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Discussion in 'LOVE, MARRIAGE, THE SEXES' started by ssergit, Jun 2, 2012.
Another problem posed in my fb group:
Some responses from other members:
All hell broke loose when I gave my own advise about sex toys and all. Iyabo came back with this response! (make una see me see drama for facebook O! lolol)
She even liked her own comment gan! lolol
And una know me, I had to respond to her!
(with 3 likes so far :D)
What do u think?
* Are sex toys demonic?
* Should she marry the man?
* What is not allowed in marriage?
Nigerians and their love for the label "demonic". It's annoying.
If the guy hid it from her till the last 3 days of the wedding, they need to talk because that is deceit. And they need to visit a medical doctor. From what I know impotency can be caused by several things. Maybe his sperm has low motility or something else but if they talk to a doctor, the doctor can recommend solutions.
This Iyabo sef..aish, ignorance should be a sin.
1,How long have you known this guy? 2,did you just found out? 3, marriage is a life time deal so are you willing to stay without the thingy?anyway if you guys really love each other,seek help or I don't think it will work you need sex companionship and you need to have children with That thingy .you have to be happy you know what I mean?
This is one of the reason some marriages are falling apart. Please get help if you love him
My advice is that.........Never marry such a guy. Sympathize with him and help him get all the help available to him but move on ASAP. Otherwise, your life would be f'cked up right away from here on out. And all you'll be doing for the rest of your life till the day you reach 99years old age na to help fix the man's problem. Imagine the amount of money & shame that would go into that. Its like falling in love with a man with f'cked up credit. DO NOT DO IT either. Otherwise, for the rest of your life na so you go dey do "e go better" while your age mates wey you go school with dey carry raw cash to go clean nyansh for toilet instead of toilet paper.
Plenty, plenty enjoyment dey happen every minute for this world o. But na only people without problems dey enjoy am. Na me tok am. I've seen dis kain thing happened over & over to good people with mai own eyes.
Bottom line of my advice be say,...help people in need, but DO NOT join them. Or your life would be f'cked up too.
Anything a Nigerian doesn't understand or makes him/her uncomfortable automatically becomes demonic, you didn't know? A youth pastor in church accused a gospel singing member of the church of being demonic because her brand of gospel music uses R & B sounds sort of like Cece and Bebe Winans, Mary-Mary, Yolanda Adams, Kirk Franklin. It's ridiculous.
It appears this is something she just found out. I will not go through with it. Life is too short for me to live the rest of my life full of regrets.
UPDATE and MORE Info:
Dina continued with this: VERY intelligent post.
J/K Sis... I agree with you.....
I love me some good lovemaking and I ain't gonna starve myself from it due to a yeye dude who don't have it right!!
Sidney!!! I miss you my paddy!!
Are you sure ? when I come dey pursue you no complain oh!!! :D :D :D
This is incest in broad day light o cuz? :roll u are three mesh cuz!
Hahahaha na so I see am oh! No be incest, na real cousinly loff be dat...:D
Listen, y'all ain't that far down south for this discussion o haba!
Cuz, u hear BBfly??? cause u start am. as I ONLY responded to Sid.
When we dey always tell people to dey test drive before committing, no so we go dey hia one yeye useless moralizing after another. You wan settle down finally (forever, if (im)possible) and you don't have a clue about what you're going to be saddled with. What kind of demonic curse is that?
It sure is far south enough for me...hahahahahaha :D :D
Abegi, no come spoyel me for my mama oh...:D