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Would you marry someone you met on NR?

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Meddeen250 said:
I know a member on NR who has a huge crush on another member, he's always telling me how much he loves this member. So I was thinking and decided to ask; will you guys marry someone you met on NR?

May be one day it shall be history on N.R when we shall see men & women marrying ,N.R.being the garden of Eden these couples meet or met.

Only honesty, guenuine, true love & perseverence to the Almighty God should come from the bottom of ur heart.
 
Wilfred Ntaila said:
May be one day it shall be history on N.R when we shall see men & women marrying ,N.R.being the garden of Eden these couples meet or met.

Only honesty, guenuine, true love & perseverence to the Almighty God should come from the bottom of ur heart.
It'll be interesting indeed to see an NR pair-up. :biggrinsa
 
Gen Sani Abacha said:
It'll be interesting indeed to see an NR pair-up. :biggrinsa

But you should not be include in that pair-up. You don't even know your online lover, you dis woman wraper. Abeg comot for road jo. :sport-smi
 
Meddeen250 said:
But you should not be include in that pair-up. You don't even know your online lover, you dis woman wraper. Abeg comot for road jo. :sport-smi
Yeye boy, ah nor get any online lofas ofa hia!
Na yu dey come hia faini madam, so kari go and face ya lofa, yu no efun sabi say na mai lirrul sistas dem, wey I dey fond of! Gerrout jare!!! :knuck
 

paj

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hehehe.....

....anything could happen anywhere...U juss neffa know.. smokin: to emphatically say NO could be selfdefeating.. smokin: una tink sey na only Church partner dey? rolleye:
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nk'iru

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Okestra007 said:
NR, match.com, collegeluv.com, or dates.com what's the difference? It's all online! Yes, I the setup is right and the everything click, I sure could.


i imagine...
 
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unbridledsong

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Bolanle dear, You are very wise and do have a critical mind,i admire that, in a nutshell my advise in summary concerning my earlier opinion is that "IT IS SAFER THAT WE ALL TRY TO TAKE OUR NEWLY FOUND RELATIONSHIPS A STEP BEYOUND THE NET AND ALSO TEST AND TRY THEM OUT BEFORE CONDECENDING. it is wiser to test for the temperature of a swiming pool with only one leg...most people go with two legs at a time and by this they are at the mercy of whatever extremes of temperature the find themselves in,wether boiling hot or freezing cold.by then u are already in and burnt and its already too late.....thats what happens to u when u fall in love, u never leave a leg outside the pool , u just go both legs in and hence all your body is hurt. NEVER TOO FAR AWAY TO LISTEN TO YOU. .... unbridledsong.
be careful thats all........
i never mearnt dontdo it , just be careful......
 
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unbridledsong

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bolanle said:
EWO! This ya love and falling in love is confusing - no be small!
Anyways what is love then? And ehmmm some people met online and got married. So it does work in some cases. Of course you got some things right.
People (and NOT only MEN) tell you what you want to hear.
You don't only communicate online. You get to meet the person too. So i guess someone can still make up his/her mind.

Bolanle, You need not be confused on the differrence between Loving someone and falling in love with the same person...they both sound and look the same but have soft differences 1.Falling in love is a short term feeling while Loving someone is a long term feeling......u can fall in love with someone within a day or two but u can never truely love someone within a short period. most young girls might be in love with 2face Idibia now, but they cant say they truely love him because they dont know him.have u ever asked why the average teenager girl likes Ramsey noah and dislikes Segun arinze (put their looks aside)? yet most ppl have never met them face to face...hmmm.... let me open your eyes to what people fall in love with in people and what they love about people.......I call them neccessities and sufficiencies. some artributes are neccessary to possess to have a lovely relationship but are not sufficient to keep the relationship long lasting. Neccesities can only secure u a relationship faster than another person but it isnt sure to keep u in it long enough.WHAT are NESSECITIES AND SUFFICIENCIES.....N are your phisical features,possesions,qualifications,fame and *persona*.....the TALL DARK and HANDSOME, the lepa african Queen,beautiful skin,CASH,your car,apartment,FAMILY,fame,land,handset,barfs,potential to travel out and skills at switching from one personality to another.all these endowments can only take u as far as they decide to stay with u...they all got wings and can always fly away one day. ..they are inportant though,but never u relax and say all ur problems are settled withing the comfort of all these 3rd dimentional gifts of life.
SUFFICIENCIES..(4TH dimention).......the are soft, and not so apparent,metaphisical qualities or disqualities that can keep ur relationship going for years. they can also pull down any strong relationship if the negative is possesd. THEY are your character,temperament,emotional anchorage and maturity,your centre or paradigm to life, life long embraced personality style . u can well survive for sometime on the NECCESITIES but u can never make it too far if u neglect building positive metaphisical qualities that will be SUFFICIENT to preserve your relationships, these are what makes people LOVE YOU TRUELY, mind you it is very possible that u can grow from falling in love with a person to truely loving that person but u can never achieve this feat if all you relly on is the NECCESITIES...........never too far away to listen.. UNBRIDLEDSONG!
 

grafikdon

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unbridledsong said:
Bolanle, You need not be confused on the differrence between Loving someone and falling in love with the same person...they both sound and look the same but have soft differences 1.Falling in love is a short term feeling while Loving someone is a long term feeling......u can fall in love with someone within a day or two but u can never truely love someone within a short period. most young girls might be in love with 2face Idibia now, but they cant say they truely love him because they dont know him.have u ever asked why the average teenager girl likes Ramsey noah and dislikes Segun arinze (put their looks aside)? yet most ppl have never met them face to face...hmmm.... let me open your eyes to what people fall in love with in people and what they love about people.......I call them neccessities and sufficiencies. some artributes are neccessary to possess to have a lovely relationship but are not sufficient to keep the relationship long lasting. Neccesities can only secure u a relationship faster than another person but it isnt sure to keep u in it long enough.WHAT are NESSECITIES AND SUFFICIENCIES.....N are your phisical features,possesions,qualifications,fame and *persona*.....the TALL DARK and HANDSOME, the lepa african Queen,beautiful skin,CASH,your car,apartment,FAMILY,fame,land,handset,barfs,potential to travel out and skills at switching from one personality to another.all these endowments can only take u as far as they decide to stay with u...they all got wings and can always fly away one day. ..they are inportant though,but never u relax and say all ur problems are settled withing the comfort of all these 3rd dimentional gifts of life.
SUFFICIENCIES..(4TH dimention).......the are soft, and not so apparent,metaphisical qualities or disqualities that can keep ur relationship going for years. they can also pull down any strong relationship if the negative is possesd. THEY are your character,temperament,emotional anchorage and maturity,your centre or paradigm to life, life long embraced personality style . u can well survive for sometime on the NECCESITIES but u can never make it too far if u neglect building positive metaphisical qualities that will be SUFFICIENT to preserve your relationships, these are what makes people LOVE YOU TRUELY, mind you it is very possible that u can grow from falling in love with a person to truely loving that person but u can never achieve this feat if all you relly on is the NECCESITIES...........never too far away to listen.. UNBRIDLEDSONG!

Ol boy with all these metaphysical this metaphycical that...you sound more like my uncle, which brings me to the question...are you a ROSICRUCIAN?
 
grafikdon said:
Ol boy with all these metaphysical this metaphycical that...you sound more like my uncle, which brings me to the question...are you a ROSICRUCIAN?
O'l boy, yu and dis Rosicrusians sef! Grafik yu sure say yu nefa join dem yet ? :biggrinsa
Yu wan mek I tell yu w3ho yu be for ya past laifu ? Enter the akashic psychic record to go and see!!! :biggrinsa
Disclaimer: I do not subscribe to any of these occultic/mystic philosophies. My faith is firmly planted in Jesus Christ, my Lord and Saviour, Bless his name, AMEN. :spin2:
 

grafikdon

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Gen Sani Abacha said:
O'l boy, yu and dis Rosicrusians sef! Grafik yu sure say yu nefa join dem yet ? :biggrinsa
Yu wan mek I tell yu w3ho yu be for ya past laifu ? Enter the akashic psychic record to go and see!!! :biggrinsa
Disclaimer: I do not subscribe to any of these occultic/mystic philosophies. My faith is firmly planted in Jesus Christ, my Lord and Saviour, Bless his name, AMEN. :spin2:
:roll LOL...generalu...I didn't join them, I am just too curious. I know folks from almost every religion or 'non religion' and I always like to know what the heck they are all about before I jump into any wrong conclusion o. Na so I be o.
 
grafikdon said:
:roll LOL...generalu...I didn't join them, I am just too curious. I know folks from almost every religion or 'non religion' and I always like to know what the heck they are all about before I jump into any wrong conclusion o. Na so I be o.
I know o mai padi, I jus' dey pullulation ya legs nao. You know me for that now abi ? :biggrinsa
Hope all is well with you sha ?
Stay blessed.
 
Meddeen250 said:
I know a member on NR who has a huge crush on another member, he's always telling me how much he loves this member. So I was thinking and decided to ask; will you guys marry someone you met on NR?




MAYBE,IT DEPENDS!! fdev: sport-s:
 
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samira

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As we communicate here in cyberspace, it is natural to like someone's personality and want to meet the person in the real world. Upon meeting him, if there is an attraction, why not? I do not think where you meet the person is that important. What is important is if there was/is an attraction? If there is, I will say go for it.

Life is too short and good men are hard to find these days!

In the coming years, I bet you, cyberspace dating will become very popular even in Africa where some think it’s a taboo to do so now.
 
samira said:
As we communicate here in cyberspace, it is natural to like someone's personality and want to meet the person in the real world. Upon meeting him, if there is an attraction, why not? I do not think where you meet the person is that important. What is important is if there was/is an attraction? If there is, I will say go for it.

Life is too short and good men are hard to find these days!

In the coming years, I bet you, cyberspace dating will become very popular even in Africa where some think it’s a taboo to do so now.






you gave the answer dear. :)
 
brenda17 said:
oops,ma bad,meddeen,sorry ma last reply was outta point.ehen,as i was saying,y d'ya wanna know what it depends on?wanna marry me?

I was just curious my dear.
My NR darling is reading this, so don't get me in trouble o. :roll
 
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