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What is the right age for a lady...?

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What is the right age for a lady............................?

I was going to church for rehearsals when one of my friends called me. She told me about one of our friends that we all finished together in Secondary school 2 yrs ago. She told me that our friend Yemi has gotten married. She began to abuse and insult her saying she is too young to get married.
After she had finished talking, I told her I agree with her but when i got to church I began to wonder if Yemi is too young at 20 to get married.
Although she is still in school but her husband is taking good care of her. Infact she have her own car and a very big super market.
My question now is, what is the right age for a lady to get married?
 

toyin

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Different people mature at different times, so the right time is not an age thing but a maturity thing. You will know when the time is right.
 

toyin

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Some of my friends left Uni a decade ago and still don't feel ready to settle down while some of us have had all our kids, see what i mean:)
 

robeta_021

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I guess there isn't a specific "right age," for a lady to get married. I think if the two people have genuine strong feelings for each other, and can be able to take care of themselves without totally depending on their parents, they could get married. However, I think they should be at least 18 years old, before they decide to get married, since you are considered an adult at that age.
 
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Ronky

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Re: What is the right age for a lady............................?

Originally posted by Babbyface4love
My question now is, what is the right age for a lady to get married? [/B]

To me I believe a Lady shouldn't just rush into a marriage cos Dis is a sch u would never graduate from (except if u want 2 divorce) so if dat is D case why rush into a marriage.
My advice is CATCH ALL THE FUN U CAN WHILE U ARE STILL SINGLE.
 

mamarita

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25 ke? When you're ready u're ready, even if u're 12. So u're saying your honey proposes to u at 21, you'll tell him to wait till you're 25. Amazing
 

Sweetchocolate

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Originally posted by mamarita
25 ke? When you're ready u're ready, even if u're 12. So u're saying your honey proposes to u at 21, you'll tell him to wait till you're 25. Amazing

nah is just that i think at 25 u settled down, got jobs, got money

n ready to move on.

tha what i think
 

lady_vexy

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it doesnt hav to be a certain age 20 is infact a later for some ppl some girls get married as soo as they hit 16 cos dey blind wif love and some girls get married so dey can be able to hold onto their men:D
 

bluestocking

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there's a kind of maturity that comes with age,i don't think a person who is 20 has gotten that emotional maturity required to sustain a marriage.
all the same setting a particular age limit for ladies to get married only creates problem.cos if you say a girl should be married by the time she's 25 and she's not yet married at that age,it could make her desperate enough to marry anybody that comes her way.
 
#12
This is my opinion, no one knows what the right age for anyone to get marry. If both partners are 18 year old or older and they both truly love each other, I think they can get marry anytime they want to.
 
#13
I think when she is around 32-37yrs old,then she go don maturise.
Ladies make una try hold una man well well cos this under age full ground dey look 4 man dem go tempt to marry them. :D and these men can be something else sometimes:)
 

Pete

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Ma ppl dis one na real interesting topic. For me, a go say if marriage suppose be wetin una call am, then ppl no suppose rush into the thing at all. Age 20 and u go marry someone? Dat one na life time o, and na only God's grace go help u no get bored quick quick. People, whether female or male, suppose think of the things involved in the thing real hard; and if by any chance, seek for a good advice from someone wey don dey te for the institution - a mature strong married lady, for dem gals, and same for dem male. Me I don talk ma own finish. :)
 

mamarita

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Originally posted by Nkechi
I think when she is around 32-37yrs old,then she go don maturise.
Ladies make una try hold una man well well cos this under age full ground dey look 4 man dem go tempt to marry them. :D and these men can be something else sometimes:)
When she don roast well well shey:p
 
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AS For me,i think it's better to think very well before jumping into anything like that.

My own opinion is to make your money first,you don't have to wait for any man to father your junior ones for you.Remember you have responsibility and men can dissapoint anytime "truelove or no true love". Jumping into marriage at early age is not a good advice.

But if God says that's your destiny,i guess,if you are smart,after jumping into it,you can as well correct some little mistakes.Anywhichway it's all good.
 
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