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What He Said.....

His Majesty

The Prince & Princess
#1
A good friend of mine recently started going out with this dude. On their second date, the conversation turned to sex (personally, I have a problem with that!). Meanwhile, this dude kept saying how he wants to "be her first". Anyway, my friend told him that he wasn't gonna be her first because she has been there before. And the dude was like "well, I may not be your first but I am definitely going to be your last".

Long story short, I advised her to break up with him right away!


Was I overly judgmental?
 

keji56

Active Member
#5
Something doesn't add up. He might be the controlling red flag kind. She might need to give it a few more dates and if he is still a weirdo drop him like a bad habit. She really cannot judge just by what he has said yet. Let your friend tell you the whole truth and then you will be able to advise her better. There might be more.
 

His Majesty

The Prince & Princess
#6
Something doesn't add up. He might be the controlling red flag kind. She might need to give it a few more dates and if he is still a weirdo drop him like a bad habit. She really cannot judge just by what he has said yet. Let your friend tell you the whole truth and then you will be able to advise her better. There might be more.

Good point. But my friend is trying to give him the benefit of the doubt. She thinks that "it was his own way of telling her that he's madly in love with her". As in saying that he loves her to bits and wants to marry her so that he can have her all to himself. Can you believe that broad?!
White gurls can be too trusting when it comes to love....and often a lil naive as well. Anywayz, I told her that any dude who initiates sex talk on a second date is bad news :spiny: