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What Do You Think Of This Scenario?

Discussion in 'LOVE, MARRIAGE, THE SEXES' started by mealone, Aug 8, 2013.

  1. mealone

    mealone Well-Known Member

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    Got this from somewhere else and found it interesting.

    Boy meets girl, he really likes her and they start talking and getting to know each other, things are looking good, After about 3 weeks/a month of talking, They realize they have a friend in common, The friend happens to be the guy's cousin(distant) and the girl's ex boyfriend, They actually had an intimate relationship at some point. This was few years ago. Now the question is Should the guy proceed in asking the girl out or should he just back off and move on? What do you think?
     
  2. Sifu

    Sifu Well-Known Member

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    Are they Nigerians??? That matters
     
  3. mealone

    mealone Well-Known Member

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    Yes i believe they are
     
  4. rudeboy

    rudeboy Well-Known Member

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    They should continue only if they are sure they REALLY want to be together, forever. If they are not sure, bobo should keep his "asking out" because the upcoming battle is going to be massive.
     
  5. Sifu

    Sifu Well-Known Member

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    It depends on the type of family he comes from. The newer generation might not care too much but the older would and that's a big deal in Nigerian culture
     
  6. tunmi

    tunmi Active Member

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    If the guy is bold enough and knows what he wants and who he wants...he should ask her. Why should there be a battle, no one owns anyone. The girl is not the property of anyone
     
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  7. His Majesty

    His Majesty The Prince & Princess

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    Well said, tunmi
     
  8. adjojata42

    adjojata42 Well-Known Member

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    Distant cousin? The guy should go ahead with the lady. If they can afford they should live in a different environment if and when they do get married.
     
  9. Sifu

    Sifu Well-Known Member

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    They have to deal with their family. It is really not about the other family member she might have been with. It is the whole family. With Nigerian families expect anything
     

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