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Wife wants me to go down there with my tongue

Discussion in 'LOVE, MARRIAGE, THE SEXES' started by Obariba, Jun 15, 2012.

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  1. Obariba

    Obariba Koininonia

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    "I am newly married but each time I and my wife makes love, she always wants me to go down there with my tongue.

    I kept giving excuses but now, it makes me feel [bad] and I am beginning to notice it. She is no longer having that s*x drive with me. I love her so much because I competed with a lot of men before I could get her to marry me.

    I don't want to go through divorce as she has threatened me with that but i know she will be serious one day with the threat, sighting different thing as the reason then divorce me.

    Is there any medical implication when one does that as she may continue to demand that. I am naive please advice."

    GOSSIP NIGERIA
     
  2. kolinzo

    kolinzo Oodua4life

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    Hmm...e get as e be.
     
  3. Field Marshal

    Field Marshal ABSOLUTE SUPREME RULER

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    Ol'boy u bera dive in there head first o, bifor someone else does. As long as she's clean down there.......why not!
     
  4. samira

    samira Well-Known Member

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    nope to the hell no....and i ain't even a man....eeeehew.


    na this be your brake lights FMdarling? :)
     
  5. Field Marshal

    Field Marshal ABSOLUTE SUPREME RULER

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    Mai Hausa Princess......Hmmm:586:
     
  6. blackpearl

    blackpearl oloju come and do

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    Did not read the whole thing but Oral sex is very normal. We shouldn't be mixing this up with any cultural thing.
    If you have ever received the "down under treatment" you will never be the same again. :)
    Try it out my friend! I agree on the hygiene part, but as long that is covered they are good to go. It's not like he would tell her not to go down there too.
    Abegi, some men sha.
     
  7. tunmi

    tunmi Active Member

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    If you don't, someone else is bound to.
     
  8. Obariba

    Obariba Koininonia

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    funny thing is when they both start doing it they wont wanna stop .....lol !!! He needs to buy a book or something :)
     
  9. vince

    vince Well-Known Member

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    Marriage is for better for worse. If his wife wants him to go down, then he should descend downwards. But he could also demand she does the same thing. He could always demand she washes up first before doing the act, for hygienic reasons.
     
  10. ssergit

    ssergit ..still The Drama Queen!

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    Hmmmm.....interesting thread.
    The man na MUMU! Another man go tap his palm wine! Let him be snoozing, he'll soon be lozing! hee hee hee
     
  11. Village-Boi

    Village-Boi Well-Known Member

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    The percentage of black men that totally deny drinking from the 'furry cup' is very high; ask their girls and na different story you go hear. For those men that don't you're never keeping a woman cos if you ain't nibbling on that wee-lil-bean someone else 1001% definitely is.
     
  12. samira

    samira Well-Known Member

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    All this if he does not someone else will. Then let someone take care of it...he can also move on to another girl who is on the same page with him. but make sure you and the new girl like the same things before u marry am.
     
  13. vince

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    And how will that be possible without test driving first?
     
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    vince Well-Known Member

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    And that is why born agains should be high in demand. no be by force to go down. Dat na acquired western habit. We do not have to do everything westerners do in their bedrooms.
     
  15. Village-Boi

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    It's def not a 'western' invention (fair enough they decided to film it to make money selling the 'product' called porn) but it's an animal instinct that humans (also being animals) have been involved in from cave-times!
     
  16. samira

    samira Well-Known Member

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    I meant, being on the same page and both of them liking the same stuff.
     
  17. vince

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    I seriously doubt that, VB. The only animal instinct Africans have when it comes to sex that i know of is having sex in the missionary position. One might add the doggy style position while standing to that, but i do not believe we do cunnilingus or fellatio. Oyinbo brought those into our sex repertoire.
     
  18. mimi victor

    mimi victor Well-Known Member

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    The day that lady get that craving met by somebody else, Mr man should be expecting a note from dumpville.
     
  19. Gen Sani Abacha

    Gen Sani Abacha SUPREME DICTATOR

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    How do you know married born agains don't go down ? Abi dem nefa go down bifor dem born again ne ? Shebi dem go dey continue after marriage now...
     
  20. Village-Boi

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    Long before oyinbo even knew there was a continent to be called Africa... we humans the world over have sexually been as naughty as Sodom & Gomorrah. But then again we Africans too like to claim how butter no dey melt for our mouth.
     
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