay, and I think the length is absolutely perfect, just the right 'sexy'. You can rock this dress, I'm sure.
 

blackpearl

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Good, you love the clutch, then we shall make that accessory your focal point. See below for where my thought process is going, perhaps you can get a burnt orange stiletto with some inlay specs to tie the dress and the clutch together:

IONA

It ties in the rim of your clutch and still has textured look to it bringing in the inlay of the dresses. something like this, but in stiletto, not a pump, but if you're feeling wild, do a peep toe. I love it because because it's bold with a subtle conservative tone, perfect for what you say the wedding is and the crowd. Plus, you need something great on your feet to draw attention away from the bust. LOL

BTW, to answer your initial question, I like the second dress better, you can do more with it because of the inlay, and I think the length is absolutely perfect, just the right 'sexy'. You can rock this dress, I'm sure.
Well, the clutch matter might just change. LOL
Color wise, yes we are heading into the right direction, they are just not high enough. God did not bless me with height , unfortunately :(

I saw these pair of shoes and actually love them
Dazzy Bronze : ShoePrivée

I will keep the clutch, i might just not wear it that night depending on which type of shoe i settle for.
 

kaymax

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#57
Well, the clutch matter might just change. LOL
Color wise, yes we are heading into the right direction, they are just not high enough. God did not bless me with height , unfortunately :(

I saw these pair of shoes and actually love them
Dazzy Bronze : ShoePrivée



I will keep the clutch, i might just not wear it that night depending on which type of shoe i settle for.
That's why I mentioned that they be stilettos and not the pump. If you are changing the clutch, then there is another range of options, I just think the dresses will rock with the right accessories.
 

blackpearl

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That's why I mentioned that they be stilettos and not the pump. If you are changing the clutch, then there is another range of options, I just think the dresses will rock with the right accessories.
Yup, I agree.
Funnily wise i like the first dress more than the second one. One thing is for sure i need to make up my mind cause the wedding is on Saturday. *sigh*
I am keeping my options open, concerning shoes and clutch.

And trust me to shoe can be the sickest shoes on this earth, the upper part of my body will always steal the show. And no i aint bragging LOL
 

Thickmadam

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#59
let us know the final choices.
*and i dey vex for you :angry: *
Yup, I agree.
Funnily wise i like the first dress more than the second one. One thing is for sure i need to make up my mind cause the wedding is on Saturday. *sigh*
I am keeping my options open, concerning shoes and clutch.

And trust me to shoe can be the sickest shoes on this earth, the upper part of my body will always steal the show. And no i aint bragging LOL
 

Sifu

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I prefer the second dress but I would do it without that ribbon/belt. I like the tortoise shell detail on the purse but can you carry a white purse for a formal evening affair especially with that lace. Any plain black leather clutch in your closet will do. I am so into laces right now so I adore bother dresses but I think I prefer the second one. I think since you are wearing such a lace detailed cocktail like dress that your accesories need to be more on the formal side.
 
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