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Your friend, or the guy

Discussion in 'LOVE, MARRIAGE, THE SEXES' started by Pearl80, Feb 10, 2005.

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  1. Pearl80

    Pearl80 stuckonyou

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    This guy is toasting you,(and u kind of like him) and on one of your dates you ask a friend of yours(girl) to accompany you. At the end of the date you ask the guy to drop you off first and drop your friend later. It later filters to you that the guy asked your friend out and she's been seen with him somewhere.
    Qweshon: Will u cut links wiv ur friend, the guy, or both?
    I need answers people. It happened to ............well, someone i know. :)
     
  2. lola_americana

    lola_americana i'M bRinGinG sExYBacK!!!!

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    gurl snip snip bof of them you don't need a friend you can't trust 100% and you don't need a man you can't trust you are better of without both of them. another thing please please and please don't fight her over him...you are a woman of pride and dignity, no man is worth fighting over and like my mama says he's not yours if your have to fight over him
     
  3. Dessy

    Dessy Guest

    How about staying friends with them both? This goes to show that the guy wasn't really interested in you perhaps.
     
  4. Pearl80

    Pearl80 stuckonyou

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    .......in other words?
     
  5. erinma

    erinma Arealbadnewstofakers!

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    hey i should say cut them off... what the hell was he thinking asking me out and then going behind to see my friend... and your friend... no! no!! no!!!... i wouldnt do that to some one i call a friend... so personally she is not your friend.. and as for the boy... hell!!! he was never serious when he asked you out cos if he was... girlie... he wont be seeing your friend behind you.

    and gurl if you are like me... ok... i like him and want him, he showed some kind of interest in me... hell amma get him... two or three can play the game... or let the best gurl win

    btw... dont be like me... it can be dangerous.
     
  6. erinma

    erinma Arealbadnewstofakers!

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    Baby.. if the guy wants to play games... Gurl I love games...
     
  7. mamarita

    mamarita OJODTROUBLELOVER

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    Quick question? Did the friend know that the guy was toasting you and you were sought of interested in him? If yes, she's a bad friend, that sort of friend cannot be trusted with your husband! CUT HER OFF....If No! Cut ur looses and be friends.


    Now the guy! If it hurts to be friends with him, don't cut him off or keep in touch. That way if u see him on d road u can say hello. BUT WHATEVER YOU DO, IF HE COMES BACK RUNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN
     
  8. keita

    keita keita de ex-face

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    Temptation

    It happened all the time n de temptation to rock ur galfriends' friend is too powerful for weak men
    ah ha not all men eh? but weak men

    it gets dem more excited cause its not a normal thing to do and God knows how junior like to pop strong when its not where its suppose to play

    But all said and done its very wrong to have sex with two friends cause its like putting a knife to the strings that attach them even if they dont fight over it but there will never be trust n self confidence between them
    they will become enemies-or shy friends
    There friendship will be borring

    If my hommy have it with my boo damned she aint de right boo for me so what cut em off but that doesnt mean i will plan revenge or hate

    But i will creat distance between us
    when we meet it will be like
    hi hi
    bye bye

    haha
    its has never happen to me anyway its just assuming
     
  9. khamileon

    khamileon Well-Known Member

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    So why didnt u agree since the guy is toasting u and u like him??.....why y'all gats to wait till u loose him??.....When u like a guy let him know at once so u can start kicking it..... see what takig ur time can cause....yep thats all i gotsa say
     
  10. bolanle

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    I have some questions before i can answer this.

    Does ya girl know that you like him and that he is toasting you?
    Secondly why would you take ya girl along to your own date?
     
  11. Pearl80

    Pearl80 stuckonyou

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    Hmm,..
    @Lola americana :tufiakwa for me to fight over a guy.U're right girl, it's the last thing to do.

    @Erinma :That kind of friend is definitely not a good one, but i'm wondering whether to act cool,u know, like it's no big deal, and keep seeing her occasionally. And girl, i no know say u like to play games, which one u prefer, Ludo or scrabble :biggrinsa

    @Mamarita :Yes the friend was aware from the start.

    @Keita:Slow down, no body's having sex wiv any body yet :) . Ur advice is well noted though. Just curious,r u a lady or a guy

    @Khami :Nice to "talk" to u finally,cos it's the first time am doing so.BTW, am a fan of urs. To answer ur qweshon, it's not a matter of playing hard to get but, just plain old caution. U dont jump into a guy's arms soon as he declares his intentions now do u?Well thats my opinion, n it's saved me trouble cos the guy's not even worth it.

    @Bolanle : No the girl doesnt know. But of course she knows he's toasting. And secondly she came along as a chaperone, old fashioned as that may sound :)
     
  12. jna

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    i would say cut them both off. i have learned over the years once someone crosses you like that cut them off and keep a steppin :)
     
  13. angeleyez

    angeleyez angeleyez

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    I will cut the two of the off. If my friend had come to me to explain I would have understood and gave my blessings but behind my back. I no wan make she come steal my husband if the two timing B**** can do something that low behind my back.
     
  14. kolinzo

    kolinzo Oodua4life

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    Why cutting them off? Shooot...it's all good! Next time is my turn baby!
     
  15. Okestra007

    Okestra007 Mr. Lover Man

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    For go the nigga of course. Stick with your friend mami, but make her aware of the situation.
     
  16. Pearl80

    Pearl80 stuckonyou

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    U mean a threesome is good?
     
  17. kolinzo

    kolinzo Oodua4life

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    Naa! I mean I'll let the situation go, we bois right! But he best believe i'll be cockblockin' every gurls he tries to talk to from then on! Unless he marries the one he took from me!
     
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