A good friend of mine recently started going out with this dude. On their second date, the conversation turned to sex (personally, I have a problem with that!). Meanwhile, this dude kept saying how he wants to "be her first". Anyway, my friend told him that he wasn't gonna be her first because she has been there before. And the dude was like "well, I may not be your first but I am definitely going to be your last". Long story short, I advised her to break up with him right away! Was I overly judgmental?